Category Archives: 09. June 1944

June 11, 1944

Today, Dart is the solo letter writer, and he writes on a raggedy sheet of cheap stationery. He confesses that his tightwad tendencies have lead him to try and use up all his mismatched paper now so he’ll have less stuff to take with him when he returns to boot camp.

Speaking of which, on the advice of doctors, he will not try to return as early as Tuesday. His care team seems to think that he should have more experience working to see how he bears up. The galley crew is pretty tiring, but even worse, it leaves little time for writing to friends and sweetheart.

Alluding again to some test results he’d received a few days ago, he tells Dot to forget about it.  “I’ll probably get around to telling you about it sometime when we know each other much better and it might not embarrass either of us,” he writes. I suspect he may have been referring to the results of the fertility test he was given after having the mumps – known to sometimes cause sterility in men. Years later, he admitted to Dot that the test had indeed shown him to be sterile. As it turns out, that was yet another procedure that the Navy hospital managed to botch. The story is that the corpsman had collected the specimen in a jar piping hot out of the sterilizer. So hot, in fact, that it killed every little “swimmer” in there. Dart, of course, went on to sire three healthy offspring.

He has placed Dot’s photo in a nice leather frame for better protection than the original cardboard frame provided. I think it’s sweet that he kept the old frame because of some sentimental words she had written in the corner. I believe the photo still resides in that same leather frame, where it has been for the past 70 years.

He closes by saying, “I’ve got to see you soon, Dot. Others may suffer longer separations, but they’re made of stronger stuff.”

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June 12, 1944

Dart’s letter today says the “nice little letter” from Dot today “softened the aches of a working man.” He claims his correspondents have dwindled to her and his parents. “All the rest of the people I know are either forgetful, on vacation or ‘traveling in Europe or the Pacific.”

Commenting on El and Don’s engagement party, he writes “Here’s hoping your next engagement will last longer than the 3-minute interlude of last Friday night.” He asks her if she prefers a long or a short engagement, and adds, “I think three minutes is a wee bit too short. But it’s long enough for me when you’re engaged to someone else!”

He reports that he is getting well and strong, but it’s a slow process.

He tells her he loves her so much that the rest of their lives would not be long enough to spend together.

His final sentence has a note of hope and desperation. “I must get there to see you sometime before too long. There are so many ways to do it (legally), but I don’t think I stand a chance for any of them until I finish boot.”

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Dot is cursing herself for hastily accepting a babysitting job after a long day at Franklin Simons. Oh, well. As she writes this letter it’s very late and nearly time for the parents to come home.

She writes that she is going to her cousin Jane’s high school graduation tomorrow night. Jane is the youngest of three sisters, and the recipient of a prestigious college scholarship.

She writes an amusing paragraph about learning to drive. She’s much kinder to the gears than she was on that date several months ago when Dart let her shift gears in his Dad’s old car. Lessons are going well, except when she got a trifle excited and ran into a stone wall! “Little damage to the car,” she writes, “but you ought to see that stone wall!” She hopes to get her license by her birthday next week.

Responding to Dart’s request for permission to kiss Miss Riehl, she asks why he needs permission. But she grants permission with a flip, “Sure, go ahead and kiss her. But why good-bye? Is she going somewhere?”

She asks the question I’ve been pondering – if they want Dart to get well, why are they working him so hard? She deems them “knuts!” She launches into a brief fantasy about his making it into the Special Devices division and being stationed in Boston. Quite a dreamer!

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June 13, 1944

It’s a lean day for letter-writing. The only mail is a hastily scratched postcard from Dot, written before she heads off to work in the morning. This busy young lady has no time to write and promises more later. Reading about her daily schedules, I think it’s a wonder she has time to read letters, much less write them.

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June 14, 1944

Dart begins his “wee note” by saying that everything near him is FUBAR – “Fouled up beyond all recognition.” He still doesn’t know when he’ll return to duty, but he’s trying to be prepared when the call comes.

He has his uniform ready, his personal effects are nearly packed, and he’s done a little shopping while on his one-day pass off the ward.

One of the items he bought is on it’s way to Greenwich, carrying all his wishes for Dot on her 18th birthday, and all his gratitude for what she has become to him.

He mentions that today is his parents 24th anniversary. He was going to call them, but their recent letter said they’d be spending the day downtown watching a parade (Flag Day?) and doing some mild celebrating.

His final line is, as always, a sweet one. “Tonight I can’t find words to describe my love for you, but maybe my birthday present will speak for me.”

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Once again, Dot begins her letter with an apology for never having time to write. I marvel how much she squeezes into a single day – every day of the week!

Tonight she went solo to a movie “His Butler’s Sister,” starring Deanna Durbin. She was so taken by the beauty and talent of young Deanna and she seems to feel totally lacking in both. She realizes that statement might make one think she was fishing for compliments, but she says she wasn’t, so Dart must not make any comments.

She says the movie got her to thinking about a lot of things. Are real people ever truly as happy and in love as they seem in movies? When setting goals in life, does setting very high standards make one happy for every achievement made toward that goal? Conversely, do folks who set low goals become dissatisfied and unhappy because there is nothing left to work for? “Better I should stop rambling on about something  I know little or nothing about,” she says.

She writes that her cousin Jane is giving her a birthday party on Friday night. Jane has a surprise up her sleeve. Dot hopes it’s a trip to Playland, which she says is like Euclid Beach in Cleveland, except bigger and better.

She tells Dart she shares his hope that they will see each other soon. She’s waited seven months, but if she had to, she’d wait seven years, because she loves him that much.

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June 15, 1944

Dart remarks that either Dot’s services as a babysitter are in high demand, or there is a serious shortage of “girl power” in the Greenwich area – “Maybe as big a shortage as there is around here,” he quips.

He’s pleased that she’s learning to drive, and asks what kind of car the Chamberlains have that it can destroy a stone wall with little damage to itself – “A Jeep, maybe?”

He proposes they drop the subject of kissing Miss Riehl, one of his nurses. That means he’d have to also kiss the rest of his many nurses so they wouldn’t feel left out. He wonders why Dot asked if Miss Riehl was leaving. “Did you ever think that maybe I’d be the one leaving?”

Speaking of leaving, he should know tomorrow if he gets out of the hospital on Saturday. He has high hopes, as well as deep love for Dot.

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Dot’s brief letter begins with an answer to Dart’s question about long vs short engagements. She states that if a boy and girl get engaged when they are very young (18-22) then a three to four year engagement would be wise. If a couple doesn’t get engaged until they are much older, then why waste any more time? She reports that her parents were engaged for three years, her sister Harriet for six months, and brother Gordon for two weeks, so she has a range of examples in her family.

She goes on to tell him that something mysterious is afoot regarding her Friday night party, but she can’t squeeze anything out of anybody. She’s getting off work at 2:00 today; she’s collecting double time off for the overtime hours she put in during the recent sales. She says time is nice, but she’d prefer the cash!

She tells Dart that she sold her bike yesterday. She’d bought it for $10.00 about 5 years ago and sold it “all scratched up and everything” for $17.50. I guess that’s wartime inflation working to her advantage.

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June 16, 1944

Dart begins his letter with “Dearest Four-oh Girl.” Later in the letter he explains that his ward received the highest rating possible on their Captain’s Inspection – a 4.0, or “four-oh.” I guess by the time Bo Derek came along in the 1980’s, a perfect score had seen some inflation all the way up to 10.

Anyway, Dart has some huge, long-awaited news. He’s scheduled to return to duty tomorrow! He will be officially deemed a well person, after seven months in the hospital. He’s sure tomorrow’s letter, if he can write one, will come from boot camp instead of the ward. Oh, Happy Day!!

He doubts he’ll make the round to see all his nurses, with the possible exception of “Lanky.” He says the rest are “wolves.”

There are plenty of tasks to be completed, so he signs off.

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June 17, 1944

Dart’s first letter from outside the hospital in months serves mostly to give her his boot camp address and the projected date of his long-awaited leave. He’s due to graduate from “boot” on June 24th and begin his leave on the 28th. What he’ll do in the intervening days remains a mystery for the Navy to solve.

He comments that he likes her philosophy on goals and also expresses his belief that real people are rarely as happy as characters in movies. Still, he believes that real life happiness is enhanced by real life hardships and it’s the combination that draws people together. Deep thoughts for a 20-year old man.

His P.S. stresses that he simple must make that dream come true. I think he means the dream where he and Dot are together in Greenwich. Fingers crossed!

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June 18, 1944

Once again, Dart is our only correspondent today. I’m glad this drought of Dot’s letters is coming at a time when there is something positive happening in Dart’s life to keep him occupied.

This is one of the most upbeat letters we’ve seen from Dart in quite a while. It’s a hot and sunny Sunday. Dart reports that everyone is in their whites and feeling fine. After attending church services early this morning, Dart is writing a few short notes during the brief time when they are not allowed to read, write or work. He reports that most of the guys are either reading, writing or working.

He has some laundry to do and all his uniforms must be stenciled. He needs to get all his gear in ship-shape, and has just 10 days in which to accomplish everything. He can’t believe his time at Great Lakes is finally nearing an end. “I’ll bet that 10 days will really go fast, like a crippled snail on a sticky stump,” he predicts.

He hopes Dot’s birthday festivities are progressing well.

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June 19, 1944 – Dot’s 18th birthday

Dart’s long letter shared some impressive news with Dot. The results of his skills, knowledge and aptitude tests are in, and they are stellar! He scored in the upper 5% of all the men in the Navy and is eligible for nearly any naval job he wants. (Not aviation because of his height, or officer’s training for the present time because of the 8″ scar on his back.) The special devices school he’s been dreaming of has been deemed beneath his skills and abilities.

He describes the four programs for which he’s been recommended, and his thoughts on each of them. Radio school doesn’t interest him in the slightest, so he passed on that invitation. He also rejected Quartermaster because it comes with a 100% guarantee of sea duty, which he’s not terribly keen on. His first choice was Fire Control, which deals with the sensitive computing and control equipment that regulates the firing of the large and complicated guns on various ships. There is a 50/50 chance of sea duty. Shore duty would involve maintaining the equipment or teaching about it, either stateside or overseas. That’s his first choice. Now he must await his assignment by the placement committee when he leaves Great Lakes.

“Boy! Do I feel important! I hope it doesn’t show. The interviewer said they very seldom run across men like me. Miss, get me a size 15 hat, please!”

He has signed up for his round-trip tickets to Cleveland, with only eight days left at his current location. He suggests that as of June 23, Dot begin addressing her letters to his parents’ home.

He closes the letter by saying “I love you very much, even if all this sounds like I love only me.”

I’m so glad he felt he could “toot his own horn” to someone so openly. Test results like his are truly something to take pride in. Congratulations, Dart. (Be sure to check out his drawing on page 6.)

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Under the date, with tongue-in-cheek drama, Dot writes “Today I am a woman.” Naturally, the opening paragraph is an apology for being too busy to write.

Her birthday surprise, ala cousin Jane was to meet El and Jane’s sister Betty in NYC for an evening at Radio City Music Hall. The “miraculous” stage show included the Rockettes, the ballet and the Dan Cassack choir. Dot says the latter was the best choral music she’s heard in “all my 18 years.”

The  live show was followed by the film “White Cliffs of Dover,” with Irene Dunn and Alan Marshall. The movie was heartbreaking, but beautifully acted with a compelling plot. Dot claims she would have been able to keep the tears inside, had she not noticed a grown man nearby pull a tissue out and wipe his eyes. “That really got me, and I stayed ‘got’ for the rest of the picture!”

Following the show, this group of young women had dinner at Howard Johnson’s in New York. It’s been eight months since Dot ate at a HJ, that time in Cleveland with Dart.

Last night, her family celebrated Father’s Day and her birthday by seeing “Buffalo Bill” in Technicolor. When they returned home around 11:45, her folks gave her a large wrapped box and made her wait until midnight to open it. It was a heavenly Zenith portable radio with beautiful tone and small enough to carry from room to room. She’s delighted and can’t wait to show it to Dart.

She has earned a ticket to the War Bonds show coming to Greenwich, which she plans to attend. It starts at 8:30 PM and goes until 3:00 AM, but she’ll be there for part of it.

She’s thrilled that Dart is returning to boot camp and remarks that nothing can stop him now. “The best isn’t good enough for you, but that’s the best they can give you.” She tells him her love for him is so deep it makes the Pacific Ocean look like a puddle.

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June 20, 1944

Up until now, it seems that Dart’s boot camp has consisted primarily of marching, cleaning and painting things. Now, he writes in great detail about the actual warship training he’s received. He describes the very complex system of relaying and receiving verbal orders on board ship during battle conditions. They used live ammunition in actual 20 mm anti-aircraft cannons while battle sounds were blasted into their brains via headsets. While it was a thrilling exercise, there were multiple opportunities for human error and Dart’s crew took full advantage of those to accidently “shoot down” a friendly aircraft.

Next, he learned about night spotting of ships on a dark horizon at sea. There’s a real trick to that, but Dart seemed to do okay with it.

Now, it’s back to cleaning in preparation for a quarters inspection in the morning. He’s in the mood to write more, but duty calls.

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Dot’s note is a brief but enthusiastic thank you note for the beautiful locket Dart sent for her birthday. “I love them – both the giver and the gift – and shall cherish them close to my heart all of my life.” I remember that locket from my childhood,  still  containing the photos he’d placed there when he mailed it to her. Sadly, it was lost when someone broke into my parents’ home and stole Mom’s jewelery box. None of the items there had any real value to the thief, but held great sentimental value for Dot. I still feel a sad little pang when I think of that senseless break-in.

She’s overjoyed to hear that his leave is coming up so quickly, but she’s kicking herself for not staying in Cleveland to get a job. She reminds him that if his family wants to get rid of him before his leave is up (unlikely!), he’d be welcomed in Greenwich with open arms. By the way, the key is under the mat, but the door is never locked. (Ah, the simplier times!)

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