Monthly Archives: March 2014

March 22, 1944

Dart’s letter is an unusual one, spurred in part by the note Cathie wrote inside the envelope of Dot’s recent letter. The contents apparently pleased Dart greatly, leading him to think (or hope) that Dot had something to do with their authorship. If she didn’t, he’s keeping her – and us – guessing.

Then, in response to Dot’s query about how he writes such interesting letters, he launches into a long, mostly tongue-in-cheek discourse about the mechanics of letter-writing.  My favorite part was “Often the train of thought is sidetracked to let a carload of dreams, reminiscences, or amorous thoughts and phrases go by…After all irrelevant thoughts are given mute appearance on the paper, the day’s news is set forth.”

He confesses he is intrigued by the letters Dot has written that he cannot read until she’s 21, and he signs the letter “All the love in the world.”

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Here’s a quick note fired off before Dot begins her homework. The gist of it is a celebration of spring. “In the spring, a young man’s fancy turns to what the girls have been thinking about all winter!”

She warns that with school work piling up, her letters may thin out for a few weeks, but her thoughts of him are constant.

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March 23, 1944

What a long and interesting letter from Dart today! In response to Dot’s “interview questions” on his philosophy and belief system, Dart waxed eloquent for nearly 10 pages.

Before discussing the main topic of the letter, however, he assures Dot that she needn’t worry too much about his temper tantrums. He hasn’t had one in quite a while, he has learned other methods for venting his spleen, and “The less said about the subject, the better. After all, I’m trying to sell you something, (namely, me) and what salesman is going to build up the bad points of his product?”

I especially like Dart’s argument about right and wrong – maybe because it so closely aligns with my own views. Anyway, everything he had to say on a variety of topics is well worth the read.

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Dot’s letter is another brief typed one as she tries to practice her burgeoning skill. The letter was inspired by the long typed letter she received from her sister Eleanor that day. They are challenging each other to practice more often.

The main news is really Eleanor’s news that she is in love with a “big chunk of GI,” a corpsman in the Medical Corps and a medical student. We’ll hear more about that romance as time goes by.

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March 24, 1944

Dart’s offering today is brief because he was swamped with eight letters and a package at mail call today. He is most appreciative of her “terse” messages inside the envelopes of the letters. I’d love to know what those messages were like, but I mustn’t be greedy. It’s enough that time has spared the letters themselves, even if the envelopes are lost.

The doctor has prescribed several more days of bed rest before Dart can begin the process of walking again. He sounds discouraged and is bracing himself for the fact that he is unlikely to see Dot before she leaves campus for the summer.

He added his retort to the little ditties Dot included about spring and kissing: Kissing spreads disease, it’s said, but this is seldom seen. The heat that is developed thus kills germs that pass between. After that, and having read Dot’s mother’s poem about spring, he decided to “yield the poet’s honors to Mrs. Chamberlain from Greenwich.”

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Wow – this is an odd letter from Dot. She seems a little miffed that Dart suspects she was somehow in on the letter Cathie wrote inside the recent envelope. She swears again that she has no idea what her roommate wrote.

She started to tell Dart about the high praise the senior class received today from Mr. Hibschman, when the letter was co-opted once again by Cathie. (Dot had gone out to play a little baseball.) Since this particular letter is typed, there’s no way to judge by the handwriting. Anyway, when Dot returned to the letter, she was angry that Cathie had messed it up and she believes that Dart will once again think Dot was pretending to be Cathie. The letter ended rather abruptly.

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March 25, 1944

This is a short, sweetly intimate letter from Dart. He was happy to receive her typed letter, but it doesn’t feel as personal as her hand-lettered one.

He comments on Eleanor’s new love interest – and how tall he is reported to be. Dart fears that all of this “would-be” family will make him feel like a dwarf at something over six feet tall. He asks Dot if she has quit growing because after the war he wouldn’t really like to be walking around with a giantess, although it would be fine with him if the giantess were her. He thinks she’s the ideal height now.) I suspect he thinks nearly everything about her is ideal.)

He says there isn’t much news, but he could easily become involved in some very sentimental, passionate phrases. He tells he that often when he thinks of how much he wants to spend time with her, he gets even lonelier.

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March 26, 1944

Dart’s letter today is a little odd and confusing – a natural outcome of all the secret and co-opted letters from Dot and her roommates recently. He admits that Cathie wrote something inside the envelope about Dot loving him. Since Dot had already told him that, it didn’t come as news, but he was happy to see it confirmed, in writing, by another source. Reading Dot’s declarations of love and knowing he returns the feeling is one of his greatest thrills these days.

He asked the doctor today if there was any chance he could be home by late April, and the doc confirmed there was a chance. Everything now is trial and error to see if his leg has healed from the phlebitis.

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Dot spent a lazy Sunday afternoon on her bed, reading magazines and listening to the radio. That’ll be the last lazy day for a while if she plans to have her school work completed and approved in time for a May 17th departure.

She received a letter from the Marine. He wrote about his luck in having been chosen to have dinner with none other than Ronald Coleman! Dot must have been so impressed. She writes that Jim (the Marine) writes an amusing letter, but that he is the most pessimistic person she’s ever known. That wouldn’t have much appeal to a girl like Dot. See, this is one example of how much we can learn about another person through letters. I often hear folks say that they find it remarkable that nearly all of my parents’ courtship was via letters. They question how well folks can really know each other that way. I think these letters demonstrate just how clearly someone’s personality is expressed through writing.

Speaking of which, Dot was very interested in Dart’s recent “philosophy” masterpiece. She loved learning more about what made him tick, even though she claims he is a much deeper thinker than she is.

She warned Dart again that she will be cutting back on writing soon to focus on school work. She pleaded with him to keep so busy getting better that he wouldn’t notice the absence of her letters. She closed by telling how embarrassed she was that she choked on the communion grape juice in church that morning.

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March 27, 1944

One-hundred five words is all Dart could manage today. He has bad news, but he is not telling Dot what it is – he’s hoping it will pass.

Also, if he is not well in 27 days he can be given a medical discharge from the Navy, which he does not want.

He sends his love.

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Dot liked Dart’s “poem” about kissin’, but since she hasn’t “mastered the art,” she’s unsure if the poem is true. She does recall one kiss in particular ‘though…

She asked Dart whether the Yanks or the Rebs won the battle over the ward’s radio. She explains that there is war raging in her room and she cannot understand why four seniors cannot get along without throwing tantrums. Andy seems to fly off the handle much faster than the others, and is slow to “fly back onto the handle.” Dot thinks everyone’s nerves are raw because they all want school to be over.

Continuing an on-going point of conversation, she agrees that the Chamberlain clan is a tall one. She is disappointed to be the shortest member of her family.  She writes that it was always her ambition to be 5’8″, but she meant tall – not wide. Then she goes on a rant about how Dart should face facts that she is not really “right-sized.” She bears the scars of her brother’s merciless teasing about how fat she is, and says she can take the truth from Dart. (Note to readers: Dot was NOT fat! She was certainly curvy, and always had a soft, hour-glass figure. But, as in so many other aspects of herself, she was self-conscious about her looks.)

She commiserates with Dart about being lonely, homesick and sometimes “lovesick.” She mentions a period about a year before when she had a crush on a college friend of her sister’s. They corresponded for a short time, although he never indicated any special feelings for Dot. He entered the Army and no one has heard from him since. She writes “This year, I do get very lonely, and I don’t mean for Mom to come tuck me in.”

She signs off with “Yours til I’m as thin as you are, and at the rate we’re both going, that’ll be forever.”

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March 28, 1944

Dart hints in the opening paragraph of good news awaiting Dot later in this letter. Then, he starts on a point-by-point response to her recent letters.

Near the end of the second page, he gets to the crux of things. He still refuses to tell her the bad news he alluded to yesterday, but he has two bits of positive information to report. The first is that he was up and about today and his leg seems to be better. Now he can focus very hard on getting well so that he might be able to see her before she leaves Ohio for several months in about a month. He also reported that he received a more than $80 refund from the IRS – big money in 1944!

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Dot thanks Dart for telling him what Cathie wrote. She finds it much easier to write about such feelings than to say them face-to-face. She hopes like anything that she’ll get to see him soon, but if she is too shy to tell him what’s in her heart, she hopes her letters have made it clear. She is so eager for him to get home for a visit, and doesn’t want to be disappointed.

She writes that she likes his sense of humor because it tends to run to the sarcastic side – just like hers.

She confesses to hating her job assignment as manager of the school store, and she admits that she feels like “blazes.” She’s not asking for sympathy from him – she just needs to get some sleep. And she wants Dart to come home!

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March 29, 1944

Dart disavows any claim of having “mastered the art” of kissing, but he recalls the same kiss Dot does and believes that’s a good basis for his poem.

The Rebs have won the war between the states that is being waged within the ward, but Nurse Meany has confiscated the radio for a few days cooling off period.

He agrees that nerves can sometimes get a little rough. He’s in a bad state right now. “Seems as if I’m losing my grip on things. The blue days are coming closer together, the humor’s getting stale and little green things seem to be running up and down my spine half the time! Oh, to the depths of perdition with everything except you and me.”

He riffs on himself coming from hearty stock, but he is the exception. Shorter than much of his family, and far too skinny to boot. “You’d think that with so little flesh covering my innards, that every bite I eat would make a lump.”

He emphatically denies that he was razzing Dot about her weight. He likes her just the way she is, and even if she’s not as tiny as the girl he dreamed he’d fall in love with, she’s the prettiest girl he’s ever dated. Besides that, they seem quite congenial in their letters. He hopes they’ll be just as congenial in person for many years to come. He recalls once reading a poem with the general thought that women often insult the taste of their male companions by contradicting the complimentary remarks the fellows make.

He comments on her revelation that she’d had a “torrid” unrequited crush a while back. He, too, had such a heart-breaking affair until the lady in question told him six times in a letter to go to hell six different ways.

Well, now that he’s come to page six of this letter, it’s time to reveal the news she’s been waiting for: First, he’s still up and about and his leg shows no ill-effect. That’s good. However, his surgical wound healed too fast, became infected and burst open recently. That’s bad. Tomorrow he’ll be transferred to the infected surgical ward. “No telling what they will do to or for me there, but I’m not any too anxious to experience any more experiences in the surgery ward.”

He then says that either something very wonderful must happen to him soon, or he is now paying for all the good things he’s already had in his life (or all the cuss words he’s used). On top of his health issues, his sea bag containing his personal belongings and Dot’s picture, has been lost without a trace. It was left behind in the barracks when he was transported via ambulance to the hospital weeks ago. Apparently, when his class completed boot camp, his sea bag was misplaced in the vast bowels of a major military installation.

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Dot is astounded that Dart has had another reversal in his health status . She fervently hopes he doesn’t receive a medical discharge. She also hopes she’ll be able to see him soon.

She had a letter from her friend Cynthia who is in Ohio to study piano at Oberlin. She’ll be in Cleveland over Easter and Dot is truly looking forward to seeing her. She always feels better after a visit with Cynthia because she’s so jolly and has a friendly word for everyone. I have fond memories of Cynthia when I was younger. She and Mom remained friends and I counted myself among Cynthia’s legions of fans. She had a laugh that could be heard for miles and got a huge kick out of life. She died far too young.

There’s not much more news from Willoughby, except that the weather has been extremely windy. It reminded Dot of the terrible hurricane she witnessed in New England in 1938.

She’s running behind on her store manager duties, so she must close and catch up.

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March 30, 1944

This is a short and despondent letter from Dart, written from a new ward at Great Lakes Naval Hospital. There are several cases like his in the ward and his new doctor describes his case as “quite a mess.” Still no word on what happens next.

Shortly after arriving by Packard ambulance, Dart was dressed in his uniform (blues) for the first time since January 25, and allowed outside on his own two feet to go to the post office. In spite of the progress he’s made with the phlebitis, the setback with his cyst surgery has truly beaten this boy down.

He remarks that Dot’s latest letter left little to comment on, and he’s not in much of a mood to comment anyway. As always, he sends her his love.

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March 31, 1944

Well, it’s a new day and Dart is in a different mood from yesterday. Is it because he’s had a chance to get used to his new situation? Does he find this ward to his liking? Or is this just his natural optimism gaining the upper hand? Dart credits his improved spirits to Dot’s faithfulness in writing.

But his venue has also improved. He has almost absolute freedom to explore the campus. The canteen has impressive amenities like stage shows, movie theater, and a barber shop. But best of all, the ward has no double deck beds! Can you imagine bunk beds in a hospital ward?

Dart seems to be in awe of all the junior officers on his ward who have been wounded in combat or are highly decorated with medals, stars and campaign ribbons.

He sent his parents some of the snapshots Dot had sent him earlier, just so they could see what she looks like. They were both full of high praise for her and are eager to meet her soon. He hopes that can be arranged before she’s out of school.

Dart is certain he will not be home before Dot leaves the Cleveland area for the summer. Such a bitter pill for them both, but he is trying not to be too disappointed. He looks forward to the day that he can tell her in person the feelings they are both more comfortable expressing in writing.

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