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September 1, 1945

Dart begins his long letter by imagining he’s holding and kissing his beloved Dot. Then he imagines her at Lake Sunapee and hopes she’s having a great time.

He wants her to remind him to wear some of his old civilian clothes when they’re together during his leave. He’ll never forget when she saw him wearing dungarees once and she said she loved him just as much in those old clothes as she did in his sharp Navy uniform. It’s moments like those that assure him they are about to start on a wonderful, long date while he’s on leave. The date he’s looking forward to most is the permanent one that begins with their wedding and lasts a lifetime. He only wishes he knew when that “date” was.

He writes at length about the nice liberty that he, Hal Martin, Puckett and Burch made last night. They got the car greased, had dinner at a Chinese restaurant and saw the movie “Incendiary Blonde.” After that, Martin and Burch grabbed a couple of beers while Dart and “Sack” had some Cokes. Hal gave his car keys to Dart when they left the bar and Dart was thrilled to drive for the next three or four hours.

It seemed like old times to Dart as they cruised the roads of Virginia, stopping at a late-night “hash joint” for burgers and Cokes. “All we needed was you, and girls for the other guys.” Dart loves to drive and he’s very impressed with the quality of Virginia roads, with a few exceptions. They managed to locate a few washboards and some “tank-traps” (potholes), but that’s part of the fun of traveling the back roads, trying to get lost. (That line reminded me of the times Dad would take one of us kids out for a long drive, traipsing all over the countryside while we helped him navigate back to a familiar place. Driving was always one of Dad’s great pleasures.)

Their driving time totaled 14 hours, not counting the four-hour wait for a ferry, during which they all slept in the car. If Hal drives back to Boston on his leave, he and Dart may take a short detour through Washington D.C. They want to see the Capital and they want to get their traveling done now so they can settle into regular life when they get out of the service. Or as Dart says, “…crawl back into our shells and do no more traveling, thank goodness!”

When he’s not out on one of his frequent liberties, he’s been helping to scrape and clean the ship in preparation for yard workmen next week. The crew is anxious to see what color paint arrives for the Haggard’s next paint job. If it’s red, she’ll go to some boneyard, be dismantled and decommissioned. If she’s painted gray, they are either transferred to another Naval base or find room at the Norfolk docks for lengthy repairs.

Dart hopes his leave has begun by the time the ship’s fate is decided. Wherever she goes, there will be a great deal of shuffling stuff from one place to another; spare parts, tools, gear, ropes and lines must be replaced. All the living compartments will need to be cleaned again. There’s lots of heavy work to be done, and Dart would just as soon sit that out in Greenwich and Cleveland. Who could blame him?

He runs down the list of firecontrolmen with whom he served on the Haggard. There are only a few of them left at Norfolk. Some have been discharged, some transferred to other ships or to school. One was sent to the hospital because his extreme alcohol consumption has prevented his appendectomy scar from healing.

Switching topics rather abruptly, Dart takes care to spell out an important fact about himself: He rarely pays attention to conversation in a car while he’s behind the wheel. He thinks it’s important for Dot to know that she should either refrain from relating important information to him while he’s driving, or remind him later of what was said, because he probably won’t remember it. I guess that’s one of those things they’ve not had time to learn, since they’ve spent so little time in each other’s company. “Anyway,” he says, “that’s one good reason for stopping the car to talk. Another is that I love you and I need every bit of my mind to let you know that.”

He writes that he saw a cute little house while driving around the other day and he’d like to incorporate some of its features into his house plans. Would she like to have the garage connected to the house in some way?

He reminds her once again how excited he is to be engaged to her and how he is the World’s Luckiest Man. I believe he never stopped feeling that way.

No letters tomorrow, but both writers will be back on the 3rd.

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September 3, 1945

Dart sounds restless. He’s had plenty of time for personal chores like laundry and letter-writing and now he’s looking for something else to fill his time. “This morning, from sheer want of something better to do, I went back to bed after breakfast, and slept until somebody found the tube I’d removed from the amplifyer of the record player.”

The town doesn’t offer much more than mediocre movies and an over-priced amusement park. On tomorrow’s 24-hour leave, Dart, Hal and the guys are thinking of going to Virginia Beach to see why it’s so exclusive.

Still no specifics on exactly when his leave will start. Somewhere between September 7 and 12, he hears. “Navy policy – Keep ’em dumb.”

He has begun sketches on a new house, incorporating some of the ideas from his first drawings, and improving some of the flaws. He’ll bring both sets of drawings with him on leave so he and Dot can discuss them at length.

He proclaims it a good sign that all he can think or talk about is the girl he loves. He’s eager to “sprout horns and a barbed tail and stop threatening to put an ice cube down her back.” He cryptically referred to a nickname she confided to him last week and asks if she’d mind if he used it once in a while. Hmmmm. I wonder if Mom will recall just what that nickname was.

In spite of a scarcity of incoming mail, he writes “The memory of our last two days together keeps me going.”

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Dot’s entry today is a postcard from the lake. The picture side shows a melon-colored moon shining above a dark, choppy lake. On the back she writes “The card doesn’t do the lake justice. It’s really much prettier than this at night with the moon reflected in the water. All the scene needs now is you. See you a week from tomorrow? Will try to write a letter tonight. All my love, (.)

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September 4, 1945

With his relatively leisure schedule and a total lack of censors imploring him to curtail his writing, Dart is free to write long letters these days. Today’s offering is a whopping 11 pages!

He begins by describing a trip to Camp Peary near Williamsburg. In the usual Dart style, he practically takes the reader on a tour of this desolate place. “It’s an infamous Army-Navy-Marines-and P.W. camp. What an ugly and deserted place we found! Hal had a buddy there, but when we arrived, we found that all hands had been transferred except the guard garrisons and the prisoners of war. The camp is miles in area, with rough streets, tall weeds, muddy ditches which overflow onto the pavement, and row after row of low, crooked, swaybacked, one story tarpaper shacks which were barracks. At every turn we expected to come across wild animals. In every deserted office we entered for information we expected to find a pile of skeletons among the dust. All buildings were boarded up and in sad disrepair. A few well-applied matches would rid the earth of this haunted city.”

Later, the gang drove north to Richmond and explored the pretty, well-wooded city. They had lunch, looked around some more, and then headed south on US 1. Between Richmond and Petersburg they discovered a “series of small, artificial, privately-owned lakes set up as tourist resorts, with swimming, dancing, and little cabins and auto-courts.” After relaxing and swimming for a few hous at one of the lakes, they piled back into Hal’s car and continued on to Petersburg and Suffolk. Dart writes that they took a few pictures of themselves playing on the beach, which he’ll send on to Dot if they turn out.

After a late dinner in Suffolk, they returned “home” to the Navy yard. They covered a lot of territory in the 13 hours they were gone, and Dart loved every minute of the exploration. He loved the wide, smooth roads of Virginia rimmed by wild, wooded countryside. He noted that the beauty was marred only by the “tumbledown shacks of the huge colored families.” Yes, I also find it unsettling to see, first hand, the ravages of poverty.

There’s still no indication what will become of their ship, but the crew expects to move back on board this week, and possibly get her underway to a new location. He’s not happy about the prospect of living on a ship again. Although they’ve been cleaning, scrubbing and disinfecting the old girl nearly constantly since they arrived in Norfolk, the rust, the bugs and the smells have proved relentless. The environment is”distasteful” and the job of re-loading and re-provisioning the Haggard is huge. Naturally, Dart’s hoping his leave will begin in time to spare him some of that.

His mail today brought the news of Dot’s acceptance at Kent. He also got letters from his parents, written after Burke’s post-boot camp leave. Helen reports that Burke is more talkative, but doesn’t really say much more than that. Less than 24-hours after returning from leave, he was sent on a large draft to San Pedro, California. From there, Dart’s unsure of where he’ll go or what kind of work he’ll be assigned to do.

Dart’s happy about the latest news that sailors can now wear civilian clothes while on liberty or leave. He’s hopeful that some of his pre-war duds are fit to wear. He also hopes he’ll remember how to tie a civilian necktie.

He confides, “The world really looks brighter for the bit of freedom I has last weekend. A trip like that is the thing for a gob’s morale!”

He reports that his Uncle Tom is preparing to retire from the Navy after 40 years. Dart would hate to be in his uncle’s shoes, because with no wife or children, and no other interests, what’s left of his life, which has been 100% Navy for decades?

Then Dart switches gears. He expresses a concern that he’s uneasy about the permanence of the war’s end. It feels too abrupt to him, and he knows of some warships that are still on patrol in the Pacific. Did he have an inkling about the Korean War?

Back to one of Dot’s recent letters, he writes, “Darling, I wish that not only Fred but all deserving people could know the happiness we’ve known. Love is wonderful, Dot. I guess you know that, though. If I’d not met you, perhaps I’d have become an even worse depressed person than Fred is. Thank you again, Dot, for ‘being.'”

He likes her plan to write every day until they’re together. Even though he wouldn’t get the last few letters she wrote, they’d be waiting for him when he returns from leave. That’d help fill the painful gap of separation from her.

It’s a date! He’ll be happy to meet up with her on the couch at 115 Mason Street, Greenwich, Connecticut and stare into her eyes all evening. “I surely remember your eyes. Even in the dark they seem to be so warm and lovely. Every time I looked at you and at them, I wanted to hold you tighter and kiss you ’til we were out of breath. Oh Darling, how I love you!”

By the way, he likes it when they darken the room as they sit on the davenport. It feels cozier than with the bright lights on.  “We seem closer together and more completely apart from all else.”  Such a romantic, this guy!

He’s glad she’s come around to the idea of double beds. (I doubt it took much convincing.) He’ll consider the matter settled for good.

“Dot, just to think of you, and to read your letters, and to watch you play badminton or handle the lines on a sailboat fills me with warmth and pride in you. What could be happier than we, in love?”

Well, I’m pretty happy all these years later getting to read about that love as it grow, blossoms and takes root.

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September 5, 1945

It looks as though Dot, too, is finding plenty of time to write. Her letter today runs seven pages. Well, actually five pages and a little greeting card, but some of it is laugh out loud funny.

She and Cynthia plan to be in New York on Monday. If that’s the day Dart arrives at Penn Station, they’ll just plan to stick around until his train comes in. “I will meet you at the same place I met you the last time. It’ll be easy to find you ‘cuz tall, handsome sailors aren’t as plentiful as some might hope.” She suggests he call her the evening before with his plans, since she’ll be unreachable in the City on Monday.

They’ll give the party soon after he arrives. Would Friday be okay? Nancy gets home from Cadet Nurse training that day and Dot would really like her to be there. As to the ruse being used to get folks to the surprise announcement? Easy. Ruth has let it slip that she’s thinking about a combination farewell party for Dot and surprise anniversary party for Harriet and George. “No one will have any suspicions as to the real reason before the time is ripe.” These Chamberlains are always thinking!

“Remember, after it’s formally announced that we’re engaged, people will expect us to at least act like we know each other in public. I promise you, however, that I won’t embarrass you anymore by getting lipstick on your whites.”

She was unable to keep her promise about writing every day from Sunapee, because she spent the first day and a half in bed with a terrible sore throat. Although she resented losing time at her beloved lake, she was able to recover enough by Sunday to “trim the entire family at ping-pong.”

She was happy to read about his little adventure in the airplane. She’s always wanted to take a plane trip, and now she’s determined to do so. “Say, did you plan a parking space for our helicopter on our garage? Oh, you mustn’t forget that! Why, what means of transportation would I use if I ever wanted to ‘go home to Mama?'”

Today, she spent most of her day in her room, packing, sewing on name tags and mending clothes. She doesn’t want to do that sort of thing while Dart’s there. She’s so excited that in a short time, both of them will be in Ohio and she’ll be staying there. She’s almost as excited to see his parents as he is.

She affirms that she was anything but disappointed when she saw him during his liberty. He’s far better than anyone she could have dreamed of. “As long as I have you I can’t help but be the happiest girl in the world.”

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September 6, 1945

It’s another long letter from Dart and a shorter one from Dot as they pass the time before seeing each other again.

Dart begins with the big news that the Haggard’s fate has been decided. She will be decommissioned with all the other unseaworthy ships of the US fleet. “The decommissioning of a ship often takes several months, as there is much work to be done to preserve the ship from the ravages of weather and saltwater.”

He continues to say that after the ship has been squared away, the crew will be broken up and transferred to further duty. Dart says he may be assigned to another ship for more months of sea duty, but the Navy is rapidly reducing its force, so his future remains unclear. He believes (and strongly hopes) that he’ll be out of the Navy within the 18 months they have set for reduction to skeletal strength. He remains positive in saying that since they’ve known each other for more than two years, and that seems like such a short time, 18 months shouldn’t be too bad.

There’s a complicated bit about the points he’s accumulated – points apparently the determining factor of when he’ll be released from duty. His points are very low, but there’s talk of adding extra ones for months at sea, plus some more for each battle star earned. That would help some, but not enough. He wishes they would add points for all the time he’s been under Navy control, which would include his time at Case and the months spent in a naval hospital, but for now, only active duty time is counted.

He writes a loving tribute to his ship.”The news that our ship will be decommissioned is met with the proverbial ‘mixed feelings’. …We know now that we will lose her, but where, when and how long it will take, we don’t know. …For the news we are grateful, for it removes some of the worry from our minds. However, we feel as if we are losing a friend. Regardless of the uncomplimentary epithets we hurl at her, the unflattering remarks we make as we chip rust from her lean sides, the unkind wishes we express for her desctruction in a fiery place, we feel attached to the gallant little ship which we fought on and with, and which we nursed and prodded and goaded for twelve thousand long miles home.”

He discusses specific plans for his leave, which is now definitely scheduled to begin on September 11. He and Hal are still unsure whether they’ll drive or take the train, but in either case, they hope to be in Greenwich by that evening. His parents, having not seen their eldest son for 10 months, want him home in Cleveland as soon as possible. If he stays in Connecticut until the evening of the 17th, is that enough time for all they hope to do while he’s there? Then he and Dot could take the night train to Ohio, arriving on the 18th.

He’s still unsure about the ring. Maybe he could buy it in Greenwich. He’s determined to give it to her to wear at the engagement party.

Last night, Hal, “Sack”, Oliver and Dart had a great time on liberty. Oliver had just returned to Norfolk to collect his transfer papers. He’s been assigned to shore duty in New York City where his wife is hospitalized after a 79-story fall in an Empire State Building elevator!

During their liberty, they checked Ollie’s bag at the railroad station and grabbed an early dinner. Then they saw a worthless movie called “Don Juan Quilligan.” The best part of the movie night was watching again the news reel of the Japanese surrender. All of the Japanese “brass” were quite small in stature, while the Americans on the podium were selected for their height and massive build. Our sailors really got a kick out of that visual!

After the film, the guys bowled two games, and Dart was shocked to score the highest on both games! (Maybe he’s inspired by Dot’s success as a bowler.) He says it was great to spend time with his good buddies, especially so for Ollie. That was the first fun he’d had since he left the ship in Panama to rush to his wife’s bedside. How I wish I knew more about what happened to her!

He’s delighted that he and Dot will be together again so soon. “I hope I don’t talk as much as I did about the awful things that have happened.” I’m sure Dot would agree that he has every right to talk it all out.

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Dot writes that the mail call today rendered three letters from Dart, totaling 23 pages! She wishes she could write that many pages in response, but says “I just ain’t built that way!

She’s quite eager to see him in civvies. The only time she’s seen him dressed in regular clothes was when she dreamed of him that way. “If you look the way you did in the dream –Brother!!”

How grateful she is that Hal’s being so generous with the use of his car for liberties. Her only wish is that she were down there with them, cruising around and having fun.

She hopes he doesn’t get shipped overseas again. Her brother writes that he’ll be shipping out to parts unknown between September 15 and 20. He vows, however, that come hell or high water, he’ll be out of the Navy for good in six months.

Now she understands why Dart likes to park the car to talk. She was wondering about that strange behavior. Now she knows not to talk to him when he’s behind the wheel. “I won’t say anything important, like ‘I love you.’ What’s the point, if it doesn’t register?”

She asks a very good question about house design. “What would be the point of having a garage separate from the house? Off hand, I would think it would make the whole appearance less attractive and less convenient in bad weather. But you’re the boss, so you go ahead and plan what you want, saving the explanations for later.” (He’s the boss? Hmmmm. When did that become the case?)

She likes the improvements he’s made in the house plans, but wonders if Mrs. Miller scared him when she said she thought his previously designed house was too little. Does he think they’ll be able to fill four bedrooms?

Now, how about he just forget about that ice cube? After all, they don’t want to hold grudges, do they? Still, if he feels he must put one down her back, she gives him permission…if he can catch her. If it’s any consolation, her whole family is on his side.

Before closing, she must tell him something shocking. Her little brother Doug got his head shaved yesterday. The family is livid! He did it as a joke, but he looks like a Nazi and no one is laughing. He must take his meals alone until his hair grows back, and he’s already been told he cannot attend the engagement party. Apparently, Arthur told him one too many times to get a haircut, and he really did! She hopes Dart won’t have to look at him much when he’s at the Chamberlain home. “Yes, we’re a crazy bunch, but I think Douglas is the nuttiest. I hope you don’t discover you’re crazy for loving me, ‘cuz I’ll always love you, my Darling.”

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September 7, 1945

A few sentences is all Dart has time for. He’s driving Hal’s car to the ship in a few minutes to visit with Hal during his watch. On Moday, they have regular duty hours, during which they’ll be moving back aboard the Haggard. Tuesday, the long-awaited leave begins!

Dart won’t write anything else to Dot before he sees her in NYC.

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Here’s a sweet letter from Dot. She had to go back to work for a day at Franklin-Simon so that Mr. Goldstein could observe the Jewish holiday. She would much rather have stayed at home, seeing to all the tasks she must accomplish there before Dart’s arrival. As it is, she spent the late evening ironing for 2-1/2 hours before sitting down to write to him.

She writes, “You probably won’t get this letter till your leave is over, so let me say this:  It was wonderful, Dart. We have been lucky to be able to work things out the way that we did. Or should we blame it on fate? I think we should. I love you with all my heart. All my efforts in college I will make for you so that I may someday be the person you think I already am.”

She says it’s time for her to get some beauty sleep because she has to look beautiful when she sees the love of her life in a few days.

Now, dear Readers, you may have already guessed that letters between these two will drop off to nothing while they’re together for Dart’s leave. They will resume on Septemeber 26, but I’ll post occasionally during the lapse. I’ve found some letters between Dart and his future in-laws that are well worth sharing, and there are some old photos which will be fun to see. I’ll also add a description of their engagement party.

Until then, just imagine the joy and exuberance of these young lovers as they give or receive a ring, announce their engagement to the world, travel back to Cleveland together, and begin to know each other better, face-to-face, in addition to their letters.

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September 20, 1945

While Dot and Dart are enjoying their time together, and consequently not writing letters, I thought I’d share some of the details of their surprise engagement announcement.

Ruth and Arthur Chamberlain had invited a large number of friends and family to their home for dinner. The excuse they gave was that they were giving a farewell party for Dot before she left for Kent State University, and a little anniversary celebration for Harriet and George.

The table in the spacious dining room of the Mason Street house was decorated with a large pan of water in the center, containing a miniature tropical island, complete with a small palm tree. Anchored to the island and stretching out to all of the place settings were several strings. At the end of the strings were tied little individual whiskey bottles, like those served on airplanes. They functioned as place cards for the guests, and inside each bottle was a tiny note. When the guests were seated, Ruth invited them all to remove the notes and read the message inside, together. The bottles all contained the same thing: “It’s a 4-0 lash-up! (That’s Navy jargon for a perfect docking) Dot and Dart are engaged!” Naturally, the “Dot and Dart” part of the message was displayed as the little spot and arrow monogram that Dot had invented. I assume that certain aspects of military lingo were common knowledge to civilians of the day, since everyone was so involved in the war.

When I asked Mom if the crowd was surprised, she recalled that no one seemed particularly so because everyone knew how crazy these two kids were about each other. In fact, her sharp-eyed friend, Cynthia had noticed that when Dot came into the room for the party, she was wearing her class ring on her right hand. Cynthia assumed that was because she was making room for a diamond on her left.

Indeed, Dart had purchased the ring in Greenwich and given it to Dot in beautiful Bruce Park a couple of days earlier. She’d had to keep it hidden until the big event.

On a sad note, Eleanor didn’t attend the festivities that night. Although she was slowly healing from the pain of her recently broken engagement, attending her little sister’s celebration would have been too much to expect.

September 26, 1945

You can almost hear the whistful whine in Dart’s voice as he writes, “Gee, we miss you.” He’s referring, of course, to his parents and himself. Dot is at Kent State University, about an hour outside of Cleveland, but she’s left a big hole in the Peterson household after staying there for several days during Dart’s leave.

Dart, still at his folks’ place in Cleveland describes his evening with the entire Peterson clan. That would include Dart’s uncle Guy, his wife and all their “kids”, their spouses and their children. His “second best girl” Susie Brown,  is six years old. She loves to be tickled.

With a few well-chosen words, Dart describes each person there. It’s obvious he’s partial to the under 10 crowd. He describes his young cousins with tenderness and humor. “Sara Schriffler was a well-behaved and quick-witted youngster who runs around with her big bunny slippers in her hand so she won’t get their fur dirty. She has big brown eyes and chestnut-colored hair.” Or, “Young Bill Brown was a quiet gentleman all evening. He gave us each a separate big elfin, toothless grin as his huge daddy carried him in his arms.”

He seems less enamored with the cousins of his own generation. He tells about Cousin Guy, the doctor, dressed in comfortable tweeds and almost completely unchanged by the war. He sat most of it out on the sidelines of an Army Air Command sick bay. Then there was  Lt. Robert Schriffler looking far older than when he left. “He has a battle star or two, but he had lovely shore duty for a long time. But the shore duty was on Leyte and Samar, so it wasn’t all as lovely as it sounds at first.”

Then Dart reveals his inner geek with his gushing, glowing report of the “newest arrival” of the Peterson’s house on the lake: “a bee-you-tee-ful General Electric oil furnace. It’s fully automatic and will be used with a circulating hot-water heating system when pipe and radiators are available. (After the factories are retooled for peace-time manufacturing, I wonder?) There’s a smaller size, which I think I like better though, for this costs $600 and heats 10,000 cubic feet of house space. Our house and budget, I’m afraid, will be a bit smaller than that, but I surly love that tiny furnace.”

He adds, “All the family, including the new furnace, send you their best regards, and they all wish you could have been there.”

Then he warns Dot that she’ll have to be there a week from this Saturday. It’s his last weekend home and his folks are hosting one of their big spaghetti parties, with only two family members “in absentia.”

His mother thanks her for the nice knife and his father asked how she thought of such a great gift. His mother responded that it’s because Dot is such a sharp kid. Groan. I guess I see where Dart gets some of his “humor.”

Turning his attentions now to that “sharp kid,” he asks how she’s liking her new abode. Will she become accustomed to the musty-smelling old palace? Is the Pennsylvania roommate with the backwoods twang as much of a goon as Dart’s first impressions of her made her seem? Is the Missouri girl as boy struck as she appeared to be, or are all those photos of the same boy? Has either of them been away at school before, or does Dot hold that edge? He wonders if either of them is nosy enough to get this far into his letter. If so, they deserve to be insulted by the words he’s written.

“Tell me lots about your setup. Visiting hours; how, what, where and when they feed the monkeys; how much or how often you can write, call, or visit us; house rules, what you found out about your program, etc. All right, so I’m nosy, but I’m interested, too.”

He tells her the trip between Kent and Cleveland isn’t a hard one, so he’s happy to make it. Before signing off, he says he’s worried about her foot and her thumb so she should take care of herself. Will we hear more about that later? Time will tell.

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It’s a homesick (or might I say “Dartsick”) girl who writes today. She calls herself his bawling brat and says that although she has ceased her crying, she nearly starts up again when she thinks of what she was doing 24 hours ago, or when she compares this place to Andrews. “It doesn’t look nearly as bad to me now as it did when I first saw it, but it’s still no palace. Our room is, by far, the biggest and brightest, so we didn’t do too badly. Ah, but the bathroom! It is literally 4-1/2 ‘ x 6′, with a bath tub that is 2-1/2′ long and 1-1/4’ wide. I can see I’ll be taking my baths on the installment plan. There are 12 girls in this house and they’re all swell. The nicest one is from N. Salem, Ohio and is a Phys Ed major, too. She’s awfully cute and loads of fun.”

One of her roommates – Eleanor, is a music major and seems nice. The other one – the girl named Phil form Missouri, is spending the night elsewhere, so Dot can’t judge how she is yet.

Tomorrow she’ll take a series of tests and then register for her classes. Friday brings more tests and a welcome party. The housemother, whose name is Mrs. Olin, has told Dot that all she needs in order to leave on weekends is written permission from her mother. This strikes me as rather absurd. Here’s a 19-year old college co-ed, engaged to be married, and living out of state from her parents and she needs a note from her mother to leave the house! Good grief! Anyway, Dot will try to arrange her next weekend in Cleveland as soon as possible.

She wishes she could find a way to express her love, but she thinks they understand each other on that score. She’s ashamed of herself for acting like such a child when he brought her to Kent and her new off-campus housing, but she’s grateful that he was so patient and understanding. She thanks him for driving her all the way out to this rat hole, which she immediately says isn’t that bad. “After all, Abe Lincoln didn’t exactly live in a palace, and look at the education he got!”

She sends her heart-felt gratitude to his parents for their role in giving her the happiest week of her life. Declaring that she can’t keep the wicked hours of her youth now that she’s a college student, she signs off, using the signature “Butch.” I’ll have to ask Mom the origin of that one.

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September 27, 1945

It means so much to Dot that her fiance called her last night. He knew how sad, lonely, and homesick she was feeling, but just hearing his voice and reassuring manner cheered her up.

Tomorrow she’ll take the 2-hour Iowa reading test. There’s nothing she can do to study for it, but she hopes she feels better about it than she feels about the English assessment she took yesterday. How she hopes Dart’s right about her probably doing better than she thinks she did.

Speaking of feeling better, hearing someone call her name across campus today was a real boost. It was a former classmate from Dot’s high school who is one of five Andrews graduates at Kent this year. Dot was thrilled to see a friendly face in this “foreign” place.

As far as she’s heard, she comes from farther away than any student on campus, but having a great “second home” in Cleveland, she almost feels like an Ohio native.

She can’t wait to see Dart on Saturday and hopes all their plans for the weekend work out. She thanks Dart for being the kind of person he is, and then heads off for an early bed time. The Iowa reading test is looming!

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September 28, 1945

It’s the early minutes of Friday, and Dart has been fiddling around all day in his parents’ basement. Naturally, he’s been working on his model railroad, but his thoughts have been on Dot.

“Golly — we’ve been engaged for almost two whole weeks and it’s only my second letter to you. It’s been exactly two weeks since I gave you your ring. Do we count it from 5:17 PM on Thursday, or from Sunday evening?” (The date of the dinner party, I presume.)

Today a letter came for Dot from her mother. Dart wasted no time in forwarding it to Kent. He’d been hoping all day that Dot would call, and as the day progressed, he thought about calling her. He was happy to put aside his model car painting to take the call when it came in. He’d been hoping there wouldn’t be so many tears this time, but she has a right to be sad. “Just between us, I don’t think it’s bad for a girl to cry. Someone who didn’t cry on such occasions would be entirely too hard-hearted a person for me to love.” Something tells me, though, that if Dot had stifled her tears, he would have admired her just as much for her strength. In his eyes, she can do no wrong.

He turns cryptic in the final paragraph, although I’m sure Dot knew what he is referring to. “I hate to be the ‘silent type’, but there just didn’t seem to be much that was important enough to say during the last couple of days. I’m glad we had that talk Tuesday night. It helped to clear up the puzzled feeling I had after Monday night. I miss you so very, very much, Dot, that it’s almost unbearable. Goodnight, my Darling, and please be happy soon.”

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