Category Archives: Dart’s Letters

November 24, 1944

Dart spent the  morning repairing the wooden walkways that run throughout Camp Shoemaker. The gravel walks they used previously get absorbed into the soupy mud because there’s so much rain here. He carried lumber, saw, hammer and nails all over the camp, replacing rotted planks as he went.

He got Dot’s letter where she mentions collecting cigarettes for Pop. Dart assures her that his dad will be pleased. “See, it takes a pretty face to get things like that – not even a uniform helps anymore.” I guess tobacco products were one of the long list of rationed commodities.

There’s a beautiful moon hanging out above Shoemaker, surrounded by a rainbow-hued halo that makes it look sort of tarnished. The night sky is uncharacteristically clear, so the stars are sparkling and plentiful. Dart recognizes the advantage to being 40 miles from a big city when he sees how close the stars appear to be. He always likes the stars in a winter sky because they seem to sparkle more.

His favorite time of day around here is late afternoon when the shadows lengthen and the clouds take on a golden or pinkish cast. “The whole world seems to take on an air of peace, comfort, and quiet.”

He decides to describe his surroundings, now that he’s had some time to observe them. “Each morning we awaken to cold quarters and a heavy front. A thick fog blots out the sky and all but nearby objects by 0700. The sun rises to disclose a ring of green mountains at distances up to six miles, which completely surround “Sleepy Hollow.” As the sun gets higher, the mountains seem to recede and the fog leaves entirely. About noon, we’re sweltering. Aside from the barren, unfinished, scarred appearance of Fleet City (Camp Shoemaker, Camp Parks and a hospital) the valley is a beautiful place, with green fields, white houses with red roofs, and here and there, a row of willow trees following a meandering brook, or tall poplars along the road.”

“The mountains are not high, but their tops are not forested… Toward evening, as the sun sinks lower, the mountains change their color to a blurred, heavy blue-green and they seem to be moving slowly in toward the center of the valley, forming an oppressing wall of darkness. At night, they’re visible against the black sky only as outlines where they blot out the stars.”

Today Dart saw the doctor about his back. They recognized each other instantly from their time at Great Lakes hospital. He said Dart should be on permanent shore duty, but such a recommendation can only be made by a ship’s doctor after he’s been at sea. The prediction is that Dart will be bothered by soreness whenever he’s in a damp climate, for years.

When he examined Dart’s scar, he said “Dr. Pumphrey didn’t do that job, did he?” Dart told him it was Dr. Woldman. “God! You’re lucky you can walk,” exclaimed the doctor.

“I guess the ill-fame of the ‘mad gynecologist’ who dressed open wounds with a smouldering cigar dangling from his mouth, has spread,” retorts Dart. Nothing but the finest medical care for our men in uniform!

He thanks Dot for sending a package, which he can hardly wait to receive, and which he will thank her for more effusively once it does.

He enjoyed her confession that she watches him while he’s not looking and admits she’s not the only one who steals glances. He suggests that they’ll have to practice looking into each other’s eyes when they see each other again. “Remember how we looked together when we saw ourselves in the mirror? We looked a bit tired, but very happy. I wish we’d sat up longer.”

He hopes it’ll take forever to tell her how much he loves her, but for now, he’ll kiss her goodnight and wish the kiss was real.

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The two “scrumptious” letters that Dot got today put her into a wonderful mood. She truly appreciates his faithfulness at writing nearly every day.

She understands that he won’t give her any help in Christmas ideas. She thinks men, and especially sailors, are impossible to buy for, but she’ll do her best and he’ll be stuck with the consequences.

Wishing she were better at telling him how much she loves him, she instead must resort to writing down the lyrics of a popular Mills Brothers tune called ‘Til Then. This must have been a song written for the millions of lovers all over the world who endured long-term separation during wartime. It is quite poignant and sentimental, and definitely captures the longing that Dot feels.

In a strange change of subject, Dot gets a little serious and tells Dart he needs to stop talking about her in such glowing terms. She loves to hear them, but she has faults – lots of them – and fears the day when he’ll wake up and discover that his “dream” has become a “nightmare.” She claims her father says she is his little nightmare and El is his “day-colt.” Her low self image sometimes makes me sad.

She likes to hear about his plans for the future, but reminds him that he wants to finish college. She advises him to cross each bridge as it comes, but hopes the plans won’t take too long in coming true.

She has been transferred again – this time to the young men’s department, where she works with the only male sales clerk in the store. Dart might be jealous, but she assures him there’s no need. Mr. Goldstein is a veteran of the First World War. He is single, though. “In fact this morning, he asked me to marry him. I told him I was very sorry but I had other interests so this afternoon he bought me some cookies. He said. ‘I want you to get good and fat so your other interest won’t love you anymore.”

With a promise to join him again tomorrow night, she signs off, leaving room for Tonsillectomy to write a brief note.

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November 25, 1944

It’s a brief letter from Dart, filled with huge thanks for the big package Dot sent. It was full of all sorts of edible treats, which I assume will be much enjoyed by Dart and his cronies.

He hasn’t gone out on liberty this week because it costs too much to go all the way to Oakland and sailors aren’t welcome in the nearby small towns. He wishes he had a bike to explore the valley he’s in.

Just as casual as you please, he drops a little line about expecting to be shipped out the middle of next week!

Then another little line about a Wave asking him for a date. He told her he had a standing date with a girl from Connecticut, but he appreciated being asked. His buddies say he was a chump to turn her down because he might have had a nice time on her dollar. Naturally, he says there’s no girl for him but Dot and he’d rather spend the evening writing to her. He’ll never let anything come between them, even if that Wave did seem like a very nice girl.

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Another short letter from Dot as she plays nursemaid for the Miller boys. She tells a cute story of going up to check on Chris and finding him fast asleep and looking irresistibly adorable. She gently lifted him out of his bed and sat rocking him for a few minutes. She was pleased she’d been able to do that without waking him up, when he slyly opened one eye, smiled a bit and said “Hello, Dot.” She’s pretty fond of that little rascal.

She writes that she used to make fun of folks who said they felt the presence of a loved one, even when that person was far away. Now she knows the sensation is real. She felt Dart with her all day, even felt his arm around her shoulder. She only wishes it was more than her imagination, but since he can’t be there, she’s grateful she at least has the sensation that he is.

She and El plan to bowl tomorrow and Dot expects her score will improve over last week’s.

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November 26, 1944

This letter from Dart is hard to read because he used both sides of onion skin paper. The contents, however, are easy on the heart.

He’s standing watch again, but it’s a slow night with nothing to do. He recalls that she said she could get in trouble for writing to him while on the job; he’s also breaking the rules by doing so, only he could get shot for it!

Earlier, he wrote a letter to his beloved high school English teacher, Miss Palmer. He included a similar sermon of the power of well-used language that he’d included once in a letter to Dot. He explains that he’s not referring to the use of “who” vs “whom,” or the proper verb form for the third person singular subjective. He’s more interested in someone who can use the right words to explain complex ideas so that similar ideas or things are excluded in the definition, resulting in a clear description of that which they’re trying to distinguish from all other things. With an attitude like that, he was born to excel in his future field of technical writing and editing.

He hopes Dot gets to go bowling and improve her score. (Isn’t that a game where low score wins, he asks slyly.) She may be able to  beat him at that, but he thinks after he takes a Charles Atlas course, he could soundly whoop her at a no-holds-barred wrestling match like the one they had that Wednesday of Thursday night in Cleveland. Now doesn’t that conjure up some enticing mental images?

He’s happy to see he’s received a promotion in her eyes. Where he used to be the best sailor except for Gordon, he’s now the best doggoned sailor in the world.

He wishes they could practice some more gear-shifting now, only without the cracked cylinder head that occurred before. He mourns the fact that cars after the war will be automatics, eliminating the need for that delightful mode of one-armed driving they have perfected together.

The idea of a scrapbook telling the story of Dot and Dart intrigues him. Is there anything she’d like him to send to include there? He wants it to hold a special place in the house they’ll build together someday.

She has been doing such a great job in her letters of telling him how much she loves him. He feels his words have fallen flat, but he loves her more than words can say.

Now he must kiss her goodnight again. He recalls that the moment in Cleveland when she told him he needn’t ask her permission to kiss her because she wasn’t planning on kissing anyone else was one of the biggest moments of his life. I’ve heard that story all my life and always thought it was so endearing. Obviously, so did Dart.

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After returning from bowling, at which she fared as poorly as last week, Dot and El sat at their kitchen table picking meat off the turkey. She was enjoying herself so much that she wished she could share the fun with Dart. She got to thinking that if she can’t send him turkey, she could send him cookies, so she set about making him a batch of Toll House. “I hope by the time you get them they won’t be all crumbs, and stale ones at that.”

She is astounded that Christmas is just four weeks from today. The radio played a number of carols today, including I’ll be Home for Christmas, which always makes her cry. She recalls that when she heard that song last year, she prayed the war would be over by this Christmas and that everyone would be home safe and sound. Here it is, another Christmas with the war still raging. She can’t imagine the same will be true in 1945!

She inserts this charming little paragraph, “Say, I’ve been meaning to ask what are you planning on doing for the rest of your life? Think you’ll be very busy? Thought maybe we could keep each other company if you had nothing special planned.”

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November 27, 1944

A quick note from Dart brings s couple of perks, including a clipping from the East Cleveland Leader that Dart suggests might be good material for Dot’s scrapbook. The clipping must have made it into the book because it’s not included among the letters. I wonder what it covered? Maybe a blurb about Dart being home for leave? A morsel about Miss Dot Chamberlain of Greenwich, Connecticut attending a Shaw High School football game? Maybe Mom will remember and give us a clue.

Dart says he was called out of work detail by the battalion commander because he “does the work of eight men” and needs a rest. Dart thinks it’s ironic that the only thing he’s worked hard at is avoiding hard work. The many messenger watches he’s volunteered for have gotten him out of physical labor and K.P. “Anyway, to be praised by an officer who is despised by his men bears little honor, no prestige and certainly no love from the buddies.” You can’t say Dart isn’t honest!

He may skip liberty tomorrow because he thinks he’s coming down with another cold. He fills the rest of the page with a pencil sketch of a pea coat-clad sailor standing shin-deep in mud. Also several post scripts about his mother receiving a nice note and some photos from Dot, and a letter from Ruth Chamberlain, the suit Dot is wearing in the photos and a reminder that he loves her.

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We’re on a run of short letters from these two busy kids. Dot had a visit from a cousin she’d not seen since before going to Andrews School, so he and Dot and El stayed up until 1:00 am getting caught up on family news.

She hasn’t been getting many letters from Dart but hopes for one tomorrow. She doesn’t know how she’ll survive when he’s at sea and his mail comes less frequently.

“It was only about three weeks ago that I saw you and already it seems like three years. Why in heck doesn’t this war end?” Good question, Dot.

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November 28, 1944

Dart writes from San Francisco where he went expressly to see Bob Hope in The Princess and the Pirate which he describes as a hilarious mellow drama. He won’t give away the surprise ending but urges Dot to see it for herself.

Last night he went to meet with a guy in the personnel office who grew up in Cleveland and went to Shaw. The guy asked Dart what kind of ship he’d like to be on and Dart answered either a big battleship or an aircraft carrier. The man put it into Dart’s record and Dart considers it a done deal. If a big ship comes up soon, he’ll depart Shoemaker before some of the guys he’s with. He may have to chase the ship half way around the world before boarding her, but he’s excited by the prospect of serving on one of these monster ships, if he must go to sea (which he must). Can the Navy be counted on to follow its own directions about placing him where he wants to be? Stay tuned!

That’s all for tonight.

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This is a rare letter from Dot – one in which she expresses hurt and frustration. It reveals that while she habitually looks on the bright side of things, she’s not always so happy.

El’s fiance Don is about to graduate. From there, the Army will decide whether to ship him overseas as a medic or send him to medical school on their nickel. El is eaten up by anxiety, crying at the drop of a hat. The other day, Dot made the mistake of suggesting that since the outcome she dreads is not yet reality, she’d feel better if she stayed positive and hopeful until there was actual reason to be sad and disappointed. Her words sent El into a screaming fit, with Betty taking El’s side. “How would you feel if your fiance was being shipped overseas?,” asked Betty. Dot replied that someone she cares just as much about is being shipped out. Just because Don and El have announced to the world that they plan to marry doesn’t mean they love each other any more than Dot and Dart.  Her mother told her she was being selfish. Dot says there isn’t a person in the world who wants Don and El to get married more than she does!

Dot pleads with Dart to wake up to her faults now so that he won’t be shocked when he learns her family’s opinion of her. She hopes that facing reality won’t turn him against her; in fact, she’d love it if he could acknowledge her faults and love her in spite of them.

She feels she should just learn to keep her thoughts to herself, but wonders what the world would be like if folks with different points of view were not permitted to express them.

I find it harsh that her family seems to come down so hard on Dot. It seems as though all signs point to her being highly agreeable, hard-working, modest to a fault, thoughtful, and funny. What more could a family want? Still, they do seem to expect a great deal more from her.

She apologizes for writing such a horrid letter and promises a cheerful one tomorrow.

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November 29, 1944

Dart was overjoyed to get two letters today after a brief dry spell. Mail delivery seems quite sporadic these days, in both Shoemaker and Greenwich.

Referring to Dot’s chiding him about his worrying over her health, he comments, “Didn’t you know that when a person tells another person not to worry, as you told me not to, it’s an unmistakable signal for worry to begin, especially when the party of the second part loves the very air the party of the first part breathes? You’re surely right about our love being like quicksand – only more pleasant. We think we’re as much in love as any two kids could be, yet we fall more deeply in love at every new occasion.”

Dart and four friends went bowling after dinner tonight. His scores were the lowest of the bunch but they had loads of fun.

He observes that Venice, Italy and Shoemaker have much in common – they are both flooded. Venice, however, is connected directly to the sea whereas Shoemaker just has lots of rain and bad drainage. Now he knows why all the buildings are on stilts and the roads are built on embankments.

If she insists, he will try his best to surprise her on his next leave. He’s not sure he can keep it a secret because he’ll be so excited, but if it means so much to her, he will make every effort. He thanks her and her mother for the standing invitation to stay at their house.

He doesn’t care if he catches her in overalls, shorts, curlers or face cream. He’ll be so happy to see her that nothing else will matter. She, however needs to brace herself for the day she first sees him wearing shorts. His skinny bird legs may cause her quite a shock.

All of the plans she’s making for the next time they see each other will take quite a while to accomplish. Bicycle rides, swimming, fishing, ping-pong, etc. He hopes they take forever. He knows if they keep focused on their goals and work hard, they’ll accomplish all they hope to, and have fun doing it.

He vaguely knows the Sammy Kaye music she referred to and he likes it, too. He’s never heard the Mills Brothers’ song ‘Til Then but he agrees with Dot that the words fit their relationship perfectly. “Something which gives me a nice little sensation every time I see, or hear it, is one little word ‘us’ and all its brothers and sisters like ‘we’ and ‘our.’ It seems natural, yet entirely new and pleasant, to be speaking of you and me in terms like that. Oh, there I go dreaming again.”

He wants her to tell Mr. Goldstein to go ahead and try to fatten her up. Her “other interest” liked her just fine when she was bigger than she is now, and likes her even more now. If he succeeds in fattening her up, he’ll defeat his purpose by making Dot dissatisfied, not Dart.

It’s  nearly time for Taps, so he must close, his heart overflowing with love and perfect memories of their time together. On the back page he wrote a note to Tonsillectomy and drew a weird little picture of her and her pappy.

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Dot finally got some letters from Dart that have been sent out of order, but she’s thrilled to get them whenever they come.

Don called last night to give El the news that he will be getting eight days of leave before reporting to Ft. Devens until September. After that, he’ll start Tufts Medical School, just outside of Boston. No war service for El’s fiance! Dot recalls all the tears El wasted, and how little faith she put in God, Don or the Army. After all, Don graduated first in his class at Penn.

She loves Dart’s house plans but wants to think about them a little longer before commenting more. Her father says Dart has lots of good ideas, but he suggests not putting the three windows in the door because “those have been used on nearly every $5,000 house ever built.” I’m not sure what that means. Was $5,000 a lot for a house then, or did Arthur think it made the house look cheap?

She’s very concerned that his back is acting up again…or still. She begs him to take good care of it and not let it get worse, if possible.

Because there’s so little she can do for him for Christmas, she asks if he would please call her that day, collect. It would be like a gift she buys herself. She says he musn’t limit it to a three minute call, either. She’d gladly listen to anything he had to talk about, even if he was explaining the Mark I computer to her (again).

How could he so blithely announce he expects to be shipped out the middle of next week? That’s about now! She’d hoped he’d still be in the country for Christmas, but guesses that was too much to ask.

She urges him to take very good care of himself while he’s away. If he can only send one air mail letter per week from the ship, don’t always send it to her. She knows how hard his absence will be on his parents, so she begs him to write to them often.

As it is now, she can hardly stand being away from him, so she’s clueless how she’ll survive with him so very far away, in places unknown to her. She’ll be thinking of him constantly, and praying for his safe and speedy return. I can hear the dread and worry in her words.

She appreciates that he turned down a date with a Wave. She thinks he’d have been like her, and not had a very good time with anyone else, but he has the right to if he chooses.

Although she kisses his picture every night, she’d much rather it be a real kiss like the ones they shared on the stairs that night in Cleveland. As wonderful as the real thing was, the memory of it makes it seem even more wonderful, and it makes her miss him even more.

She signs off with, “Yours til the ocean wears rubber pants to keep its bottom dry.” Appropriate for a sailor, I guess.

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November 30, 1944

We’re wrapping up a month in which Dot didn’t miss a day of writing letters except when she was in transit to and from Cleveland or personally with Dart and his family. Similarly, Dart only skipped two days. It seems as if they’re both more committed to maximizing their contact with each other as the huge separation of Dart’s deployment looms larger.

Dart is overjoyed to have received a bundle of letters today; three from Dot and a slew of others from friends and family. His old buddy Fred has landed in the Marianas with his Marine unit and seems to be taking it all as a great adventure.

Dart spent this  morning helping to dig a drainage ditch to siphon some of the water out of the camp. He thinks if the water runs uphill, it just might work!

The temperature has dropped at Shoemaker, so Dart is cocooned in all of his woolen garments and two blankets as he writes the letter. His heart, however, is warmed by a letter he received from Pop today. His dad wrote how much he and Dart’s mom enjoyed their very short visit with Dart and Dot. They’re so grateful their son has found such a nice young lady whom they’ve come to care about as well. If the two feel “that way” about each other, it’s alright with them. Pop tells his son that the war will end soon and the next phase of his life will run smoothly for the young couple because they have each other. Their love for each other will help them laugh off life’s irritations and their time of preparation for the rest of their lives will pass quickly.

“So there, Dot. You have what my parents think of the whole set up. If only all the parents of boys would love their son’s chosen one, the way my parents love you, the world would be a better place to live in.”

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Dot is awe struck with the glorious full moon shining in the crystal sky this evening. She promises Dart that someday they will be able to stare at a full moon together.

She thanks him for the clippings he sent and tells him she’ll include them in their memory book for posterity.

In answer to his question, she writes that none of the suits she wore in Cleveland were ones she’d made. She’s glad he likes her clothes. She likes his, too, although she’d much prefer to see him in “civvies.”

Now we learn of another skill Dot’s been hiding. She took out her old violin today to see if she still remembered enough to play a few Christmas songs. To her surprise, she did, although her family would agree she’s not Carnegie Hall material. “But,” she asks, ” if we all played Carnegie Hall, who would Franklin Simon use for sales girls?” Then she quipped that her mother plans to buy her a new bow for Christmas, but she plans to keep her “beau” permanently.

Next, she got out her guitar, with less agreeable results. She thinks maybe she should just give all her stringed instruments to Spike Jones and his City Slickers.

Today was the deadline for mailing packages before Christmas, so if his arrives early, she hopes he’ll honor the label and wait until Christmas morning to open it. I wonder if she could have ever imagined a day when someone could order something on December 24 and have it delivered on the other side of the country on Christmas Day?

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December 1, 1944

Dart writes this letter from “the most refined and neighborly service club in San Francisco,” where he came today simply to escape the soggy, dismal mess that is Camp Shoemaker. Except for a brief respite yesterday when they all dug the drainage ditch, it has been raining for days at that dreadful place.

He’s happy to report that just after finishing his letter to Dot yesterday, the heating stoves at his quarters kicked back into action, so no one froze during the night.

Several of the guys have received food packages from home lately, similar to the one Dot sent Dart. Because chow was such a disappointment yesterday, Dart and five or six other guys pooled their bounty, added some crackers they filched from the mess, and had themselves a grand feast. The cheese, Vienna sausages and deviled ham from Dot’s package were big hits. “As yet, I haven’t found a way to fix up that cocoa you sent, but never fear – a fire control man must be a man of ingenuity, never stopped by lack of proper equipment.”

Of his trip into ‘Frisco, Dart writes, “When I crossed the Bay Bridge at about 5:30 this afternoon, the Bay was more beautiful than I’ve ever seen it. If it weren’t for the many things wrong with this state, and the fact that I want to live in Ohio with the girl of my ambitions, I might be persuaded to live here. The beauty of that scene is Heavenly, peaceful, indescribable by adjectives.”

His final paragraph sends a little stab to my heart as he writes of his loneliness and homesickness. “I knew it would be this way. (“Mother told me there’d be days like this.”) I wish you were here, or more rightly, that I were there… Every time I think of you-your expressions, your laughter, your gentle (sometimes) sarcasm, our water fights (and wrestling matches), our embraces and our kisses, I think of the day when we can make those memories everlastingly our own possessions.”

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Dot writes from another babysitting job for a new customer, 3 1/2-year old David. As with all her charges, she decrees he is “as cute as can be.” To prove it, she tells a story about him. He was playing records on a little portable player when it was time to go to bed. He immediately put the records away and went upstairs. When Dot told him to get ready for bed and to call her when he was done, he replied, “I’m sorry, but I’m too sick and tired from playing records to work at this ungodly hour.”

She thinks it’s wonderful that Dart will be placed on the kind of ship he wants. Now, she hopes no “wagons” or “flat-tops” become available until the war is nearly over, so that the Navy will be able to tell him, “Just stay home. We don’t need you out here anymore.” She certainly has a rich fantasy life! But she has a basis of reality on which to place her hopes – that’s what happened to her father in the last war.

With 19 shopping days left until Christmas, Dot’s feeling the strain. This is the first time she’s been on the receiving end of a mob of shoppers. When Mr. Goldstein went to lunch today, 15 customers swarmed the Young Men’s department all at once. She announced to them that since there were 15 of them and only one of her, they may as well accept the fact that they would have to wait their turn. They all agreed and were most cooperative. Still, she knows she cannot rely on those same people coming in every day between now and Christmas, and she expects “a good deal more trouble with the next crowd.”

She thanks him for the picture postcards of the San Francisco area bridges and agrees with him that they are quite beautiful. She doubts she’ll ever see the real things, so the pictures are even more valuable to her. I’m pleased to say that many years later, she and Dad made it to SF and he was able to share some of his favorite sights with her.

She’s listening to some Strauss waltzes and trying to stay awake. She fills the remainder of the page with a sketch of the lovely fireplace in this home where she’s babysitting. Maybe her sketch will make its way into Dart’s dream home design.

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December 2, 1944

Dart received three letters from Dot today – a short on and two long ones. He says he’s equally thrilled by any length, but the thrill of longer letters takes more time to unfold. Unfortunately, he’s spent most of his time writing a long response to Fred and now he must write to his neglected parents, so his letter to her today must be shorter than he’d like.

He asks that she convey her congratulations to Don for placing top in his pre-med class. He hopes that El and Don are thoroughly enjoying their leave time together.

He has more ideas about his house plans, which he’ll sketch and send to her from time to time. He’d given little thought to the front door when he did that first drawing, but says he prefers solid doors with long wrought-iron hinges. That statement surprised me a little because the man I remember had a preference for more modern or contemporary design. Of course, our tastes and sensibilities tend to change as we age and are exposed to more possibilities.

With a vow to not do it again, he apologizes for alarming both Dot and his parents with his prediction of an imminent departure. He’ll say nothing more of the kind until he has actual orders.

Referring to the date he turned down, he assures Dot that he’s not missing out on any fun. His preference is and always will be to spend time with Dot, either in person, through letters, or just thinking about her. He’s not missing anything as long as he has her. Of other girls, he writes, “I talk to them. I notice them. But always in my mind is the picture of you and no other girl can compare with that picture.”

Dart recalls his precious memories of their last Thursday night together in Cleveland. “We have so few actual minutes of being together to cling to, that each one bears great importance. But Thursday night, our embraces, our kisses, our whispers, are the most important and significant of all. If only we could always be like we were Thursday night – happily, completely in love. We will be, Dot, always.”

As he closes, the “Hit Parade” is playing Together, a song he loves, but not nearly so much as he loves Dot.

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December 3, 1944

Having begun countless letters with the words “Dearest Dot,” Dart now proclaims that he shouldn’t use that expression because it implies he has more than one “dear Dot” in his life. Still, he likes the superlative sound of it, and so he begins again with “Dearest Dot.”

He has five unanswered letters from Dot which he hopes to get through tonight. He enjoyed the story about little Chris when she picked him out of his bed to cuddle with him in his sleep. Again Dart observes the mutual affection between Dot and her charges. He gets a kick out of that.

He agrees that all the stories found in books and movies about true love are coming true for them. Their friendship has grown into something very special. Now, all their hopes and faith in God and each other must prevail so that they may live the future they desire. For him, that includes building their little house “or its descendant.” The only other plan Dart has for the future is “keeping steady company” with Dot.

Her story about the fight with her family intrigued Dart. He likes her philosophy about looking on the positive side and not despairing until there is a reason to, but he thinks he tends to be more on the emotional side, like El. He lost his ability to be positive recently until he received great letters from Dot and from Fred that helped get him back on track.

As a result of her pleading, he says he’s waking up to a few of her faults, and he loves her anyway. Now he hopes she’ll do the same with his faults. He hopes their faults will cancel each other out, and he’s confident he can overlook anything because of his love for her.

He begs her not to worry about her weight. He fell in love with her just the way she is. He still loves her. He will always love her, regardless of her weight. “Now, if you can put up with my weak body with no weight at all, and my often quick temper and sudden changes of mood, you’re doing quite well.”

Time has flown and he must end his letter, but not without a plea that she take good care of herself. If anything should ever happen to her, his world would collapse.

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Dot’s first letter of the day is very brief – mostly saying she babysat for Gale last night with a friend and spent so much time talking about Dart that she had no time to write to him. One more tidbit is that this is the coldest December 3 in Greenwich since 1875 – a bitter 19 degrees.

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The second note is not much longer than her first. She babysat for a new customer today – a 7-year old boy whose cuteness has mostly vanished. He was quite the card shark, however. He asked if she’d play rummy with him and she agreed, fearing she’d have to find a way to keep her victory from being too big. He cleaned her clock! During the game, he made a comment that shocked her. He was studying his hand as well as the discard pile, when he suddenly said, “What the hell. I may as well make life a little interesting,” as he scooped up the entire pile. She confirms that he was a perfectly nice little boy other than that “inappropriate” comment. She quips, “I’ll get educated yet, even if it’s only by the kids I take care of.”

El spent the evening packing for her trip to Providence while Doug was having a party with eight teenage boys downstairs, so the house was anything but calm and quiet.

“I cleaned my room and darned stockings and if you can find anything exciting about that, you’re a better man than I. But who’s denying that?”

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