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May 16, 1944

Since Dot’s letter yesterday spanned two days, Dart’s is the only one we have today.

But what a letter it is! It seems Dart’s gift for prose was at its best when he was reminiscing about his carefree youth in Cleveland. Tonight, the hot spring air of Chicago has drawn him back to fond memories of long “night-owl prowls” with some of his buddies all over the Lake Erie shoreline and beyond.

With poetic acuity, he conjures the odors and aromas of city and suburbs, industry and agriculture. He recalls the feel of the highway beneath the car, the headiness of freedom. Anyone who has ever experienced one of those endless nights of conversation and exploration that seem to only come in young adulthood, will feel themselves pulled into their own familar memories.

This letter is a treat for the senses. But my favorite part is the final paragraph: “My letters  may be big, Dot, but my love for you is bigger. Memory is long, but my love for you will outlive memory.”

After this dear man had lost the memory of names and places, after he had lost his memory of words, his love for this woman endured. The greatest privilege of my life was getting to witness that.

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May 17, 1944

Dart writes a sympathetic letter concerning Dot’s achy feet. He wishes for her a job in Greenwich where she can stand for long hours on a soft floor.

He’s glad she likes Ohio and says, not very cryptically, that he has hopes they have a future together in Ohio.

He talks a bit about El’s finace, Don. He hopes Dot’s family will like him as much as they seem to like Don, but it’s hard to top a Dean’s List from medical school. He asks when El and Don plan to marry and then says something about having plans of his own, but needing to wait until they know each other better before he can mention them. Still, he can dream, can’t he?

He mentions how kind the nurses from his former ward have been. He received a card from one and a visit from two others. I suspect they’ve all taken an extra smidgen of concern for this handsome young sailor who can’t seem to find a way out of the hospital.

There is a touching paragraph where Dart ponders his eventual reunion with Dot. His thoughts get as far as the tight embrace and luscious kiss, and he wants to hold his imagination right there. He misses her in such a viseral way that he can think of almost nothing else.

His P. S. reveals that he suspects the mumps have spread to his left jaw. He dreads the swelling and discomfort that will follow. (Not to mention the extended stay in the hospital!)

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Dot was gleeful that her letter from Dart was eight pages long, while the one he wrote her mother was only four. Her mother suggested they swap letters so that each could see what he’d written to the other. Dot didn’t fall for that line.

She says that his work in the wood shop sounds like it might have been fun, and a good way to take his mind off his troubles. She promises to swallow her pride and send an outline of her less-than-dainty feet so he can make a pair of shower slippers.

She’s sorry his friend will not be able to stop by for a visit, but she has an idea of how he might get visitors, if he’d like. There are three girls he met at Andrews School who are working and sharing an apartment in Chicago. They’ve offered to pay him a call if Dot can get specific instructions about how they’d find him.

She reports that she likes her job better each day, but she’s nervous about going in tomorrow. The manager and only other employee of her department left on a two-month vacation, so Dot will be alone and in charge during her absence. The woman is going to Texas to spend time with her husband before he ships off to war. That little statement served to remind me how nearly everyone is in some way impacted by the war. What sacrifices this whole country made during the long war years!

Because she keeps Dart’s picture in her bedroom, she doesn’t give many people an opportunity to comment on it. She tells him that when she sleeps, he is just two feet away. She’s sure that’s why she has such wonderful dreams.

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May 18, 1944

Dart’s mail delivery has finally caught up with him, bringing Dot’s postcard, greeting card, and letter, plus two letters from his mother and two more from friends. He’s thrilled with her news of landing a great job with good hours.

He asked her to check her records to see if she was at the World’s Fair the same day he was on July 18, 1939. What fun to think their stars might have aligned way back then so they might meet!

Dart echos Dot’s thought that he nearly did not accept that blind date to Andrews. “It scares me when I think of how much I almost didn’t meet you,” he writes. He goes on to say that Lois, his date for that fateful evening, gets his nomination for the person he’d most like to be on the opposite side of the world from. Dot, in contrast gets his nomination for the person he’d most like to spend the rest of his life with. (Whoa there, Dart! You don’t wanna spook the little lady.)

He launches into a mild scolding and compelling argument about getting her phone number in Greenwich.  As seldom as he calls, it won’t cost that much money, he says. After all, she spends money on postage stamps whereas he gets to send mail for free. Also, it gives him great pleasure. Not having her phone number will not stop him if he decides to call, but it sure would make life easier if he had it.  I suspect she’ll cave and send the number in her next letter.

He sends get well wishes to El, and says his mother has strep throat but is responding well to sulfa treatments. Do they still use sulpha to treat strep, I wonder? As an aside, I saw a story on TV last week about the millions of children in Africa who die of heart disease  brought when an untreated strep infection settles in the heart. It made me think once again about the wonders of modern medicine (when and where it’s available) and how antibiotics must have contributed to increased longevity in the developed world.

He’s happy she’ll be earning extra money with child care jobs and remarks that she must be good at it to be in such high demand.

He cautions her not to take his misfortunes too hard. His burden has been made much easier, he says, with Dot and his parents doing some of his grieving for him.

Dart’s friend Fred Dixon wrote of his sister Dorothy’s enlistment in the Waves. Now the Dixon home can place two stars in their front window. How nice that women’s service was acknowledged the same way as men’s.

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Dot begins her letter with an acknowledgement that indeed, the Duke and Duchess will be coming to Greenwich. “We’re considering allowing them to stay as guests at our estate this summer. Of course, it will put us out a liitle, but then, they’ve often done favors for us.” She continues in the same vein to tell him that Alec Templeton, Dot’s favorite pianist, lives in town and is a very good customer of Dot’s father.

In response to his question about riding, Dot says she loves horses, but it’s been ages since she’s enjoyed the sport. It costs $2.00 per hour in this place where most people have millions, but she doesn’t. Because she has discovered the need to eat, she’s been forced to choose between riding and dining. She adds that in New Hampshire where her family has a bungalow, she used to ride bare back every day, for free.

She comments that she seems to spend most of her time answering his letter, which was an answer to her letter in the first place. She finds it hard to come up with any news because her life is so simple and settled. That begs the question of how he can consistently come up with such interesting letters when he’s stuck in a hospital for weeks on end. She adds that she’s not even very good at writing all the ‘purdy’ thoughts like he does. She admits she feels those things but is not adept at writing them. She promises, however, that someday she will write a letter that will knock his eyes out. All it’ll take is a full moon, millions of stars, and soft, dreamy music. These ingredients are like TNT o her!

But for now, she adds, back to her dull life. A life with “no gloss but always a finish.” With that, she finishes the letter.

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May 19, 1944

Dart was in a rare mood today. He began with high praise for Dot’s recent letter and some teasing words about her constant apologies for the quality of her stationery.  He also teased a bit about the luxurious setting of her cushy job – complete with carpet and upholstered chairs! I suspect he doesn’t see much of either in his current setting. More on that later.

He suggests that the hoping and dreaming each of them has done in recent months seems to be working to some extent, so they should both keep it up with renewed fervor and they will surely see even more success.

Commenting about the dream Dot described where Dart showed up in Greenwich and they enjoyed a long bike ride and a picnic, he confirmed that he has had similar dreams. He launched into a detailed imagery about the day. He began by asking what he was wearing in her dream. Was he in uniform or will they have to wait until the war is over to fulfill the dream? He imagined what the picnic menu might be, and he envisioned sitting on the shore and watching the moon rise. There was enough breeze to ruffle her hair and put a little sand in the “sand” wiches.

Coming back to the present, he told her how much he enjoyed the oatmeal cookies she sent. The gum was quite welcome and he even put it to therapeutic use when he felt the first twinge of mumps on the left jaw. By “jawing” the gum all day, the swelling and stiffness on the left is not as bad as the right side got.

He included another of his fantastic yarns in the spirit of his “devilish satire” of a few weeks ago. This was a meticulous description of the “prehistoric” ward where he now resides, compete with stalactites, a lost race of men and blind fish. He writes satire and sarcasm with a lively comical bent. Well worth the read, in my opinion.

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Here’s a brief note from Dot, dashed off as she was about to crawl into bed for the night.

She told Dart how much she enjoyed reading about his bygone days. “But then, you make everything enjoyable. Golly, how I wish you were around when I do dishes!” (Let’s not get too serious or mushy, Dot.)

She loves her job but is happy that Sunday is coming so she can give her feet a rest. Because Greenwich is looking her best, all dressed in springtime finery, she suggests he make his reservations now to come for a visit sometime next week. Wouldn’t that be lovely!

She’s true her opening words that this would be a short letter.

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May 20, 1944

Dart’s letter has flair, even though most of it is simply in response to Dot’s latest. He thanks her for the outline of her feet and promises to try to finish a pair of slippers for her. He’d send her an outline of his foot for comparison, but his will not fit on a page of paper.

He supports her choice not to share his letters with her mother. Although they’ve not written anything to be ashamed of, it’s a “matter of general principles.” Oh, how I remember that favorite phrase of his. As children, whenever my siblings or I would ask a question he either didn’t know how to answer or was unwilling to answer, he would respond, “Well, that’s a matter of general principles.” For example: Daddy, why does Nancy get to stay up later than me?” Or, “Why are you mad at your boss?” Another favorite response in similar circumstances went like this: Daddy, why is the sky blue? To which he would answer, “To make little girls ask questions.” As part of my introduction to a vocabulary beyond my years, I learned at an early age what “general principles” meant.

He reports that he’s feeling better than he did when the mumps started. He’s still being nourished and hydrated with 1000 c.c of fluid in his arm, which he explains does nothing to stave hunger pangs or thirst.

In response to Dot’s concern that he would neglect his model-building in order to make her slippers, he assured her that there was nothing that can deter his interest in trains, so she needn’t fear. Let’s say his interest in railroads never waned throughout his life, and leave it at that for now.

He wrote a bit about his buddy John Angel – a close friend from Shaw high school. “Angel” had just presented his sweetheart Sally with an engagement ring before being shipped out from Fresno to parts unknown. “Another of my buddies to impress on us all the fact that we are ‘growing up,’ believe it or not.”

He tells Dot he would be happy to see her friends if they decide to come for a visit. He gave her detailed directions about which train to take from Chicago, what the visiting hours were, and how to find his ward. Naturally, he’d  like her to save those directions for her own use whenever the opportunity arises. Wishful thinking, undoubtedly.

He ends the letter by telling her a vivid dream he had of Dot. For the present, dreams are the best chance they have of “visiting.”

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In Dot’s letter, she comments on Dart’s having forgotten to write on the back of one page of stationery. She told of a similar mental lapse she had the other day when she was filling a pot with water at the kitchen sink. She got to daydreaming and realized the pot in her hand wasn’t getting any heavier. She looked down and saw she was holding it under the cold water tap, but had actually turned on the hot water. “Could it be we’re both absent-minded for the same reason, I hope?”

She told about her father teasing El last night about Don’s last name. It is Badamo, but Arthur Chamberlain has great fun calling him anything but that. El just smiles and lets him have his fun – a good lesson for Dot when she’s the target of her dad’s humor. She says El and Don’s wedding date is a mystery, even to the couple themselves. It all depends on where the war sends him, and when.

Last night, Dot mentioned to her mother that if she had not gone to Andrews School, she would probably never have met Dart. “At that, Mother breathed a sigh and said, ‘If my mother had not missed her train, I might never have met your father.'” Dot asked how old Ruth  had been when she met Arthur, and Ruth whispered romantically, “I was 5 and he was 8.” Dot wasn’t sure if her mother was joking, but she laughed out loud. “You should have seen the pained expression on her face. As if it were the most sacred thing in her life. Perhaps it was – she seems happy enough now.” Suggesting that Ruth Chamberlain was happy in her marriage seems like a major understatement. By all reports, she and Arthur were deeply in love their whole lives. I’ve always believed the greatest family legacy that I’ve received is a long line of strong, happy marriages on both sides.

Dot wrote a paragraph about how “versatile” her family is becoming. Harriet married a Dutchman, Gordon married an Irish Catholic and Eleanor is engaged to an Italian Catholic who is very tolerant of El’s Protestant religion. It seems a little quaint that Dutchmen and Catholics were considered the height of diversity in those days.

In another mother-daughter conversation, Ruth told Dot that she and Arthur had really gotten to know each other primarily through letters. That prompted Dot to go back and re-read some of the letters Dart had sent her, and she concedes that they probably know each other better than she thought. She was also reminded what a good writer he is.

She’s not surprised Dart got a note from a former nurse of his. To Dot’s thinking, perfect patients like him are probably a rare occurrence in the lives of nurses. Once they find one, they spend the rest of their careers hoping to come across another.

Dot becomes uncharacteristically serious in her final paragraph. She’s dismayed that he has developed mumps on the other side. All she wants is for him to get better so he can come home for awhile. “No matter what happens, Dart,  I love you for what you are and for what I am when I think of you and think of being with you.”

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May 21, 1944

This charming letter from Dot was written on a perfect Sunday afternoon. She had just spent some time sunbathing and was now listening to a wonderful youth concert by the (New York?) Philharmonic.

She writes that she used to think Sundays were about the most dull and boring day of the week. Now, she says, she lives for them. She realizes on such a perfect spring day that Greenwich is the most beautiful town she’s ever seen. Still, she prefers Ohio.

She told Dart of a special program at church this morning, featuring the children of the congregation. She was particularly enthralled with her delightful niece Toni Gale. She’s quite enchanted by that little girl.

Dot took a break from letter-writing to go to a movie with her sister-in-law, Betty. She’s taking every opportunity to get to know her better since Dot has been living in Ohio during her brother’s courtship and brief marriage. They saw a film called “Memphis Belle” which sounds like a documentary about the crew of a United States bomber. It made Dot grateful that Dart will not have to face 25 bombing raids over Germany before he can come home. She knows he wants to get out of the hospital, but she’s reminded that there are worse places he could be.

She continues to hope and pray for his return to health and says she knows neither of them will give up hoping. “In case you didn’t know, I’m crazy about you and would like to see you soon to be able to prove it.”

Immediately after that statement, she wrote the only sentence on page four. “I don’t know why I started this page because there’s nothing left to say.” Yup. I’m quite sure Dart would agree.

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May 22, 1944

Dart explains that he didn’t write yesterday because he’d been ordered back to bed and he wasn’t in a very good mood. It seems the “nurse who rides a broom to work” forced him onto a work detail on his 8th day in the ward because policy dictates that patients be assigned to a crew after 7 days. The doctor was not pleased with the results. Dart is swollen up again and feels lousy.

He likes Dot’s comment that she’d like to have him around when she’s doing dishes (because he makes everything interesting). He says he knows at least one other person who would like to help her dry those dishes any time.

He’s convinced the beauty of Greenwich is Dot Chamberlain. He claims that if he were there, all he would notice of his surroundings would be her. Awwww!

He ends the letter rather abruptly, saying the ice bag on his jaw does not stimulate good thoughts. He asks her to accept his hasty declarations of love. But he adds a P.S. asking again for the date of her birthday and he filled the back page with a drawing of a gremlin, with a cleverly sarcastic caption.

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Dot’s letter-writing is falling into a pattern. Once again, she dashes off a quick response to his most recent letters before plopping, exhausted, into bed. After all, she’s on her feet six days a week, and babysits several evenings. No wonder the kid can’t stay awake!

She establishes that she and Dart were not at the World’s Fair on the same day in 1930-something. She then steps up to defend Lois a bit from Dart’s unfavorable review. She sounds like an unusual character, and I can see there’s a powerful contrast between her and Dot. No wonder Dart had such an easy time “choosing” between them on that first, fateful blind date.

Giving in to Dart’s persuasive arguments, she provides him with her Greenwich phone number. She advises that if he gets a whim to call her, he should let her know about it far in advance because she’s away from home so much of the time. “If your heart’s so foolish as to desire to call me – well, three cheers for your heart!” Sounds like she sort of likes the idea. I wager it won’t be long before he puts that phone number to good use.

She confirms that her father would be a handy man to have around the house – except that he is so busy fixing things around other people’s houses that he’s rarely home to fix his own.

In discussing her recent dream of Dart, she confirmed that he was, indeed, wearing his sailor suit. She told him not to fret too much about the menu for his visit. If he just gets himself there, she’ll handle the details. She suggests that if they are going to have “sand” for their sandwiches, they should also have “greens” for their Greenwich. I would add a little “pun”kin pie.

She appreciated his “word picture” of his current ward and is certain that his clever Marine friend, Fred cannot possibly write a letter as interesting or masterful as his own.

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May 23, 1944

What a joyful letter from Dart as he answers two letters from Dot.  He metions something about one of the letters that arrived today looking like it had barely escaped a firey death. Then he asked if any of his letters look as though they’ve been put through a serilizer. I’m curious about that exchange. Is he just being silly, or is it possible that the hospital really does “clean” letters going into or out of a contagious disease ward? When I think of some of the medical practices that were common in Dart’s environs, I wouldn’t be surprised about much.

He confirmed their joint membership in the mutual admiration society and complimented her on getting better at writing the pretty stuff. Still, he says he knows they can both keep the mushy words in perspective – nice to read, but not as important as other things they have to say to each other.

Having read that horse back riding is pricey in Greenwich, he asked how much two very-much-in-love kids might have to pay to rent a tandem bike. He’s obviously giving a lot of thought to a future visit to Greenwich.

He says that, like Dot, everyone asks him how he can write such interesting letters. The only answer he can come up with is that those who ask the question just happen to care a lot about the lug who writes them. Although I put myself in that same category, I disagree with his assessment. His letters are interesting because they use language well, contain interesting observations on a variety of topics, offer a healthy dose of clever humor and are written from the heart.

He was surprised and impressed by Dot’s suggestion that a full moon and dreamy music act like TNT in charging her romantic side. He recalls a couple of nice evenings they’ve shared where there was no full moon, “but whether the music was there or not, I know I heard it when I looked at you.” Such a sweet-talker, this boy!

He’s still confined to bed with an ice bag. He’s eager to be able to move around like a normal person. On the subject of “almost not meeting each other,” he agrees that many things had to conspire in order for that event to occur. He speculates, however that had they not met on the fateful blind date, they would have simply met at another time and place.

He admits to spending a great deal of time dreaming about them being together, and the day when they can stay together forever. He’s convinced that everything that has happened between them shows they are destined for a happily-ever-after ending.

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Dot is becoming spoiled by Dart’s faithful letter-writing. In the mornings, she looks forward to seeing his letter on the hall table when she comes home from work for lunch. In the afternoon, she lives off the contents of the letter she’s just received. She says she never imagined how much mental attention one person could occupy in another person’s brain. She claims that again today, she called a customer Dart, but the woman thought she was referring to the darts in her jacket.

Dot cautions him to never write anything in a letter to her mother that he wouldn’t want Dot to read. She says she has not shared his letters with her mother, but Ruth always lets Dot read the ones he writes to her.

Needing to return to work from her lunch break she says she’ll finish the letter later that night. Alas, her mother took her to the library in the evening to research colleges, so she dashed off a final paragraph before going to work the next morning.

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May 24, 1944

There’s not much news in Dart’s letter, but there’s a “whole lotta heart.”  He’s envious of her freedom to sunbathe. It is forbidden at the hospital, but some of the guys do it anyway. “… did you ever see a rule that was not disobeyed?”, he asks.

He still has the ice bag, which he is coming to loathe. It’s such a bother to sleep with and he’s wet all day as a result of its leaking. Still, he says his case is not as serious as some. He’ll tell her what he means by that if she’s ever curious.

Dot had vowed in a recent letter that she would never loose faith in him or in the two of them until it had been proven to be a hopeless case. “You’re so good to me and so faithful. There’ll be darned few times when the case is hopeless, and I’ve a feeling we’ll stick together even through those.”

He asks for nothing from Dot except that she continue to be the same sweet, wonderful girl she is now and that she wait for him until they can be together and make important decisions. He vows to do the same. “By the time we can be together again, I’ll try to make myself a better person, more worthy of your love.”

His emphatic final paragraph exudes an eagerness to see her again. He wants to talk about the things he was thinking of when he wrote that previous paragraph. The poor boy is consumed with homesickness for her.

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Delighted that her new stationery finally arrived, Dot settles in to tell Dart about her upcoming 24-hour day. She’ll work at the store from 10:00 until 5:00 when she leaves to babysit Chuck Pecsock, age 2-1/2. Chuck’s mother just gave birth to a daughter, so Dot will provide dinner for Chuck and his dad and stay overnight until it’s time to go back to work. The family has decided they’ll need her for about two weeks.  “It looks like I’m destined to live away from home, even when I’m in town,” she writes.

She has other childcare jobs lined up in the future and likes the idea of padding her bank account so nicely.

She disagrees with Dart that his friends getting engaged is a sign they are all growing up. Dot has seen too many young people get engaged with no apparent idea of what that really means. Still, she sends “Angel” her best wishes for a happy engagement and subsequent marriage.

After thanking Dart for the instructions he sent about how her friends might find him for a visit, she reminds him who these young ladies are. Andy Daubney is the one who says she looks like Betty Grable, Marian Miller is the girl who sat on the pie Dot had left on her bed, and Doris Phinney who was introduced to Dart as the class wit. Now being mentioned in this humble blog has extended their fame by a microscopic amount, 70 years later. I wonder if these letters will reveal whether or not they ever ventured out to Great Lakes Naval Hospital.

She tells Dart she can take a vacation a year from May 15. I doubt he’ll still be around to spend any of that time with her. Certainly not if the Navy has any say in the matter, and I believe they most certainly do!

Finally she quips that if the furniture in the living room of Dart’s dream was in need of reupholstering, he was most assuredly dreaming of her living room!

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May 25, 1944

Not much news again. (I mean what can happen when you’re stuck in bed and have no visitors?) Dot’s was one of four letters Dart received today, and the first one he is answering.

He consoles her on the tiredness she feels after working on her feet all day and counsels that it will get better after awhile. He calls himself “the old man of experience.”

He writes that he is not going to give her advance warning about any phone call he makes to her. He likes surprises. He also passes on word from his mother that she plans on answering Dot’s letter very soon.

He had a sardonic letter from Fred today. Among other sarcastic rants, he said that the only Navy tradition he’s in favor of keeping is the one where the Captain goes down with the ship! Such an attitude, that boy!

He writes a silly little joke in a colloquial New York accent, which he thinks is apt payback for her “green”wich crack in her letter.

He ends the letter by saying it’s his turn to claim sleepiness. Then he signed off with “All my love, til the end of time.” That about sums it up.

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Dot warns that the letter may be a bit disjointed because she’s listening to “The Aldridge Family.” The antics of Homer and Henry remind her of the high jinks that went on at Andrews School.

Mr. Pecsock offered to dictate a letter for her if she couldn’t think of anything to say. When she took him up on the offer, he back-pedaled and told her to tell Dart about the dog Ginger. Apparently, she is nearly as clever as the toddler Chuck, who can practically read the newspaper! Dot is obviously staying with a very talented family.

In response to Dart’s question (again) about Dot’s birthday, she writes a very funny and convoluted paragraph without actually mentioning the date. That should keep him busy for a couple of minutes, figuring it out.

She ends the letter by promising to write a better one next time.

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