Category Archives: Dart’s Letters

June 24, 1944

Here’s a newsy letter telling about Dart’s activities during his final days of boot camp.  He’s been on light duty since being discharged from the hospital, excusing him from drills and calisthenics. Instead, he and a few others from his company have been practically rebuilding the barracks. They’ve removed the baseboards, sanded and varnished them, repaired some doors, washed windows and a slew of other paltry tasks. (“Light duty,” Navy-style!)

Today, while two 5,000-man regiments were inspected on the drill fields, Dart’s small band of men were undergoing barracks inspection. They were the only company in 32 who received perfect scores in two categories. With pride, he writes, “We’re expecting to see a couple of rooster flags flying from our staff Monday morning.”

Dart’s group will probably not have a formal graduation ceremony, but all that matters to him is that his leave is set. It begins at 0800 on June 28 and runs through July 11. He begins to imagine a scenario where he might be able to get up to see her, if only for a day. Then he realizes he’s selling the idea to the wrong person, since Dot is already in complete agreement with any plan that would put them in the same place. He knows he needs to sell his folks on the idea, but he won’t even guess the outcome of that conversation. You can read his frustration and worry in the words he writes. He’s so desperate to see her, but fears that dream will go the way of others he’s had in recent memory.

He still has not received any forwarded letters from Dot describing her birthday festivities or gifts. He’s curious about the Friday night surprise and, probably about her reaction to his gift.

Tonight, he loafs, but tomorrow is another full day, including washing all his clothes and linens.

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Can a letter be both wistful and cheerful? I think Dot proves that it can. She imagines him reading this letter in his own bedroom at home. She gets tearful when she imagines the reunion with a son and his parents. How she wants to be part of that celebration! She remembers how wonderful Christmas at the Chamberlain house was because Gordon was home before being shipped out.

Remarking that not only does absence make the heart grow fonder, but it also makes one realize there’s no place like home, she tells of her friend Cynthia who is home briefly from her school, Oberlin. The girl is thrilled to be back on a brief break before returning to Ohio for summer classes. Dot comments, “She’s a wonderful girl. I wish you could have met her (and about a half million other people). If your curiosity gets the better of you and you can’t bear to let these people remain unknown, come East. I promise to introduce you to everyone.”

She issues an order that he have a perfect leave. She requests that he have a double good time because she will be with him mentally. To keep him from feeling tied down, she grants him a 10-day recess from writing letters.

“Give my love to your family, but keep plenty for yourself,” she writes. Will he take her up on the offer not to write? Will his leave live up to expectations? Is there a chance he’ll be able to make the long trip to Greenwich to lay eyes on his beloved?

We have no choice but to let the story unfold.

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June 25, 1944

Dart is counting down the days (a mere two) before his leave commences. There are threats of severe vengeance circulating through his company – vengeance against any poor sucker who curses too loudly, whistles at the wrong female, or in any way gets into sufficient trouble to delay leave for the remaining company.

Dart tells about his phone call home today, to discuss details of his arrival with his folks. When he asked his brother Burke about his lucrative summer job, all Burke could say was that it was hot. He must monitor the gauges on 14 furnaces in some factory somewhere in Cleveland. He did accept Dart’s helpful suggestion that “Hotter than the hinges in Hades” might be a more colorful description.

After church service today, Dart did all of his laundry, except the clothes on his back and his dungarees, “which I don’t intend to wear until they can stand up my themselves and crawl out of the sea bag when I whistle.”

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Here’s a chipper note from Dot. She says to this soon-to-be-graduated sailor, “If you aren’t in the best of spirits and having a wonderful time – well, you better get in the groove.”

She talks about her family’s summer cottage on Lake Sunapee, NH. Until 1941, she had been there every summer of her life, beginning at age two months. Then gas rationing started, preventing the family from making the trip. Dot writes that her parents are going up next week for July 4th, and she wishes she were going with them. Now, it’s her job that prevents her from making the trip. She says that getting up to Lake Sunapee is yet another reason she wants this war to end.

That humble little summer place is still in the Chamberlain family, providing the glue that keeps our family close into the sixth generation. Mom still makes her yearly pilgrimage to recharge her batteries and commune with the spirits of those who have loved the place as much as she does.

She writes that she is going nuts, thinking of him being so much closer to Greenwich soon, without it doing her much good.

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June 26, 1944

Dart dashed off this hurried note on his way to a farewell party in the mess. He was looking forward to bidding adieu to this “unholy, unwholesome hole.”

He’d finally received a letter from Tom Riley, a V-12 buddy at Case, but there was no real news in it.

He informs her that he’ll be Peterson, S 2/c after tomorrow. (I’m assuming that’s Seaman, second class. That’s all there is for today.

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Dot and Dart were on the same wavelength today. Both of them wrote in pencil. Dot has a slow day at work, so she’s using her time to write to Dart.

Knowing that Dart will be reading this letter in Cleveland, she asks if he has gotten in touch with any of his former roommates from Case yet. When he does, she reminds him to be sure and thank Johnny Rusch for passing Dot’s message to Dart that day several months ago – the message that she really liked to get mail. It seems to be responsible for what came after for these two young lovers. Speaking of mail reminded Dot that there is a certain male she’d like to receive at her home next Sunday!

It’s nearly time to close up shop now. Dot needs to cover her merchandise with curtains before she heads home. She writes that the job is getting better all the time. Now she has a half day off each week and the store closes at 4:00 on Saturdays.

She tells him that a co-worker who reads palms as a hobby gave her a reading this week. “She told me all about my shortcomings and I thought she’d never finish. The trouble is, everything she said about me sounds just like me. Thank goodness you were not around to hear it!”

She said she’d try to write more from home later in the day, and she managed to find the time in another letter. She writes that El offered to write to Dart with a warm invitation to come to Greenwich. Dot thought that an additional invitation from an unbiased source might add weight to the idea, so El is writing him tonight.

She says she knows how her family would feel if Gordon finally got leave after months of being away, and spent a few days of it away from home. They may not say anything, but they wouldn’t be happy. The last thing she wants is to give his parents a reason not to like her, so she doesn’t want to risk it by his coming out. Still… “I guess I’d better not hope for too much. We’ve got plenty of time for such things (It says here.)”

She’s having difficulty expressing all of her thoughts on the subject of a visit. She doesn’t want to discourage him if he has the slightest inclination. It would be wonderful to introduce him to everyone and to see him herself. However, there is the chance that he will discover he doesn’t really like her very much, and she’d hate for that to be the outcome. (Do you believe this girl?)

Her family was discussing the GOP convention this evening, and she asked her father why he didn’t run for President. He replied, “I’d have about as much chance as a snow ball being chased by an asbestos cat through the hottest streets of Hades.”

She says her parents have abandoned plans for their trip to New Hampshire this weekend because Don’s parents are coming to visit. (And you, I hope, she adds, helpfully.)

In case he needs a recommendation about the Chamberlain hospitality, she offers her own. She thinks it’s nice. Perhaps the beds are a bit too hard, but she hears the Navy has given up their box springs lately, as well. If she has not convinced him to visit, she deems herself a failure in life. “PLEASE COME, DART,” she pleads.

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June 28, 1944 – Dart’s Leave Begins!

With Dart traveling back to Cleveland today, Dot is the only one who is able to get a letter written. Having heard nothing from Dart for a couple of days, she can only assume he’s enjoying a long-awaited evening at home.

She’s looking forward to just a half day at Franklin Simons tomorrow. Then she realizes that she’ll fill the other half of the day with cleaning and ironing at home!  She tells Dart he has her sympathy, having to wash all of his clothes by hand. Her mother washes the family laundry in the machine, but Dot has to iron everything. She feels dreadfully overworked. “To hear Dad talk, you’d think I went swimming all day when the truth of the matter is, I haven’t been once this whole year! I have a hard life!”

She concludes by writing, “This letter isn’t very long, but congratulate me; I haven’t said one thing about how you should spend your leave. I’ve got my ideas, tho’. I s’pose they’re the kind that materialize only in movies.”

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June 29, 1944

Dart is writing from his very own bedroom in Cleveland. After a hot, dirty but uneventful train trip, he arrived in town around 7:30 PM. It’s now 1:30 AM and his family has gone to bed.

He has five letters before him – four from Dot and one from El. He says they all have pretty much the same theme, and one that he whole-heartedly supports. Although the question of a side trip to Greenwich has not been thoroughly discussed, his parents suspected it would be raised and are “are rather in favor of it.” He corrects that last statement and says, “They like you well enough that they don’t seem to be at all put out or disheartened by my desire to visit you.” He’s very hopeful that the question will be settled tomorrow.

I think it’s sweet that a 20-year old man, eager to see his sweetheart for what may be the only time for months or years, is so respectful of his parents’ wishes. It’s quite revealing about his character. I hope he’s rewarded for his respect and compassion.

He reports that home is pretty much the way it was when he left, except for some much-needed sprucing up of the living room. In his bedroom, he is surrounded by all of his engine posters, railroad magazines, familiar books and sundry junk.

Tomorrow he plans to head over to the Case campus and see some of the guys. “You may be sure that I’ll thank Rousch for giving me your message that night. I’ve been mentally thanking him for eight months. I don’t think he knew what he was getting us into, nor did we, but boy! Am I glad!”

He mentions that two sets of aunts and uncles will be spending July 4 and 5 in Cleveland to see him. It seems to me that his 14-day leave is looking rather short, with all he hopes to cram into it.

He asks Dot about the palm reading she’d mentioned. “Anything that concerns or could concern us?”

He daydreams a little about which train he might take to maximize his time with Dot, if his parents agree to the trip. Then, he gleefully remembers that no one will yell “Hit the deck!” at 0500 tomorrow. Still he needs to get some sleep if he doesn’t want to snooze through his first full day at home.

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Here’s a happy little note from Dot. Her first half day of work turned out better than she’d anticipated. When she arrived back home around noon, her mother suggested she pack a bag and head for the beach. Dot, her mother, and little brother Doug took their first dip of the season. “After we chipped off the first few chunks of ice, it wasn’t bad at all,” she quips. “I even managed a little dive, but we won’t discuss that further if it’s all the same to you.”

She asked him about the farewell party at Great Lakes, joking that it was, no doubt a sad and sullen affair. She only hopes he didn’t get sick from the abundance of snacks.

She asked about Tom Reilly, one of Dart’s roommates that she never met. “As I remember, he had a secretary named Peterson who used to write his letters for him.” What’s this? Was Dart involved in a little Cyrano de Bergerac action between Tom Reilly and a lady?

She discreetly inserted just one teensy mention of his weekend plans, hoping they might include her.

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June 30, 1944

Dart is coming to Greenwich!! The decision has been made and he’ll be on his way Saturday night, arriving in Grand Central Station, NYC early Sunday morning. His folks want him to take a return train that same evening, but he’s using every ploy to stay over until Monday night. He even suggested that two such long trips so close together might be rough on his fragile health! (The little scallywag!)

Anyway, the crux of the letter is going over all the details while in an exuberant state of mind. Then he asks the question, “Why am I giving you all the details now? By the time you get this letter, I’ll either be there, or already gone.”

He’s a happy, happy sailor. By the way, his cousin Margaret, a student at Oberlin, doesn’t think she knows Dot’s friend Cynthia. Glad we got that settled.

Let’s get on with this story while the lovebirds reunite, at last.

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July 1, 1944

Dart’s letter begins with “By the time you get this, probably Monday, my visit will be all a memory. Whether its a good or bad one remains to be seen. Hope it’s good.”

He describes running errands and having lunch with his dad before going to the west side of Cleveland where Dart, Sr. works. He’s on vacation during Dart’s leave, but he’s been called in for a tough job starting Sunday. He’ll be working straight through until Wednesday, repairing a furnace that hasn’t cooled down in two years.

More errands in the afternoon, running into some acquaintances along the way. Evening brought a call from Tom Reilly and waiting “while a call was transferred from one point to another to find the girl I’m deeply in love with.” I assume that was the call telling Dot that he was, indeed, coming to Greenwich, and when to expect him on Sunday morning.

He went to Case in a futile effort to see some of the guys, but the campus was on a short break, so no one was there. Fred was also home, but out for the evening.

Back at his home, the favored subject among the family was Dot until it was time for bed. He ends the letter with “I love you very much, and I hope we’ll be happy together on our visit Sunday.”

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There is no letter from Dot written on July 1, so I’ll tell you about the memories she has shared with me about when she heard Dart was coming. Naturally, she was thrilled!

When she went to work the day following the phone call, she was so flustered that she did something really dumb. It was the practice at Franklin Simon, when a sale had been completed, for the clerk to place the cash and the sales slip into an envelope, insert it into a pneumatic tube system and send it on to the cashiers’ office. Well, Dot was so distracted by thoughts of Dart’s visit, that she forgot to put the money into the envelope before dropping it into the tube. As soon as she realized her lapse, she called the cashier to confess  her error. “Oh, we know all about it, honey,” the cashier said. “The money just came shooting out all over the office.” With that, the boss, whose name was something like Mr. Goldblatt, in a show of goodwill and understanding, gave Dot the rest of the day off. “You’re no good to me like this,” he grinned.

As Dot anticipated Dart’s arrival, I can only assume what she must be feeling. Excitement, for sure. Joy, of course. Terror? Quite possibly. After all, this was a guy she has seen on only three occasions in a group setting. She knows him quite well by letter, and likes what she’s learned. They have exchanged frequent and fervent avowals of love. But, what will it be like to be with him, in the flesh, watched with eagle eyes by her entire family and much of the town of Greenwich? Will she like him as much as she thought? Will he like her? Will he be too bold? Will she be able to think of anything to say? My palms sweat, just trying to put myself in her position. I guess we, and these kids, will have some answers over the next few days.

July 4, 1944 – Independence Day!

Dart’s brief letter after arriving home shows he’s on the same page as Dot. “I guess we both found out that the words do come pretty hard. After being with you for two days I love you much more than before and hope that we can be together for days and months and years on end in the future.” Apparently their mutual shyness did nothing to douse the flames.

In other news, he appreciates the food she packed for his trip. He was happy to have found a clean, comfy, air conditioned car for the long trip to Ohio. He is touched by her sweet gesture of calling his folks when he left NYC.

He writes of being lonely for her, of imagining her head on his shoulder in the rail car. He fondly recalls how wonderful her family is. And he thanks Dot for “being.”

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Dot begins her Independence Day letter by avowing her alligience to Dart. She recalls that 27 hours ago, she kissed him good-bye on the train platform and watched him disappear into the crowd. Ever since then, she has been cursing herself for all the things she didn’t say.

“You’ve made me the happiest girl in the world, Dart and I pray that someday I’ll be able to prove it to you,” she writes. “Regardless of what happens between now and the time I again have the opportunity to tell you in person, remember I love you more than anything or anyone else and nothing can change that, ever.”

I think it’s safe to say this relationship has not only survived, but deepened.

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July 5, 1944

Dart writes his first letter of the day in the pre-dawn hours. When his relatives left town, he and Burke decided to tour Cleveland at night.

They explored the Flats and all the industrial sights Dart has written about so eloquently in earlier letters. They saw all the traffic exiting downtown after the “Festival of Freedom” fireworks and continued until they came to a late-night Big Boy restaurant called Manners. When they stopped to get a bite to eat, they ran into none other than Dart’s friend Fred, two other guys from school, and their three dates. All night long, Burke and Dart ran into friends who were out experiencing life after dark.

Five of Dart’s friends are home on leave, and they all depart on the same train Thursday night. They made plans to “do the town” the night before returning to their various branches of the military.

Dart got philosophical about the happy accidents of running into so many old friends. “Things like this really make me sure that our lives are planned for us. So many chance meetings and unusual happenings wouldn’t, couldn’t come true if we were not being guided by some Divine Hand.”

After enumerating several instances that seemed too perfect to be coincidental, he continues, “It must have been planned for us to be happy and so deeply in love, Dot. If it’s possible to love a person with every ounce of energy one has, and then to increase that love by leaps and bounds in but 35 short hours, then that’s the case now. I live for the day when I can use that New Haven timetable again, when we can be together next, and so much in love.”

He expressed the frustration of being with a person he is so incredibly fond of and finding it hard to speak his feelings. He recalls Sunday afternoon when he kissed her in the car and told her he loved her. He says it was one of the biggest moments of his life. He has relived every fleeting instant of his visit countless times, with countless more to come.

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Next, we find a letter written at the other end of this same day, the last one he will write from home for a very long time.

He visited Case this morning and saw everyone except the two people he most wanted to see. He was unable to thank Rousch for his role in getting Dot and Dart together. And he missed seeing the professor of his survey class from whom Dart had hoped to get a map to take with him.

Dart and the boys, each in a different uniform, gathered at Fred’s house where they spent a couple of hours listening to symphonic records. After lunch downtown, they returned to Dart’s house on the pretext of seeing his mother, but really to see Dot’s photograph. Fred commented that now he understood why Dart left town on his short leave. “But,” said Dart, “Fred doesn’t know the half of it. I like you for ‘you’ and not just your looks. Of course, if a much desired and cherished gift is in an attractive or beautiful package, it’s value in desirability is greatly increased.”

Dart closes the letter by saying this was the best leave a guy could hope for; a fine family, two days with the girl of the rest of his life, and a day with old buddies.

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And finally, it’s Dot’s turn to get a word in. With typical good humor, Dot relates the difficulty of getting back to work today. “…I can’t remember ever having to put forth such an effort to stir from a horizontal position. Be that as it may, and in spite of great odds, I managed to get here and punch the time clock 5 minutes before the zero hour. …the only thing that has kept me awake.. is the constant telling and re-telling of what we did Sunday and Monday and how much fun I had.”

She writes how sad she is to know there will be no letter from Dart waiting for her on the hall table today, but she promises to forgive him if it happens again for the same reason. “Aren’t I awful?,” she asks. “The saying is ‘give ’em an inch and they’ll want a mile,’ but in my case, it’s ‘Give me two days and I’ll want you forever.'”

She spent a few lines remembering where they were just two days ago and then decided she’d be better off if she stopped living in the past and started living for the future.

Her cousins Jane and Betty brought over some homemade blueberry muffins and then convinced Dot to join them at the movies. They saw Gary Cooper in “The Story of Dr. Wassel.” Dot loved the picture because it was Navy, through and through, and because it is the first war film she has seen in a long time where both the hero and the heroine were alive at the end of the film.

As I read these months of letters, I’m often struck by the similar themes and thoughts expressed by the two authors on the same day. Neither has had a chance to read the other’s letter yet, but they seem to be on the same wave length so often. It must be love.

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July 6, 1944

We have two short letters from Dot today.

In one, she encloses the snapshots taken during Dart’s visit. How I wish I had those pictures now! She mentions the one where El tried to pose the kids in a passionate kiss. It seems her mother was looking through all the photos and asked a few subtle questions about that one in particular. Dot tried to sidestep the questions, but Ruth persisted. Finally, Dot explained that she was whispering something to Dart at the exact moment that El snapped the shutter. Said Ruth, “Golly, if that’s the way you whisper to him, I’d like to see you kiss him!” Wrote Dot, “She’s not so dumb.” Say I, “No one ever accused Ruth Chamberlain of being dumb!”

Dot writes that she’s glad he enjoyed his trip because that may persuade him to visit again. Then she wishes him all the best when he returns to Great Lakes. She hopes he’s sent where he wants to go for his training, and she hopes there’s someone there he knows from home so he won’t get so homesick.

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In the second letter of the day, Dot encloses a cartoon which has been lost in the intervening years. It had something to do with a man and a beard.

Her mother’s lingering malady has been diagnosed as tonsillitis, requiring the removal of the offending things next week.

In the final paragraph, Dot writes, “Oh Dart, I love you so much that I tried to make iced tea out of cold coffee. And after I had the vile stuff made, I sweetened it with salt.” She’s got it bad.

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