Category Archives: Dot’s Letters

May 21, 1944

This charming letter from Dot was written on a perfect Sunday afternoon. She had just spent some time sunbathing and was now listening to a wonderful youth concert by the (New York?) Philharmonic.

She writes that she used to think Sundays were about the most dull and boring day of the week. Now, she says, she lives for them. She realizes on such a perfect spring day that Greenwich is the most beautiful town she’s ever seen. Still, she prefers Ohio.

She told Dart of a special program at church this morning, featuring the children of the congregation. She was particularly enthralled with her delightful niece Toni Gale. She’s quite enchanted by that little girl.

Dot took a break from letter-writing to go to a movie with her sister-in-law, Betty. She’s taking every opportunity to get to know her better since Dot has been living in Ohio during her brother’s courtship and brief marriage. They saw a film called “Memphis Belle” which sounds like a documentary about the crew of a United States bomber. It made Dot grateful that Dart will not have to face 25 bombing raids over Germany before he can come home. She knows he wants to get out of the hospital, but she’s reminded that there are worse places he could be.

She continues to hope and pray for his return to health and says she knows neither of them will give up hoping. “In case you didn’t know, I’m crazy about you and would like to see you soon to be able to prove it.”

Immediately after that statement, she wrote the only sentence on page four. “I don’t know why I started this page because there’s nothing left to say.” Yup. I’m quite sure Dart would agree.

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May 22, 1944

Dart explains that he didn’t write yesterday because he’d been ordered back to bed and he wasn’t in a very good mood. It seems the “nurse who rides a broom to work” forced him onto a work detail on his 8th day in the ward because policy dictates that patients be assigned to a crew after 7 days. The doctor was not pleased with the results. Dart is swollen up again and feels lousy.

He likes Dot’s comment that she’d like to have him around when she’s doing dishes (because he makes everything interesting). He says he knows at least one other person who would like to help her dry those dishes any time.

He’s convinced the beauty of Greenwich is Dot Chamberlain. He claims that if he were there, all he would notice of his surroundings would be her. Awwww!

He ends the letter rather abruptly, saying the ice bag on his jaw does not stimulate good thoughts. He asks her to accept his hasty declarations of love. But he adds a P.S. asking again for the date of her birthday and he filled the back page with a drawing of a gremlin, with a cleverly sarcastic caption.

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Dot’s letter-writing is falling into a pattern. Once again, she dashes off a quick response to his most recent letters before plopping, exhausted, into bed. After all, she’s on her feet six days a week, and babysits several evenings. No wonder the kid can’t stay awake!

She establishes that she and Dart were not at the World’s Fair on the same day in 1930-something. She then steps up to defend Lois a bit from Dart’s unfavorable review. She sounds like an unusual character, and I can see there’s a powerful contrast between her and Dot. No wonder Dart had such an easy time “choosing” between them on that first, fateful blind date.

Giving in to Dart’s persuasive arguments, she provides him with her Greenwich phone number. She advises that if he gets a whim to call her, he should let her know about it far in advance because she’s away from home so much of the time. “If your heart’s so foolish as to desire to call me – well, three cheers for your heart!” Sounds like she sort of likes the idea. I wager it won’t be long before he puts that phone number to good use.

She confirms that her father would be a handy man to have around the house – except that he is so busy fixing things around other people’s houses that he’s rarely home to fix his own.

In discussing her recent dream of Dart, she confirmed that he was, indeed, wearing his sailor suit. She told him not to fret too much about the menu for his visit. If he just gets himself there, she’ll handle the details. She suggests that if they are going to have “sand” for their sandwiches, they should also have “greens” for their Greenwich. I would add a little “pun”kin pie.

She appreciated his “word picture” of his current ward and is certain that his clever Marine friend, Fred cannot possibly write a letter as interesting or masterful as his own.

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May 23, 1944

What a joyful letter from Dart as he answers two letters from Dot.  He metions something about one of the letters that arrived today looking like it had barely escaped a firey death. Then he asked if any of his letters look as though they’ve been put through a serilizer. I’m curious about that exchange. Is he just being silly, or is it possible that the hospital really does “clean” letters going into or out of a contagious disease ward? When I think of some of the medical practices that were common in Dart’s environs, I wouldn’t be surprised about much.

He confirmed their joint membership in the mutual admiration society and complimented her on getting better at writing the pretty stuff. Still, he says he knows they can both keep the mushy words in perspective – nice to read, but not as important as other things they have to say to each other.

Having read that horse back riding is pricey in Greenwich, he asked how much two very-much-in-love kids might have to pay to rent a tandem bike. He’s obviously giving a lot of thought to a future visit to Greenwich.

He says that, like Dot, everyone asks him how he can write such interesting letters. The only answer he can come up with is that those who ask the question just happen to care a lot about the lug who writes them. Although I put myself in that same category, I disagree with his assessment. His letters are interesting because they use language well, contain interesting observations on a variety of topics, offer a healthy dose of clever humor and are written from the heart.

He was surprised and impressed by Dot’s suggestion that a full moon and dreamy music act like TNT in charging her romantic side. He recalls a couple of nice evenings they’ve shared where there was no full moon, “but whether the music was there or not, I know I heard it when I looked at you.” Such a sweet-talker, this boy!

He’s still confined to bed with an ice bag. He’s eager to be able to move around like a normal person. On the subject of “almost not meeting each other,” he agrees that many things had to conspire in order for that event to occur. He speculates, however that had they not met on the fateful blind date, they would have simply met at another time and place.

He admits to spending a great deal of time dreaming about them being together, and the day when they can stay together forever. He’s convinced that everything that has happened between them shows they are destined for a happily-ever-after ending.

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Dot is becoming spoiled by Dart’s faithful letter-writing. In the mornings, she looks forward to seeing his letter on the hall table when she comes home from work for lunch. In the afternoon, she lives off the contents of the letter she’s just received. She says she never imagined how much mental attention one person could occupy in another person’s brain. She claims that again today, she called a customer Dart, but the woman thought she was referring to the darts in her jacket.

Dot cautions him to never write anything in a letter to her mother that he wouldn’t want Dot to read. She says she has not shared his letters with her mother, but Ruth always lets Dot read the ones he writes to her.

Needing to return to work from her lunch break she says she’ll finish the letter later that night. Alas, her mother took her to the library in the evening to research colleges, so she dashed off a final paragraph before going to work the next morning.

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May 24, 1944

There’s not much news in Dart’s letter, but there’s a “whole lotta heart.”  He’s envious of her freedom to sunbathe. It is forbidden at the hospital, but some of the guys do it anyway. “… did you ever see a rule that was not disobeyed?”, he asks.

He still has the ice bag, which he is coming to loathe. It’s such a bother to sleep with and he’s wet all day as a result of its leaking. Still, he says his case is not as serious as some. He’ll tell her what he means by that if she’s ever curious.

Dot had vowed in a recent letter that she would never loose faith in him or in the two of them until it had been proven to be a hopeless case. “You’re so good to me and so faithful. There’ll be darned few times when the case is hopeless, and I’ve a feeling we’ll stick together even through those.”

He asks for nothing from Dot except that she continue to be the same sweet, wonderful girl she is now and that she wait for him until they can be together and make important decisions. He vows to do the same. “By the time we can be together again, I’ll try to make myself a better person, more worthy of your love.”

His emphatic final paragraph exudes an eagerness to see her again. He wants to talk about the things he was thinking of when he wrote that previous paragraph. The poor boy is consumed with homesickness for her.

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Delighted that her new stationery finally arrived, Dot settles in to tell Dart about her upcoming 24-hour day. She’ll work at the store from 10:00 until 5:00 when she leaves to babysit Chuck Pecsock, age 2-1/2. Chuck’s mother just gave birth to a daughter, so Dot will provide dinner for Chuck and his dad and stay overnight until it’s time to go back to work. The family has decided they’ll need her for about two weeks.  “It looks like I’m destined to live away from home, even when I’m in town,” she writes.

She has other childcare jobs lined up in the future and likes the idea of padding her bank account so nicely.

She disagrees with Dart that his friends getting engaged is a sign they are all growing up. Dot has seen too many young people get engaged with no apparent idea of what that really means. Still, she sends “Angel” her best wishes for a happy engagement and subsequent marriage.

After thanking Dart for the instructions he sent about how her friends might find him for a visit, she reminds him who these young ladies are. Andy Daubney is the one who says she looks like Betty Grable, Marian Miller is the girl who sat on the pie Dot had left on her bed, and Doris Phinney who was introduced to Dart as the class wit. Now being mentioned in this humble blog has extended their fame by a microscopic amount, 70 years later. I wonder if these letters will reveal whether or not they ever ventured out to Great Lakes Naval Hospital.

She tells Dart she can take a vacation a year from May 15. I doubt he’ll still be around to spend any of that time with her. Certainly not if the Navy has any say in the matter, and I believe they most certainly do!

Finally she quips that if the furniture in the living room of Dart’s dream was in need of reupholstering, he was most assuredly dreaming of her living room!

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May 25, 1944

Not much news again. (I mean what can happen when you’re stuck in bed and have no visitors?) Dot’s was one of four letters Dart received today, and the first one he is answering.

He consoles her on the tiredness she feels after working on her feet all day and counsels that it will get better after awhile. He calls himself “the old man of experience.”

He writes that he is not going to give her advance warning about any phone call he makes to her. He likes surprises. He also passes on word from his mother that she plans on answering Dot’s letter very soon.

He had a sardonic letter from Fred today. Among other sarcastic rants, he said that the only Navy tradition he’s in favor of keeping is the one where the Captain goes down with the ship! Such an attitude, that boy!

He writes a silly little joke in a colloquial New York accent, which he thinks is apt payback for her “green”wich crack in her letter.

He ends the letter by saying it’s his turn to claim sleepiness. Then he signed off with “All my love, til the end of time.” That about sums it up.

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Dot warns that the letter may be a bit disjointed because she’s listening to “The Aldridge Family.” The antics of Homer and Henry remind her of the high jinks that went on at Andrews School.

Mr. Pecsock offered to dictate a letter for her if she couldn’t think of anything to say. When she took him up on the offer, he back-pedaled and told her to tell Dart about the dog Ginger. Apparently, she is nearly as clever as the toddler Chuck, who can practically read the newspaper! Dot is obviously staying with a very talented family.

In response to Dart’s question (again) about Dot’s birthday, she writes a very funny and convoluted paragraph without actually mentioning the date. That should keep him busy for a couple of minutes, figuring it out.

She ends the letter by promising to write a better one next time.

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May 26, 1944

Although Dot’s letter was the only one he received today, Dart says he won’t write much. First, he must write to his folks because he didn’t yesterday. Second, there’s not much news to report.

The little news he does have is that he is free of his ice bag and allowed to get out of bed for a few minutes at a time. He claims that if the blonde witch nurse tries to make him do physical labor too soon, she’ll be in for a little resistance.

He relates a “tragic incident” in his ward last night. Around 2:00 a.m. he rolled over in bed and ruptured his ice bag. Frigid water and ice cubes all over his bed and himself! The corpsman who came to dry him off, flip the mattress and change the sheets turned on all the overheard lights to accomplish his task. Dart’s ward mates were none too happy and made several nasty comments about “wetting the bed at his age.”

He intends to keep trying to spoil Dot with long and frequent letters until he’s back on active duty and likely unable to write as much.

He assures her that he will never write anything in a letter to anyone that he wouldn’t want Dot to see. He also assures her that his folks have never, and will never read any of the letters he sends home. He ties them with string and his mother packs them away with the strings intact.

He trusts she’ll let him know her decision when she has chosen a college to attend. Again, he affirms that he loves her and will forever.

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Poor Dot! It’s 11:00 p.m. when she finally sits down to write this letter, and she has had quite a day. She takes Dart through it step by step, starting with breakfast for Chuck at 6:30. She gets through hours at the store, painstakingly folding and re-folding stacks of rayon bathing suits while customers wantonly scatter them again, helter-skelter. Finally Mr. Pecsok picks her up and she goes off to cook dinner, clean house, bathe Chuck and send him off to bed while Mr. Pecsok visits his wife in the hospital. At last Dot can take a quiet moment to write to her beloved, but, alas! The phone rings. It is her sister Harriet. She and husband George would like to come visit with their good friend Mr. Pecsok and they would like her to watch their little Toni Gale. Off Dot traipses to babysit for her niece, with a promise from Harriet that they’ll be home “early.” Dot’s mother calls to say that several other couples have joined the “party” at the Pecsok’s, so it looks as though Harriet and George may be a little later than expected. Phew! Did I mention that she made the beds and did the dishes at the Pecsok home this morning before walking a mile to Chuck’s nursery school in time to catch a bus and get to work? No wonder this girl’s exhausted. Well, at least she’s making a whopping 25 cents per hour!

Regarding Dart’s query about his letters possibly going through the sterilizer, she responds that the blue lining of his airmail stationery does look like it ran a little. “However, having no place to go, it didn’t run far.”

She agrees that he is quite right to assume her family is a pack of kidders. She assures him, however, that she can give as good as she gets, and she just teases them right back.

She thought she heard Harriet coming home, but it was a false alarm. Asking Dart’s indulgence, she signs off to take a late-night nap on the sofa.

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May 27, 1944

Dart  begins by warning Dot that this is another of the kind of letter he’s been writing more of lately. He’s not in a very good mood and he feels lousy. He predicts he’ll feel better after writing a few sour remarks.

There is some dubious good news, although the way Dart feels physically, it’s not so good. He has been returned to his former ward because his mumps quarantine is over. Dr. Pumphrey has declared his cyst healed and fit for duty. The other doctors at Ward 85 will decide his fate after they meet with him. Here’s the rub: the ward doctors have a reputation of sending everyone back to active duty as soon as possible. Dart is eager to get back to life, but his legs get rubbery, his heart pounds and he gets winded at the slightest exertion. He fears that if he’s discharged to boot camp now he’ll be back in the hospital soon, in far worse shape.

Dart says this could be a turning point for his luck and he has an inescapable inkling that his luck will get worse. He tells Dot not to give him any blarney about his positive spirit, because he doesn’t have that now!

Now on to her letter – He likes her sharp new stationery. He’s impressed by her 24-hour day and jokes about her getting time and a half for any hours over eight.  He assumes young Chuck will be disappointed that he can’t play with his baby sister right away.

Dart agrees with her that too many teens are getting engaged to be married – often with disastrous results. He’s sure that his friends John and Sally are in this for good and that they’ll make a success of it. Still, they have no money in the bank and no idea what comes next in their lives. Dart has ideas about things he’d like to have in place before he would ever make the leap to engagement and marriage. He says Dot figures into his plans, but that the time is inappropriate to air those plans right now . They’ll keep for a later date.

His final paragraph announces “That was just what I needed. Just write it down, embellish it a bit, add some amorous thoughts, whip it up and serve it on paper to my love. That’s you. You’re a tonic.”

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Dot begins her letter by quoting a book or an article she is reading. “There is nothing that brings two people closer together than separation.”  How happy she is to hear that, because she wouldn’t want them to get tired of each other. “Fat chance of that happening,” she adds.

“Wait for you?,” she asks. There is absolutely no alternative. First, all the unattached males in her life are either toddlers or supported by a cane. Second, she has no interest in anyone else. She has strong ideas about the perfect man for her, and all such men currently reside at Great Lakes, Illinois.

She’s spending tonight at a different house caring for two young children. Having made $12.00 this week by babysitting, she claims to be considering a child care business called “Dot’s School for Tots.” Or “If You Don’t Care How Your Kids are Brung Up, Bring ’em to Dot’s.” She tells Dart that she loves kids so much that she’d consider adopting a slew of them just to hear their chatter.

She tells of a hot and humid day at the store. Even the wrapping paper was soggy. She’s decided that hot, cranky customers and sleepy, crank y Dot are not a good combination, so she’s trying to get more sleep this weekend.

Once more, she asks Dart to forgive her for always writing to him when she is so tired, but late night is the only time she can manage to squeeze in a little time. She wants to send him another care package, but she has no idea what to include. With tongue firmly planted in cheek, she suggests jaw-breakers. She asks him for ideas. “The more unusual the request, the better I like it.”

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May 28, 1944

This letter from Dart is a variety pack: a pinch of pathos, a smattering of trivia, some “inside navy” chatter, a clever riff and a heavy dose of profound, intimate heart songs.

First, the pathos. Dart has been ordered back to duty. And he has been forbidden to appeal the decision to a higher authority. He has strong misgivings about his immediate fitness, but he’s putting the best face possible on it. He’s hoping this will be the change in luck he and Dot have been counting on, and he hopes that change is for the better.

The trivia is the news that his brother Burke has been inducted into the National Honor Society and his parents wrote that they miss seeing Dot.

The inside Navy chatter came in response to Dot’s question about the credentials of Navy doctors. I suspect Dot’s tone was tongue-in-cheek, but Dart chose to answer in compete and accurate detail. This “dissertation” reminded me of a line we borrowed from a Stan Freburg album when we were kids: Ask Dad a simple question, you get a pageant. I predict you’ll see that side of Dart a time or two in future letters. Maybe I’ll instigate a safe word to let readers know there’s a pageant coming on and they may choose to avert their eyes.

In this day’s letter, he saves the best parts for last. Treat yourself to a reading of his paragraph about figuring out Dot’s birthday. Such a fun and snappy writing style.

And finally, some endearing lines about how he came to be in this relationship with the perfect girl. Here’s an exerpt: It seems like all my hopes and dreams and faith are coming true. … I’ve dreamed of a sweet girl who would love me as I loved her. …And now you’re making my dreams come true. You’re the justification of my faith. …I’m probably old-fashioned in believing that a kiss is something sacred, not merely to be asked or given in exchange for a pleasant evening; that endearing words were meant mainly for those who felt the same about each other and who believed in each other and the words they were using. …And now that I have met you, I feel that all the taunts of being “slow,” the seeming incompleteness of my former acquaintanceships, the occasional loneliness… — all these are justified. I love you, my dearest Dot.

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A scant page and a half is all Dot could muster today. She’s back at Pecsok’s – her favorite home-away-from home. Today when she arrived, ready to prepare the family dinner, Mr. P. had already cooked up a marvelous chicken feast. Dot explained that she had cooked a dehydrated baked bean dinner the night before and had managed to dry the beans out even more. She claims they looked exactly like fertilizer! Could she have stumbled upon the reason Mr. Pecsok did the cooking tonight?

The English sailors she’s mentioned before stopped by tonight. They are leaving town tomorrow and will be home in less than a week. “It makes England seem awfully close, doesn’t it?”

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May 29, 1944

This hurried letter from Dart resembles recent ones from Dot. It’s a schedule of activities he completed during the day as he readies himself to return to duty. Haircut, collecting gear for boot camp, shipping his model interurban cars home, packing his limited belongings, etc. He also reports mailing a package to Dot.

Yet after all that, he feels miserable. He’s almost certain he’ll be staying in the “health factory” for awhile longer. The thought depresses him because he simply wants to get well.

Stealing a line from Reader’s Digest, he closes with “Keep smiling, my favorite chin-up girl!”

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Dot begins her letter with the question on everyone’s mind; “Off the ice bag yet?” Of course, we know he is, but that letter hasn’t made its way to Greenwich yet.

She reports that today was the busiest day so far at Franklin Simon, but she loved running back and forth across the store, keeping customers happy. She was equally happy to return to the Pecsok house to find that, once again, dinner was waiting and Chuck had been fed.

After four weeks of waiting, the Chamberlain family has finally heard from Dot’s brother, Gordon, from ‘somewhere in the Pacific.’ Says Dot, “It sends chills up my spine, to think of him out there in that vast ocean. …God bless him and all the others like him. And may all of you be able to come home for good soon.”

In this deeply personal collections of letters, it seems the war is usually a minor character. When it makes an appearance, it still catches me a little by surprise. This is a conflict that truly involved millions of private individuals like Dot and Dart over a large part of the world. We’ve not seen a war so all-encompassing since – and I pray we never will again.

Dot thanks “the old man of experience” for his advice about getting through the early weeks of a new job. “I’ll try and do as you say, ‘tho I’d prefer it if you’d come and show me how.”

She tells him that simply reading the paragraph where he had the imaginary conversation with the telephone operator made her heart beat twice as fast. How cute she is! I hope she’ll soon have the real experience.

Because tomorrow is Memorial Day, this letter will probably not be mailed until Wednesday. She closes by saying that she may be busy, but she thinks of him constantly.

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May 31, 1944

Can a writer be “loquacious?” If so, Dart is today. This 8-page letter to Dot followed a 10-pager he had just written to Fred Dixon. It’s apparent from the start that he’s feeling better, although exhausted from the effort.

All day, he has been stuck, poked, and drained in an effort to determine what’s going on with him. The ice pack is once again his steady companion. While most of the tests are coming back normal, the new doctor seems determined to “get to the bottom of this fouled-up series of ailments.”

He tells Dot that he just heard an announcement over the public address speakers that US bombers had hit an island “only 1,000 miles from Tokyo.” All the guys listening with Dart were struck by the fact that two short years ago, 1,000 miles would have seemed like a long distance. Airplanes have shortened distances since the early days of the war. “By that train of thought, we’re ‘only’ 1,100 miles apart. A mere routine bombing flight. Would that I could make it and bail out over Greenwich.”

He seems to have gotten a kick out of reading her daily exploits at work and babysitting. Cheerful images of ordinary domestic life must have served as “chicken soup for the soul” for thousands of servicemen during those long war years.

The weather at Great Lakes has been uncomfortably hot and humid. Dart’s sheets are sodden and his leather money belt has bled its color all over his pajamas. He’s grateful for the cool breezes that occasionally find their way across his bed from the lake, just 150 feet away.

Commenting on how they’ve become better acquainted through letters, Dart has obviously given the subject much thought. “Through your letters, I think I know very well, a sweet, home-loving good girl with a charming personality and true, faithful heart. …I know that you’re exceptionally pretty with a very harmonious set of features. In fact, Dot, I think I’m mighty lucky to know a real life dream like you.” Isn’t that a simple definition of love? To feel lucky to have the object of our love in our lives?

Dart mentions that his doctor calls him a “bastard case,” disowned by the surgical department and cured of mumps and its complications, but to weak and frail to return to duty. Dart’s lament is “Nobody wants me. I’m just a worthless bum.” I predict a firm contradiction by Dot is forthcoming.

He returns to the task of answering her recent letters, point by point.  He’s so glad she likes children – another thing they have in common. I’s fine with him if she writes to him late at night, as long as she keeps up her wonderful, morale-building contact. He has a special request for a package from her – he’d like for Dot to ship herself to him as quickly as possible. He can tell she enjoys her job at the Pecsok house. He cautions her not to malign her own cooking too much. Otherwise, he might see a bottle of iodine and think, “Oh my! Dottie has been burning water again!”

He ends the letter so that he can jot a short note to his mother.

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Dot’s letter expresses awe and appreciation of Dart’s recent letters, especially the beautiful one he wrote on May 28. She’s happy they are in agreement on life’s important things, and that they’re equally “old-fashined” in certain matters.

She envisions him on his first day back at boot camp, unaware that he never made it. She infuses the paragraph with her typical pep talk about changing luck and positive thinking.

News of Burke’s election the the National Honor Society doesn’t surprise her. The possibility was discussed when she had dinner with his family in Cleveland, and she had the feeling then that he would make it. She congratulated Dart on being born into such a wonderful family and for”adding glory to the name.” I sometimes wonder if people really used that kind of language in 1944, or if these two writers are just having fun with dramatic affect.

Tonight, Mr. Pecsok asked Dot if she could tear a phone book in half. Picturing the diminutive Greenwich book, she assured him she could. Mr. Peksok, a recent transplant from Cleveland, slyly presented her with a directory from his home town.  The first thing she did was to look up the number for D. G. Peterson. Suddenly, she had an urge to call Dart’s mother, so she called her own mom for an opinion on the subject. Ruth Chamberlain responded that Dot could do as she pleased, but that Mrs. Peterson might think she was silly for calling her out of the blue. Dot resisted the temptation, but asked Dart if he thought his mom would have minded.

Because she has picked up a summer cold, she announces her plan to go to bed with her bottle of nose drops. Instead, she heard Chucky fall out of his bed, and rushed off to set things right with him.

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