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March 25, 1944

This is a short, sweetly intimate letter from Dart. He was happy to receive her typed letter, but it doesn’t feel as personal as her hand-lettered one.

He comments on Eleanor’s new love interest – and how tall he is reported to be. Dart fears that all of this “would-be” family will make him feel like a dwarf at something over six feet tall. He asks Dot if she has quit growing because after the war he wouldn’t really like to be walking around with a giantess, although it would be fine with him if the giantess were her. He thinks she’s the ideal height now.) I suspect he thinks nearly everything about her is ideal.)

He says there isn’t much news, but he could easily become involved in some very sentimental, passionate phrases. He tells he that often when he thinks of how much he wants to spend time with her, he gets even lonelier.

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March 26, 1944

Dart’s letter today is a little odd and confusing – a natural outcome of all the secret and co-opted letters from Dot and her roommates recently. He admits that Cathie wrote something inside the envelope about Dot loving him. Since Dot had already told him that, it didn’t come as news, but he was happy to see it confirmed, in writing, by another source. Reading Dot’s declarations of love and knowing he returns the feeling is one of his greatest thrills these days.

He asked the doctor today if there was any chance he could be home by late April, and the doc confirmed there was a chance. Everything now is trial and error to see if his leg has healed from the phlebitis.

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Dot spent a lazy Sunday afternoon on her bed, reading magazines and listening to the radio. That’ll be the last lazy day for a while if she plans to have her school work completed and approved in time for a May 17th departure.

She received a letter from the Marine. He wrote about his luck in having been chosen to have dinner with none other than Ronald Coleman! Dot must have been so impressed. She writes that Jim (the Marine) writes an amusing letter, but that he is the most pessimistic person she’s ever known. That wouldn’t have much appeal to a girl like Dot. See, this is one example of how much we can learn about another person through letters. I often hear folks say that they find it remarkable that nearly all of my parents’ courtship was via letters. They question how well folks can really know each other that way. I think these letters demonstrate just how clearly someone’s personality is expressed through writing.

Speaking of which, Dot was very interested in Dart’s recent “philosophy” masterpiece. She loved learning more about what made him tick, even though she claims he is a much deeper thinker than she is.

She warned Dart again that she will be cutting back on writing soon to focus on school work. She pleaded with him to keep so busy getting better that he wouldn’t notice the absence of her letters. She closed by telling how embarrassed she was that she choked on the communion grape juice in church that morning.

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March 27, 1944

One-hundred five words is all Dart could manage today. He has bad news, but he is not telling Dot what it is – he’s hoping it will pass.

Also, if he is not well in 27 days he can be given a medical discharge from the Navy, which he does not want.

He sends his love.

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Dot liked Dart’s “poem” about kissin’, but since she hasn’t “mastered the art,” she’s unsure if the poem is true. She does recall one kiss in particular ‘though…

She asked Dart whether the Yanks or the Rebs won the battle over the ward’s radio. She explains that there is war raging in her room and she cannot understand why four seniors cannot get along without throwing tantrums. Andy seems to fly off the handle much faster than the others, and is slow to “fly back onto the handle.” Dot thinks everyone’s nerves are raw because they all want school to be over.

Continuing an on-going point of conversation, she agrees that the Chamberlain clan is a tall one. She is disappointed to be the shortest member of her family.  She writes that it was always her ambition to be 5’8″, but she meant tall – not wide. Then she goes on a rant about how Dart should face facts that she is not really “right-sized.” She bears the scars of her brother’s merciless teasing about how fat she is, and says she can take the truth from Dart. (Note to readers: Dot was NOT fat! She was certainly curvy, and always had a soft, hour-glass figure. But, as in so many other aspects of herself, she was self-conscious about her looks.)

She commiserates with Dart about being lonely, homesick and sometimes “lovesick.” She mentions a period about a year before when she had a crush on a college friend of her sister’s. They corresponded for a short time, although he never indicated any special feelings for Dot. He entered the Army and no one has heard from him since. She writes “This year, I do get very lonely, and I don’t mean for Mom to come tuck me in.”

She signs off with “Yours til I’m as thin as you are, and at the rate we’re both going, that’ll be forever.”

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March 28, 1944

Dart hints in the opening paragraph of good news awaiting Dot later in this letter. Then, he starts on a point-by-point response to her recent letters.

Near the end of the second page, he gets to the crux of things. He still refuses to tell her the bad news he alluded to yesterday, but he has two bits of positive information to report. The first is that he was up and about today and his leg seems to be better. Now he can focus very hard on getting well so that he might be able to see her before she leaves Ohio for several months in about a month. He also reported that he received a more than $80 refund from the IRS – big money in 1944!

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Dot thanks Dart for telling him what Cathie wrote. She finds it much easier to write about such feelings than to say them face-to-face. She hopes like anything that she’ll get to see him soon, but if she is too shy to tell him what’s in her heart, she hopes her letters have made it clear. She is so eager for him to get home for a visit, and doesn’t want to be disappointed.

She writes that she likes his sense of humor because it tends to run to the sarcastic side – just like hers.

She confesses to hating her job assignment as manager of the school store, and she admits that she feels like “blazes.” She’s not asking for sympathy from him – she just needs to get some sleep. And she wants Dart to come home!

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March 29, 1944

Dart disavows any claim of having “mastered the art” of kissing, but he recalls the same kiss Dot does and believes that’s a good basis for his poem.

The Rebs have won the war between the states that is being waged within the ward, but Nurse Meany has confiscated the radio for a few days cooling off period.

He agrees that nerves can sometimes get a little rough. He’s in a bad state right now. “Seems as if I’m losing my grip on things. The blue days are coming closer together, the humor’s getting stale and little green things seem to be running up and down my spine half the time! Oh, to the depths of perdition with everything except you and me.”

He riffs on himself coming from hearty stock, but he is the exception. Shorter than much of his family, and far too skinny to boot. “You’d think that with so little flesh covering my innards, that every bite I eat would make a lump.”

He emphatically denies that he was razzing Dot about her weight. He likes her just the way she is, and even if she’s not as tiny as the girl he dreamed he’d fall in love with, she’s the prettiest girl he’s ever dated. Besides that, they seem quite congenial in their letters. He hopes they’ll be just as congenial in person for many years to come. He recalls once reading a poem with the general thought that women often insult the taste of their male companions by contradicting the complimentary remarks the fellows make.

He comments on her revelation that she’d had a “torrid” unrequited crush a while back. He, too, had such a heart-breaking affair until the lady in question told him six times in a letter to go to hell six different ways.

Well, now that he’s come to page six of this letter, it’s time to reveal the news she’s been waiting for: First, he’s still up and about and his leg shows no ill-effect. That’s good. However, his surgical wound healed too fast, became infected and burst open recently. That’s bad. Tomorrow he’ll be transferred to the infected surgical ward. “No telling what they will do to or for me there, but I’m not any too anxious to experience any more experiences in the surgery ward.”

He then says that either something very wonderful must happen to him soon, or he is now paying for all the good things he’s already had in his life (or all the cuss words he’s used). On top of his health issues, his sea bag containing his personal belongings and Dot’s picture, has been lost without a trace. It was left behind in the barracks when he was transported via ambulance to the hospital weeks ago. Apparently, when his class completed boot camp, his sea bag was misplaced in the vast bowels of a major military installation.

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Dot is astounded that Dart has had another reversal in his health status . She fervently hopes he doesn’t receive a medical discharge. She also hopes she’ll be able to see him soon.

She had a letter from her friend Cynthia who is in Ohio to study piano at Oberlin. She’ll be in Cleveland over Easter and Dot is truly looking forward to seeing her. She always feels better after a visit with Cynthia because she’s so jolly and has a friendly word for everyone. I have fond memories of Cynthia when I was younger. She and Mom remained friends and I counted myself among Cynthia’s legions of fans. She had a laugh that could be heard for miles and got a huge kick out of life. She died far too young.

There’s not much more news from Willoughby, except that the weather has been extremely windy. It reminded Dot of the terrible hurricane she witnessed in New England in 1938.

She’s running behind on her store manager duties, so she must close and catch up.

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March 30, 1944

This is a short and despondent letter from Dart, written from a new ward at Great Lakes Naval Hospital. There are several cases like his in the ward and his new doctor describes his case as “quite a mess.” Still no word on what happens next.

Shortly after arriving by Packard ambulance, Dart was dressed in his uniform (blues) for the first time since January 25, and allowed outside on his own two feet to go to the post office. In spite of the progress he’s made with the phlebitis, the setback with his cyst surgery has truly beaten this boy down.

He remarks that Dot’s latest letter left little to comment on, and he’s not in much of a mood to comment anyway. As always, he sends her his love.

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March 31, 1944

Well, it’s a new day and Dart is in a different mood from yesterday. Is it because he’s had a chance to get used to his new situation? Does he find this ward to his liking? Or is this just his natural optimism gaining the upper hand? Dart credits his improved spirits to Dot’s faithfulness in writing.

But his venue has also improved. He has almost absolute freedom to explore the campus. The canteen has impressive amenities like stage shows, movie theater, and a barber shop. But best of all, the ward has no double deck beds! Can you imagine bunk beds in a hospital ward?

Dart seems to be in awe of all the junior officers on his ward who have been wounded in combat or are highly decorated with medals, stars and campaign ribbons.

He sent his parents some of the snapshots Dot had sent him earlier, just so they could see what she looks like. They were both full of high praise for her and are eager to meet her soon. He hopes that can be arranged before she’s out of school.

Dart is certain he will not be home before Dot leaves the Cleveland area for the summer. Such a bitter pill for them both, but he is trying not to be too disappointed. He looks forward to the day that he can tell her in person the feelings they are both more comfortable expressing in writing.

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April 1, 1944

Dart’s cheerful letter describes more of the wonders of his new digs. I’m not sure what all these features will do for his physical health, but they seem to work miracles for his mental state. One of the amenities Dart used was a telephone room to call his folks. They had not yet heard of his recent transfer, so they were glad to hear his voice when he broke the news to them.

He tells Dot of a nurse on his ward named Miss Petersen. When someone calls her, he answers, and vice versa. To avoid the confusion, Dart says one of them should leave. He’s hoping the nurse will be the one to stay!

He ends the letter with “I guess I’ve settled down for a long stay. By being pessimistic and believing in the worst, maybe I can help things to turn out better for us.”

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Dot begins with an apology for not writing for the past two days, even though she had warned him that school work might prevent her from doing so.

She effuses over Dart’s optimism and cheerfulness, even in difficult circumstances. She says that if the Navy doesn’t give medals for conduct or spirit while in the hospital, they certainly should. She’s amazed that he is so effective at keeping his negativity to himself most of the time and is able to inject so much humor into his letters. Seven decades after these letters were penned, I, too, am amazed by that. She gives him some well deserved sympathy for his current bad news, and asks his indulgence as she shares her “petty woes” with him.

She is really fed up with the roommate situation. One particular girl is driving Dot nuts, and the feeling is undoubtedly mutual. Dot claims that if they don’t get out of each other’s way soon, all that will be left is a mass of mutilated bodies. I find it interesting that Mom is still in touch with this particular roommate now that they are both in their late 80s. In truth, Mom still finds the other woman’s personality challenging, but their shared history and mutual friends have provided the glue that keeps the relationship intact.

Following the ongoing discussion on the height of both the Chamberlain and the Peterson clans, Dot agrees that neither of them is of the dwarf variety. She also commented on Dart’s assertion that no one actually falls in love with someone exactly like their dream lover. Dot begs to differ, because – except for a few additional pounds – Dart is a complete match to her dream guy.

She’s happy to hear that Jeanne is writing to Dart again, after the awkward “Dearest Dot” salutation he wrote on a recent letter to Jeanne. Dot would hate to be responsible for “breaking up a beautiful friendship.”

Dot would like to send Dart some new stationery, but would like some guidance on what he likes. Speaking of letters and stationery, she regrets to inform him that she has torn up all those letters that she’d said he could not read until after she was 21. On a second reading of them, she deemed them too immature and silly to preserve for posterity, so out they went.

She told about receiving her pay packet from her boss, Mr. Schwartz. When she saw she’d been overpaid, she tried to give some of the money back, but he refused. “You keep it and buy yourself an Easter present. You are my favorite salesgirl and you have more pep than anyone else in the store.” Dot was shocked! She warns Dart that he better watch out for the competition, because Mr. Schwartz is very nice, not bad looking, and at times, quite a character. (He’s also pushing 60, so I doubt he can really give Dart much of a run.)

In a closing that might have gone completely over Dart’s non-sport’s minded head, Dot wrote “I’m in there pitching for you, so let’s see a hit that’ll bring you home!

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April 2, 1944

Jubilation! Dart was nearly speechless with joy from the five minute phone conversation he’d just had with Dot! He was so excited to be hearing her voice that he doesn’t recall much of what they said to each other. He does remember, however, that Dot said something about stalling for as long as possible before leaving school, in hopes they could see each other.

The only thing left for him to say was that he must wrap up this brief note so that he could write his folks the news about his phone call with Dot. Isn’t it sweet that this young man feels like sharing his feelings about his girl so openly with his parents? What a sweet and gentle man he was, then and always.

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Dot’s letter reflects awe and enthusiasm equal to Dart’s about the phone call. She’s walking on air and pinching herself, simultaneously. She paints a funny picture of the scene when she was called to the phone this afternoon, drawing in the bit players of roommate Cathie, a guy named Art Cain and housemother Mrs. Woodworth.

She told about a dream she had recently where Dart and his parents were having dinner at Dot’s place. Dart spilled some gravy down his shirt and his mother really laid into him. Then Mrs. Peterson did the same thing. The scene switched to Dart drying dishes with an apron on – a role Dot says he looked quite well playing.

She’ll be leaving Thursday at noon to spend the Easter weekend at Janice’s house in Cleveland. Meanwhile, she needs to write to her mother and send a wedding anniversary card to brother Gordon. I get the feeling she’d rather stay up all night writing to Dart.

She orders him not to talk back to the doctor – to be a good patien so he will get that leave!

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April 3, 1944

This letter tells of a work detail that Dart was assigned to in the hospital.  The task was sanding, waxing and polishing the “deck” between wards. Dart’s sanding job consisted of attaching steel wool to his feet and shuffling around for a long time. I neglected to mention a tidbit from one of his letters a few days ago: Because of his infected wound, he has nearly no restrictions, except he cannot sit. After a day of sanding on his feet, his legs were throbbing. His hospital experience just gets weirder all the time!

No more news. He misses Dot’s letters, but knows she’s working hard on school assignments.

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Dot started a letter while listening to the “Thin Man” and picked it up the next day during study hall.

She understands that he won’t be home for her prom, so she will save all her sock darning until the night of the dance. Her school work is progressing so slowly that she predicts she won’t be leaving campus for the summer until mid-June, so she hopes they’ll have a chance to see each other – or at least talk on the phone.

There’s been a long running discussion about which movie star Dot’s roommate Andy declares herself to look like. Some time ago, she told Dot to  tell Dart that she looks like Betty Grable. When she learned that Dart is not especially fond of Grable, she now says she meant to say Lana Turner. Dot reports that Andy has just bleached her hair to create a closer resemblance.

The store is driving Dot nuts and she is questioning her choice of retailing as a career.  There seems to be a lot that is driving Dot nuts these days. Sounds like a serious case of “senioritis.”

She is shy about meeting, or even calling Dart’s parents, but she will try to gather the courage to call them when she’s in Cleveland this weekend. Dart would love for all his favorite people to meet, even if he can’t be with them.

She wraps up the letter with “That’s all for now, but oh, what I could say if I had time!”

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