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November 11, 1945 – Veteran’s Day

Dart begins with “I feel lousy.” His head is splitting and his hands are shaky. He thinks Dot will probably wish he’d never started this letter.

He’s written to her mother, plus a few others this morning. If he can get his washing done, and if he can lose this headache, he may go on liberty, just to escape the compound. But he’d rather go some place where there a fewer sailors, where the civilians smile occasionally and where the air doesn’t smell of a burning glue factory and the “residue” left by drunken sailors. Eeeew!

There were no letters from Dot or from home in two days. It’s taken him an hour to write these two paltry pages, but it’s all he has the stomach for right now.

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November 12, 1945

It’s another short one today. He had one letter from Dot today, and one from her mother, inviting him to share a Democratic Thanksgiving with the Chamberlains in Greenwich. For anyone under the age of 60 who may read this blog, “Democratic Thanksgiving” as I understand it, was an attempt by the FDR administration to jump start the holiday spending season during the Depression by scheduling Thanksgiving a week earlier than had been the traditional date. In theory, if people had one more week to shop before Christmas, they’d spend more, thereby stimulating the economy a bit. I’m not sure if it worked, and I don’t know when the practice ended, but it is apparently still happening in 1945. The Republican Chamberlains weren’t too keen on any of Roosevelt’s “schemes.”

Dart found out today that he’s been assigned to a brand new destroyer, one of those ships that’s going to make the goodwill trip around the world. Here’s the rub: That ship has already left on her cruise. His orders say he’s assigned to her, but his records, pay accounts and everything else are still in Norfolk. Until the brass can figure it all out, he’s doomed to stay put, scrubbing washrooms and polishing concrete decks. He may be stuck for a long time.

He’s too sick and disgusted to write any more today.

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November 13, 1945

Dart begins this letter in the telephone center, waiting for a call to Cleveland to go through. That’s all he had time to write before he was connected to his parents. Now he’s waiting for the next call – the one to Dot. He dreads making this one, because, as much as he wants to hear her voice, he doesn’t want to make her cry and he’s sure the topic of conversation will do just that.

He’s about to tell her about his next assignment. His first stop will be Charleston, South Carolina, where he’ll probably meet up with his ship, the John R. Craig. He thinks he has some friends on board, and he’s been told she’s the flagship of the group. What that means is lots of regulation, which he suspects will be better for him than a “renegade ship and crew like the Haggard.”

This morning, he applied for a job at the newspaper office on the navy base and was snatched up immediately. Moments later, his transfer papers came through and and he was excused from all work details, so his career on the station paper was short. Such occasions as this cause me to ponder the effect of fate and timing on our lives. If his transfer papers had been delayed by several weeks, might he have been able to take his first baby steps toward a career in journalism? By transferring to a new ship, did he “miss the boat?”

He’s asked his mother to send him his camera and some film, so he hopes to be able to take some pictures on this cruise. (I suppose cameras will not be banned aboard ships as they were during the war.) He’ll probably send his watch home, although he hates to part with “his little buddy.”

Three years ago at this time, he was taking his exams to enter the Navy; his active duty orders came in Mid-June. Two years ago at this time, he was entering Great Lakes Navy Hospital; he was released from there in Mid-June. Last year at this time, he was on a train heading west for his departure from the USA; he began his homeward trip on the Haggard in mid-June. What does that tell Dot about the next time she’s likely to see him? The Navy is suggesting now that men with 27 points like Dart will probably get their discharge in about 7 months. That fits the pattern. “That must be the time we’ll hope for. Do not set your heart on it though. The Navy is a fearful machine, entirely unpredictable in it’s actions.”

Well, the dreaded phone call came through and Dot, indeed, cried. He wishes he could have spared her the heartache. He wishes he could spare her the loneliness by not going back to sea. “Oh, my Darling, how I’m going to miss you! Not getting your letters for a while will drive me frantic and give me the disposition of a molested grizzly bear.”

“I remember the day I gave you the ring. I felt the richest person in the world, just then. You were in a light dress, I in my whites. I held your left hand in mine. We each had on a wristwatch. You were wearing a brand new sparkling bit of gold and diamond. For some reason, I remember those watches. Gee, that was a thrilling moment. Did you know, before you saw the box, that I was going to give you that ring? The happiest moments of my life, or just about the happiest.”

He thinks he may just win that bet with Hal. He wonders if he’ll be a married man by the time that weenie roast rolls around.

He needs to find a container for his pennies if he uses his watch box to send his watch home. He should start packing, but he’d rather spend more time with Dot. He doesn’t leave Norfolk until 4:45 tomorrow, so he has so time to get his chores done and he prefers writing to his fiance.

Several random thoughts jumble together now. He congratulates her on her English theme. He asks if she envisions them sleeping with his arm around her when they’re married, as he does. He doesn’t think going to school in the summer is a great idea, but he’ll probably do it once he starts up again, so she should do what she thinks is best.

He’d love to have Thanksgiving with the Chamberlains, but that won’t be possible. “You seem to all lead such a wholesome, well-rounded life. Hope I acquire some of the family characteristics.”

He must send his new address to his folks and then hit the sack. He sends a loving “goodnight” to his favorite fiance.

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Dot starts the day with a note before running off to her biology test. The house gave Mid a simple little birthday party last night – any reason to cease studying!

He’s been so faithful with letters, and she’s been so lax. She lives for the days when letters won’t be necessary, but she’ll miss his letters then.

She starts a second letter later in the evening, thanking him for the two “masterpieces” that arrived in today’s mail. Then the letter was interrupted by Dart’s phone call, followed by a good cry and a long walk.

She has come to the conclusion, that as the luckiest girl in the world, she has no right to cry. That’s just pure selfishness on her part. Would he believe her if she told him she has a big smile on her face now? It was hard to come by and didn’t last long, but it was there for a moment. It’s clear that stepping on Lucky packs didn’t work this time, but she is almost convinced that his new duties are for the best. After all, everything that’s happened to them thus far has been for the best, so why start to question the system now? (This young woman has more positive attitude in her than the entire Mormon Tabernacle Choir!

Her housemate Joyce has stopped by to comfort her. Joyce and her “one and only” Bill have experienced as much separation as she and Dart. Dot’s grateful for someone who understands and is willing to cheer her up. She’s also grateful for Dart and his attitude about this whole development.

She wraps up the letter with “I love you more than life itself. Keep your chin up, darling! Bon Voyage and hurry home!

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November 14, 1945

Dart is writing from Rocky Mount, NC in the middle of the night. He’s waiting on a stopped train which he deems the “coldest public conveyance ever invented.” It’s been raining for two days while he went about the business of checking out of Norfolk and he’s damp and miserable. Add to his physical discomfort the loneliness he feels, and you have one very sad sailor.

Fortunately, he received a bounty of letters at his last mail call in Norfolk and three of those treasured letters came from Dot. When he feels ambitious, he’ll dig into his seabag to retrieve them so he can respond.

A couple of his Haggard crew mates who’d been assigned to the new John R. Craig returned to Norfolk yesterday with tales of woe from their new ship. It’s noisy and it rides rough. There will be much more discipline expected aboard her than was required on the Hag. Dart is nervous and dejected. He doesn’t want to go back to sea, especially on a ship like that.

He finds himself wondering what they’ll do to fill up the daily schedule now that they aren’t at war. How much ammo will the ship go through? Will they still have middle-of-the-night general quarters drills? What about gun watches? All he gets for his musings is a serious case of the “I dunno’s.”

He interjects a bit of advice for Dot, in case she ever “wears the pants in the family.” He suggests she not wear wool pants. They’re uncomfortable for a trip like the one he’s currently taking.

Answering some of her letters, he gives her the following response about Christmas: He has no need nor space for much of anything. Maybe a couple pairs of dark blue socks, or a writing kit like the one she gave him a couple of years ago. Other than that, there’s nothing. All packages should be on board by mid-December, because there’s no way the ship will still be stateside by Christmas.

He begs her to give him a long shopping list of her wants and needs for Christmas so he’ll have a few ideas to pick from.

She’d asked about Puckett’s injuries that landed him in the hospital. Apparently he’s as reckless on his motorcycle as he is in a car. He crashed his bike while on leave, but his doctor took a single x-ray and pronounced him fine. It took the Navy to find all the broken bones.

He’s looking forward to getting her response to a couple of letters he’s written lately. When she’s not around, her letters are essential for his sanity, so she’d better keep them coming!

Apparently she had told him of being awakened with a kiss from a USAF private the other morning. It was Joyce’s boyfriend Bill who was home to surprise her and had gone to the wrong room. He’d simply seen a brunette head on the pillow and assumed he’d found his girl, but it was Dot instead! Dart wonders who was more surprised, and the image sent him off on a daydream of the day when he can awaken her that way.

He tells her not to worry too much about her lack of pennies for their collection. It’s really dollars that they’ll need for their house. Out of the blue he asks if she’d like them to have a baby before the house, or the house first. Should they just let Nature decide? Either way, money will be important and they’ll have to learn financial discipline. The $2.50 she has now would buy a lock for the back door, so I guess they’re on their way!

“That’s all for tonight, Dot. I love you very much and if I weren’t so darned tired and cold, I’d be awfully homesick.”

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November 16, 1945

It’s a short note from Dart today after he’s paid a visit to USS John R. Craig. Two of the Haggard crew who had been assigned to her are already transferred elsewhere.

The ship is brand new, still undergoing shakedown and adjustment runs. She’s biger than his former ship, but just as filled up with stuff as that one was. Fortunately, no one on this ship has to sleep in the mess. (Dining hall) As it turns out, she’s not one of the ships going on that goodwill tour, so it’s anyone’s guess how much of the world he’ll be seeing.

He has a bad cold or something like it. He’s considering a trip to sick bay, but doesn’t really trust the medical corpsmen in the Navy.

“I love you, whether I act like it right now or not.”

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November 17, 1945

It looks like Dart’s mood and circumstance haven’t improved much. “I don’t like the Craig any more than I liked the Haggard. This ship is dirty inside. Her equipment is not in good order. She’s slightly more comfortable, but surely much less attractive than the other. I’ll reserve decision on what I think of the crew until I see more of them. They’re not friendly.

While he’s feeling a bit better, he’s still not up to standard. He wishes he could get out of this mess.

The ship had serious problems on her shakedown cruise so she’ll be in port another couple of weeks while repairs are made. That means Dot can rest easy. He’s not so very far away.

As of today, his sea pay starts up again and he’ll earn an extra 1/4 point per month. His discharge looks so far away that it’s almost mythical.

“My love for you is surely no mythology. It’s as real and strong as love can ever be. I miss you terribly, Dot.”

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November 18, 1945

Is it an improvement when despair turns to disgust? It’s a little hard to tell, but maybe Dart’s letter will give a clue.

He had an orientation of sorts today – assigned his bunk and locker, told about liberties, given his $8.00 paycheck.

He tells a remarkable story about Navy efficiency. “Until a few months ago, all men entering boot camp were provided with a mattress. All ships with bunks were also equipped with mattresses. On October 15, all mattresses became the property of the Navy, and men sent to receiving stations with their mattress had them confiscated. Ships built since the beginning of the year have not been equipped with mattresses. Now, all men coming aboard this crazy, no-good, sloppy ship have no mattress and can’t get any, and the ship has none. So, we sleep on the springs.”

He continues, “The Navy isn’t an organization. It’s an unfathomable conglomeration of grand and petty inconsistencies which occasionally work in parallel courses long enough for something useful to be done.”

In his mind, the only bit of hope in this situation is the part that says he’ll be out in eight months. That seems like an eternity to him, but he’ll do his best to survive with his sanity.

The ship’s post office has no record of his transfer, so all the mail that was sent to him directly or from Norfolk has probably been returned. He hopes he doesn’t get into trouble for something he did today, but what’s done is done. And what’s done is this: When he was explaining to the mail clerk about the lapse in records leading to no mail, the clerk said, “I don’t give a damn. Do you?” Dart reached through the window, grabbed the guy’s collar and shoved him, saying that yes, he certainly did give a damn! Some of his outburst was instinctive, some was deliberate, but the situation is all Navy!

Last night he wrote about 12 letters to let folks know his new address and he hopes the effort will result in mail. But the mail he’s most interested in is the letters from Dot, of course. He says he’s sorry they missed each other on the phone call Sunday night. He misses her more than ever.

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At last we hear from Dot! When she read Dart’s two sad letters today, she wanted to set about cheering him up. Unfortunately, when he’s not happy, she’s not happy and two unhappy people don’t make very good constituents for writing cheery letters.

If knowing that she loves him more than anything in the world and misses him just as much doesn’t lift his spirits, nothing will.

If the Craig is not going to go around the world, does he know yet where it’ll be going? Right now, she must get going to tap class so she can make a fool of herself.

She suggests he focus more on the future so that maybe the present won’t look so bad. Good advice, Dot!

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November 19, 1945

Writing from Charleston, SC, Dart tells of the moon rise over the marshes. It’s a romantic sight, as all full moons are, but not as romantic as if it were viewed from the front porch of a lake cottage, or the cockpit of a canoe, tucked away under the branches on the shore of that lake. “Romance on a tin gunboat? Pooey!”

This would-be writer hasn’t lost his gift at travelogue. He spends several pages describing his first liberty in Charleston, which was a solo experience. He was very impressed with the ancient charm, the architecture, and above all, the friendliness of the residents. “Charleston seems as alive and friendly as Norfolk was dead and discourteous.” He spoke with an elderly couple who, like him, were out for a walk to view the sunset. Twice, girls in passing cars whistled and hooted at Dart, reminding him of Dot and her infamous wolf whistle.

Yesterday he met Joe Burke,  classmate from Treasure Island. He’s here in the navy yard decommissioning a destroyer. The two pals spent the evening at the USO, listening to records, playing games, drinking milkshakes, and catching up on the months since they’d last seen each other in January.

His mother has told him that she forwarded a couple of letters to him. One is a congratulatory card on his engagement from his first high school date. The other is from a Private Kellogg from Camp Atterbury. He’s quite curious if Dot might know such a person, because Dart is sure he doesn’t. Who could this mysterious stranger be?

He’s holding out hope that since he’s begun getting mail from home, tomorrow will bring some from Dot. He misses her all the more when her letters are also absent. How he wishes he could whisper goodnight to her in their own home.

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Dot writes an uncharacteristically low key letter tonight. She got an A on her written archery test, which is practically an “must” for a physical education major, but she’s discouraged by biology and English. In fact, she mentions how she’s gets less and less enamored with Kent State the longer she’s here. She talks about a possible transfer to Hiram College with it’s student body of about 300.

The only upbeat part of her letter is when she talks about Dart’s recent 12-page masterpiece which is still awaiting an answer from her. She thinks it’s about the best letter he’s ever written. She says that in some ways, it’s even better than one of those long talks they love to have, because Dart let himself go more in the letter than he’s prone to do when she is at his side. Until she has the time to give it a proper response, she wants to assure him that the desires he expresses in that letter are the same as hers.

She wishes she had some clue how to comfort her lonesome sailor, but she has nothing to offer because she’s feeling the same as he. She just wishes the months that must pass before they are together would hurry up and pass.

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November 20, 1945

Dart hopes Dot won’t mind too much if he keeps this letter short. His headache is making it almost impossible to concentrate. It even hurts to think. Whatever sort of letter he manages to write will be sent to his home where it will greet Dot during her Thanksgiving visit.

Added to the other indignities that the Navy forces on its men, there is now the added injustice of near threats to join the regular Navy. The hints, suggestions and urging are ramping up and they’re making Dart mad. He fears if one more person puts pressure on him to join up, he may end up in the brig over the things he’ll scream. It looks as though the Navy is nervous that all these reservists due to get out in the coming months will leave the Navy short handed. Well, it won’t be Dart who helps them fill their rosters. Of that you may be certain!

In other news, he was offered $1,000 today. He went to the dental clinic to have a cavity filled. The three dentists on duty couldn’t find a single cavity – even the dentist who found one the other day and told him it needed filling. The senior dentist told Dart that he’d give the young sailor $1,000 if he could have his teeth. Another of the dentists said Dart’s mouth was the healthiest he’d seen in months. “Okay, so I’m lucky. Good teeth. Good girl. Good family. What more could I want? Goodnight!”

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