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August 12, 1944

It’s been quite some time since Dart wrote such a long, leisurely letter. This one is a real gem.

After a brief but frustrating drought of letters from Dot, he finally received a nice one today. Strangely, it was postmarked just one day after the previous one, but took much longer to arrive.

He spins a fine yarn about the chickadee he’d mentioned in an earlier letter. This little bird was once a resident on Alcatraz, but he was caught by the fierce wind that blows in these parts and was carried three and a half miles across the bay where he slammed into the side of Treasure Island’s Building G.

“The experience so unnerved the little fellow that he’s never had the courage to fly outdoors again.” If the story had ended there, I may have believed it, but Dart embellishes with relish. “Once he tried crossing Bay Bridge, but before he even got to the bridge, he developed the sorest case of bunions a little bird ever had. So he stuck out a feathered wing, ruffled his tiny fluffy breast and bummed a ride back to Bldg. G on a bus. The bird’s nuts. He’s got wings and doesn’t want to fly away. I wonder how he eats. As far as we know, there are no worms crazy enough to try  to live in the face powder they pumped out of the bay and dumped here to make this island.”

Dart uses this opportunity to announce he will never live in the west. He may someday come here on a trip, or honeymoon or with children, but the prices are too high to live here. He claims they are 20 to 100% higher than back east.

I guess I wasn’t the only one who’d never heard of the film Dragon Seed. Dart too was unfamiliar with it.

He seems impressed and humbled by Dot’s report of doing a back dive. Considering his struggles in the pool, it must seem like an impossible feat. He says he has a limit of swimming just 15 feet before he sinks.

He reports on his efforts to gain weight. When he misses chow, he buys two sandwiches and a milk shake. Then, right before bed time, he runs to the Ship Service and buys another sandwich and shake. Last week he hit his all-time highest weight of 152, but was quickly back to a stable 148. Remember, this guy is 6′ 1″! It’s no wonder he sinks like a stone – he doesn’t have enough surface area to float.

He happily agrees to send Dot some copies of his official Navy portraits, as per her request. “I hope you like them well enough to keep them. There are only a few in existence, and there are many girls who’d just about swoon if I gave them a picture of myself. Take that any way you want, but I’m afraid the swooning would be from fright.” Now he’s beginning to sound like Dot!

In this letter rich with humor, news and imagery, I think the following is my favorite paragraph:

In a way I envy you being able to sit in an uncomfortable pool of perspiration. It’s a shame we can’t both travel toward each other til we reach a place where I’m warm enough and you’re cool enough and a man points to my uniform and says “What’s that funny suit you’re wearin’, son?” There we should settle and spend the rest of our days.

Yes, it’s humorous, but also sweetly revealing. It exposes a man who pines for a simple, anonymous life where he can enjoy basic comforts and the companionship of the woman he loves – a place where war and military life are unknown.

Treading carefully around the “taboo subject” of a recent letter, he tells Dot he’s been dreaming a lot lately. Dreaming of their next meeting; when, where and how they will greet each other. He says that when and if he is ever able to ask her a certain question, he wants to ask it when they are together. He wants to hold her in his arms, feel her breathing, see her face and hear her voice. He doesn’t want to ask it in a phone call or a letter, sent from a strange, far off place.

He answers her question about the moon the other night. Yes, he saw it and was hoping she had enjoyed it three hours earlier. He tells her of a bright star that shines in his window, low in the northeastern sky. He wonders if, by chance, that same star twinkles into her window, too.

With regrets, he ends this charming, intimate letter in order to write a few quick lines to his parents.

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August 13, 1944

Here’s another hurried note from Dart, written on the fly between “muster” and laundry, with mending sandwiched in along the way.

The main  – that is to say, only topic of the letter is a request he makes of Dot. Could she find him a sturdy little sewing kit that he could stow in his sea bag? He needs something to hold his needles, thread and spare buttons. This will provide her with just the task she asked for.

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Forever on the same wave length as Dart, Dot also pens a short note today, which she actually finished on the 14th.

It’s so hot in Greenwich that the only way Dot can cool off after work is to take the 6:00 PM boat to the beach. She’s been doing that for the last few days with her cousin Janie. Tonight, the beach was so packed with humanity that the town put extra boats on duty to get all the people back home at the end of the day.

She mentions her back dive again and says that she and Janie have just about mastered the jack-knife. She vows to write a proper letter tomorrow.

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August 14, 1944

Dot begins her promised long letter using pencil and yellow tablet while at work. She has had to inventory sweaters today and is now sitting in a pool of sweat. “Yes, I said ‘sweat.’ The saying is that only horses sweat, but who am I to deny I am one and the same?”

She is hanging on until lunch time when she can go home and find two or three letters from Dart waiting on the hall table.

Her mother and brother are going up to Lake Sunapee, New Hampshire for three weeks. Although her dad is driving up to bring them home over Labor Day, Dot is babysitting, so she’s unable to see her beloved place yet another season. She says she so green with envy that she looks moldy.

She reports there is not a customer in the store. No wonder! It is so hot that the clothes stick when trying them on. She tells the story of a recent customer who came in looking for a dress but decided it was too hot to shop for one that day. Instead, she asked Dot to show her the coolest thing they had in stock. When Dot presented her with a very scanty bathing suit, the lady beamed and said she’d take it. The shopper admitted she didn’t need the suit, but it was cool and cute. “That’s what I call throwing $10.95 away,” quips Dot. “Wouldn’t it be awful to have so much money and no idea about  spending it?” That leads me to wonder two things: What was the 1944 version of “very scanty?” and What did a reasonably priced bathing suit cost back then?

She returned from her lunch break in a far better mood, because of the arrival of some letters from San Francisco. She was delighted to read about his party at the home of the hospitable strangers, arranged through the USO club. “I’m glad you had a good time and I am also glad you missed me.”

She launches into a mock scolding about his fear of diving boards. She tells him that she just took a dive off a 20-foot platform and it makes her glad that she’s found one thing she can do better than him. “Surely, tho’, you can swim 150 feet! Otherwise, better you should have joined the Infantry. However, until I can get 98 on Electricity and 95 on Math tests, I shall hesitate to make further comments on your aquatic abilities. Leave us not louse up our beautiful friendship over such triffles.”

In response to Dart’s request that she send his parents a snapshot of herself, she replies that she thinks that would be a bit too forward until they request one. She suggests that maybe he could send the a photo of her, if he’s sure they’d like it.

She’s gratified that he liked her care package and apologizes that she could not include a bigger and better candy selection. “But, as I think I mentioned before, there’s a war going on and it’s mighty hard to obtain without a priority.”

She wraps the letter up after taking a two-hour break to iron clothes in the 95 degree kitchen. Now she hears on the radio that a heat wave is heading her way. So, what is this they’re experiencing now?

Commenting on the correction of her spelling that Dart inserted into his letter, she sasses him with “Ok, so I’m good for your morale, but you’re good for my morals.”

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August 15, 1944

Hurried notes are becoming the norm for Dart. Although he has three unanswered letters from Dot, they’ll have to wait because time is short.

Yesterday he went to sick bay to get a spray for his sore throat and then went out on liberty. He went to the theater, took a streetcar ride and grabbed a waffle dinner. He hopes to get back to town on Thursday if his cold improves.

He scored a miserable 62% on his recent Recognition test. The whole class did so poorly that they were retested, without warning. This time he scored at 85%. His total in all of his subjects places him in the top three of his class, but he doesn’t expect to stay there. “Forgive me if I toot my horn. It’s music to my ears, regardless of how it may sound to others. I love you, even if this miserable mess doesn’t show it.”

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Matching Dart in brevity, Dot suggests they agree to a standing forgiveness policy when one of them doesn’t write every day. That way, they won’t have to waste time and paper asking forgiveness for something they are both guilty of.

She has a hard time sympathizing with Dart’s struggles in the pool. Because it’s one of her favorite activities, she doesn’t understand how someone could not enjoy it. Still, she wishes him the best of luck in passing the required tests.

She deems them “quite a pair,” with all his washing and all her ironing. She would rather be washing, but since grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, she suspects that he thinks ironing is the better deal.

The fact that he’s been at the school for four weeks doesn’t seem real to her; it feels more like four months! As always, it’s late and she’s tired. Before turning in, she hears a news report that announces more hot and humid weather is on it’s way.

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August 16, 1944

Dart says that the laments of Dot and his parents about the brutally hot weather garner little sympathy from him – only envy. He is so cold that he sleeps in his sweater! In August!

When comparing their summer colds, he thinks hers is milder and of shorter duration than his. He is armed with gargle and sprays, but they don’t seem to be having any  impact. Does anyone else get nervous when Dart mentions symptoms of illness? After all those months in the hospital, I think we’d all be justified to assume that he’s susceptible to all manner of bugs and germs.

Again he mentions his struggles with the Recognition class. He did okay on another test, but says the course work is particularly hard for a guy like him who has meticulously avoided anything to do with airplanes all his life. I guess there’s room in his heart for only one mode of transportation, and that would be trains, of course.

He includes a touching paragraph about his family holding out on him. He is aware of several of his friends who are “in the thick of it,” with a couple now either MIA or prisoners of war. His family doesn’t tell Dart the news and he hears it in more round-about ways. He’s frustrated that they aren’t being honest with him, but I see it in a different light. As a young man, he can’t comprehend how difficult it is for parents to imagine their beloved children going off to war. When they learn of the death of one of their son’s friends, I think those parents must die a little inside, themselves. It’s not just Dart his parents are trying to protect, but their own hearts as well. How does a parent live with that level of dread just under the surface of every thought for several years?

Dart speaks almost romantically of his close encounters with some of the sophisticated fire control equipment he has been exposed to recently when he sweeps, mops and polishes the control rooms. He’s in awe of the complexity of these machines. “I wish you could see some of the computers and stuff we work with. The most impressive and bewildering boxes of dials and knobs you’ve ever seen.”

He closes the letter to run a quick errand at the Ship’s Service.

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Dot was forced to begin her letter later than she’d wanted because a huge storm had knocked out the electricity for about six hours.

She hopes he understands that she was kidding about his swimming. She reminds him that everyone has at least one thing that seems nearly impossible for them to achieve, and swimming just happens to be his. He shouldn’t take her teasing seriously.

Having never experienced socks that “broke” after washing, she has no idea what to tell his buddy, except maybe he should use “Rinso.” A harsher laundry soap would be murder on his hands.

She’s mightily impressed by his test scores. With accomplishments like that, who cares about the 17-foot diving platform?

She is none too happy about her mother and Doug leaving for Lake Sunapee in the morning. During the next three weeks, she’ll need to get up at 7:00 a.m., which she believes is unconstitutional. She doesn’t say why her days must begin so early, but I suspect it’s so she can do some cooking and cleaning before work while her mother is away. She’s hoping for a chance to ride up with her father over Labor Day to retrieve the pair, but she has her doubts that will happen.

Unable to ignore the weather, she comments that his reports of wearing pea coats almost makes her jealous. (See how the themes of their letters mirror each other?) Wouldn’t it be great, she asks, if somehow they could store up all this extra heat of summer and bring it out during the bitter days of winter? She decides to work on that problem in her laboratory.

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August 17, 1944

Another short note from Dot, beginning with the news that she and El have been talking together for over two hours.  At first, El was trying to convince Dot that Don was the better catch while Dot, not surprisingly argued the opposite. When they realized neither could sway the opinion of the other, they just settled in for a sisterly chat.

Dot is deeply regretting that she told Mrs. Miller she’d babysit over Labor Day if she couldn’t find anyone else. That will probably mean forfeiting a quick trip to New Hampshire, a fate Dot likens to cutting off her hand. She declares Lake Sunapee the closest thing to heaven on earth. As an 88-year old woman, Dot still holds the same opinion of that special place.

Tomorrow is Dot’s half day at Franklin Simons, but she expects she’ll work harder at home during the second half of the day. She’ll need to up her game when making dinner for her dad. He seems to think she’s not as domestic as an 18-year old girl should be.

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August 18, 1944

Dot’s letter starts on a cheerful note. She raced home from work at two o’clock to find the mail had not yet been delivered. While she cleaned her way through the house, she kept an eye on the street, watching for the mailman. After an eternity of waiting, she saw him approaching the house and ran out the door to great him. When she saw him coming up the path, grinning from ear to ear, she knew it had been worth the wait. Two letters from Dart! Now there’s a postman who has his fingers on the pulse of the community!

Her next paragraph is about the weather. This time, she has high praise after days of griping. They had a high temperature of 82 with a cool breeze blowing all day. She hopes this pattern will stick around for a while.

In response to Dart’s tale of the crazy bird on Treasure Island, she has a brief retort – “A very interesting story about your feathered friend. No further comment.”

She also quips, “If you do decide to go to California on your honeymoon I hope you have as nice a time as I’m going to have in New Hampshire.”

She assures him she did not do her back dive off the high tower – just the diving board on the float in Long Island Sound.

She’s delighted by the news that he has sent some pictures (his official Navy portraits) and she promises she will place one in the front window so that all the passing girls will be jealous. She promises she’ll swoon when she sees them, but not from fear.

Regarding his unspecified dreams, she doesn’t know what to say, except she hopes they all come true. She also has a few dreams of her own. I suspect their dreams align rather closely.

She’s so glad he mentioned the sewing kit that he needed. She rushed right out and bought one she hopes will meet his needs. She assures him that it gives her great pleasure to do little things for him and she hopes he’ll keep the requests coming. I think I know exactly which sewing kit she sent him. I still have it today. It is about the size of a box of safety matches, covered in sturdy navy blue fabric. It holds about a half dozen tiny spools of thread in basic colors, a few needles, a thimble, a threader and some very small scissors. I had always assumed it was issued by the Navy as part of his equipment. Since the guys were expected to mend their own uniforms and stitch on their uniform insignia, I thought the Navy would provide the means to do so.

Dot confesses her ignorance of the word “muster,” which Dart used in a recent letter. “You don’t mean the stuff they put on hot-dogs, do you?”

She tells him that Doug called last night from Sunapee. He’s only been gone a couple of days, but he missed his dad and called to hear his voice. Dot can’t understand how anyone could be homesick for anyone or anything when they were sitting by such a perfect lake.

She comments that the news from France is encouraging. She hopes the war in Europe will be over by Christmas and the Japs will be defeated shortly thereafter. Reading this comment made me realize how seldom the war is mentioned in these letters. It seems like it would have been foremost on everyone’s mind. Had it gone on so long by this time that it faded to the back of folk’s consciousness, or was it left unmentioned out of courtesy?

She adds that another week has passed, meaning she’s one week closer to graduation. She knows he has no say in when or if he’ll get leave, but she prays he’ll be able to make it to her big day in February.

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August 19, 1944

Suddenly, the weather in Greenwich has gotten very chilly. It’s only 50 degrees in Dot’s room at the McDonald’s house, where she is babysitting, but she’s not complaining. In fact, she’s sleeping outside on their sun porch.

She mentions a poem that the McDonalds place on their bathroom door. She’s included a copy for Dart, but it has not made the journey to present time with the letter. I wonder if Mom recalls what that poem was?

She gives Dart a play-by-play description of how she spent her day. Prior to leaving for work, she made her father’s breakfast, packed his lunch, changed the bed linens, took a bath and washed the dishes. At lunch time, she did her week’s worth of laundry and later did the week’s shopping before taking the bus to her babysitting gig. Phew! She feels pretty good about her accomplishments for the day.

Continuing with the recitation of her schedule, she tells Dart that tomorrow morning she babysits with the Miller boys and then she and El will go see Tender Comrade, starring Ginger Rogers.

She asks what he’s been doing for variety and then conjectures that variety is not a high priority in the Navy.

Here, she rambles rather aimlessly through a list of topics she says aren’t worth mentioning; the weather (already discussed), how she loves him (he already knows that), the war (she’s not supposed to upset the military men with such things), before finally admitting she’s just stalling in an attempt to get to page three.

Now that she’s made it, she ought to stop writing and finish letters to people who have been waiting for her response for a long time. She confesses to recently unearthing a letter from the Marine pen pal that he wrote on May 28! Still, she is unmotivated to write, and so the poor Marine must wait a little longer.

She repeats a joke she saw in “Readers’ Digest” about the high absentee rate occurring in Germany. More and more factories are failing to show up for work,

She finally gives up trying to extend the letter and encloses some stale gum for Dart’s chewing pleasure. For a bonus pun or two, check out her P. S. written on page 4.

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August 20, 1944

No letter from Dart since August 16. I guess he meant it when he talked about how busy he was, but I can’t see how he could be much busier than Dot, who at least manages a couple of pages.

She is struggling to write the lines because her eyes are swollen from tears. She has just come home from seeing Tender Comrade and it obviously touched her deeply. She says that after seeing it, she is more sorry than ever that she was unable to tell Dart what was in her heart when she saw him last. “But since I didn’t, you’ll have to make a point to come home very soon so I will be able to tell you that I love you very, very much.”

While sleeping on the McDonald’s porch last night, she’s sure she saw the star Dart referred to in a recent letter. It was big and bright and more twinkly than the others.

She tells him to take of himself and know that she loves him always.

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August 21, 1944

Here’s a delightful letter from Dot as Dart’s dry spell continues.

She begins with great exuberance at the arrival of Dart’s portrait. It’s absolutely “out of this world!” She continues with a funny story about her Dad’s reaction to the picture. When he came through the door at the end of the day, he could tell by the look on Dot’s face that either Dart was sitting in the living room or his photo was. She invited him to see for herself. A few minutes later, she checked back to find out what his reaction to the picture was, and she found the following message stuck to the frame:  #561341 WANTED for robbery. 6’1″, brown hair, etc.” When Dot asked her father for an explanation, he said, “Well, from that mischievous look in his eye, I took it for granted that he had just stolen cookies from his mother’s cookie jar and I thought people ought to be on the look out for him.” I see where Dot gets her sense of humor. (To see that “mischievous look” you can check out the portrait on the photo page of this blog.)

She is not pleased to hear about his cold. She thinks he has spent enough time in sick bay for all the sailors in the fleet, and she thinks that’s quite enough. To get healthy, she tells him to “blow hard, drink hot lemonade, get to bed by 7:00 PM and sleep until noon.” I’m sure the Navy would understand.

Referring to his recent success in his classes, she tells him that he better stop telling this “first class moron” how smart he is or she’s liable to throw a fit. On the bright side, when he is a world-celebrated genius, she’ll be able to say “I knew him when…”

It’s been decided that she will indeed accompany her father when he goes to Lake Sunapee over Labor Day to bring Ruth and Doug home. Dot is delighted to finally get to see the place after a three-year absence. She promises to take pictures to send to Dart. I know from experience that Lake Sunapee has inspired countless photographs over the years, but I can’t get too excited about the black and white snapshots that were the norm in the 1940s. People had to rely on their mind’s eye to see the deep blue water, the piercing blue sky and the cool green hemlocks. That’s easy if you’ve actually been there, but I’m not sure how impressed Dart would be seeing photos of a place he’s never visited, displayed in shades of gray.

Dot probes a little for details about a horrible dream Dart mentioned. She really wants to know what it was so she can be sure it doesn’t come true.

Gazing at the new portrait as she writes, Dot reports a warm feeling all over. In fact, she claims her glasses fogged up! I’d say the girl has it bad!

She says that by the time Dart gets this letter, they will have known each other for 11 months. It’s been the happiest 11 months of her life. “If this is a dream, I hope I never wake up,” she writes.

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