Category Archives: 11. August 1944

August 22, 1944

Finally! A brief word from Dart. He offers no explanation for several days without writing, but he sure was happy to receive four letters from Dot over the past two days.

He’s heard from Fred who’s in Hawaii but unattached to a permanent unit.

Dart went out on a disappointing liberty last night with the guys from his class. He sounds rather sour about it, saying it wasn’t worth the 10 cent car fare or the 70 cents for a lousy spaghetti dinner. He’s decided he’d have more fun alone, seeking out a railroad and better places to eat.

He was hoping to write a longer letter tonight, but after dinner, his group learned they had to wash their hammocks before inspection tomorrow morning, so his time was spent scrubbing it clean.

Because his sore throat persists, he has been ordered to see the doctor and is forbidden to swim for at least 10 days, just as he felt like he was getting the hang of it.

He has to write home to his folks, so he signs off.

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Here’s an even briefer letter from Dot, referencing a postcard she recently received from Dart. She says she’d rather have a card than nothing at all.

Mrs. Miller has offered her a job for the fall and winter. It would require that she live at the Miller’s home and be available to help fix dinner and watch the kids when the parents are out. Her dad advises against it because he thinks she’d feel too tied down. Dot is leaning toward accepting it because she needs the money.

Her mother has written that the canoe at the cottage is in good repair and offers great entertainment and exercise. Dot plans to make good use of it during her Labor Day visit, but wishes Dart could be with her so she could teach him how to operate a canoe.

She winds up the letter by saying “Though this letter ends on page one, my love for you will never end.”

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August 23, 1944

Once again, Dot is a solo correspondent today and she turns the tables on Dart by doing a little bragging of her own. She had the highest sales tally at Franklin Simons this week, due to her selling a blended muskrat fur coat for $252.00. In an effort to keep up her tally, she asks Dart, “Sir, would you be interested in giving your mother a beautiful beaver coat which only costs a mere $695.00?”

She tells Dart she got the surprise of her life today when she ran across a girl she attended grammar school with who now has two children. She also got a letter telling of the immanent marriage of a classmate from Andrews. “What fools these mortals be,” quotes Dot.

In other news, she learned that her despised retailing teacher, Miss Hutton will not be returning to school this fall. Dot bemoans the fact that she didn’t leave a year earlier, thereby saving her a lot of grief.

Finally, Andrews is adding two courses this school year; Latin and the Bible. Dot deems both of them essential to this year’s seniors. With that, her news is done, and she bids him good night.

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August 24, 1944

From Dart, a scant one page letter; 102 words from a rushed and busy sailor. He is neglecting his family as much as he is Dot, and can’t even promise to make it up to her tomorrow night. He has duty tomorrow and will have too much work to do.

He assures her of his love, in spite of his lax behavior. He deeply appreciates her “super-dooper” letters.

That’s all.

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August 25, 1944

We have two letters today – both from Dot. She tells Dart that she received, and has already answered, a letter from his mother. She also tells him that she is sitting in the living room at that very moment with a coat on. It is 52 degrees in Greenwich. She wonders how her mother and brother are staying warm in their summer cottage in New Hampshire. It seems that when the heat wave broke, it shattered!

“Isn’t it nice to know there’s always the weather to talk about? I don’t know how I’d fill a page without it,” she writes. This is especially true when she’s had no letters to respond to of late. During this unusual dry spell from Dart, it’s easy to see how important it was to the relationship that both of our writers maintained an almost constant stream of letters, month after month. If either had procrastinated regularly, the gaps between letters would have grown. With less immediacy, the responses might have seemed less intimate. If the correspondence had become lopsided, one person or the other might have become resentful. Although Dot has not complained once during these recent days, I am grateful that long lapses on the part of either party were the exception. It is the continuous and even flow of letters that allowed the relationship to flourish over long absences  and very infrequent face-to-face contact. If they hadn’t both been such loyal correspondents, they may not have ended up married. Indeed, I may have never been born! See why I’m so grateful they wrote as they did?

Dot is preparing to attend El’s surprise bridal shower this evening. She’s purchased two place settings of the everyday dinnerware El has selected. The couple plans to marry on Dec. 4 if Don is successful in graduating on Dec. 2. I believe I have mentioned earlier that things didn’t work out the way they planned…

This being Dot’s half day off, she intends to get the whole house clean today. She says the house never seems large to her until she has to clean it. Well, it was a three-story home with huge rooms, so I’d say it would be a major achievement to get the entire place clean after a half day of working elsewhere!

She wishes Dart continued luck on his swimming lessons (unaware that he’s been temporarily banned from participating) and wishes him luck on his “suicide jump.” I don’t recall reading about that, so I’m not sure what she means.

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In her second letter of the day, Dot reports in after the bridal shower. It turned out to be a complete surprise for the bride and a great success. El received beautiful and practical gifts, with no duplicates among them. Dot describes some sort of game they played which was meant to predict who among the unmarried girls at the party would be the next to wed, and how many babies each would eventually have. The game might have been rigged, because Dot “won” the next-to-get-married title and was deemed to have five children in her future.

She promises to answer the two letters she received today from Dart  tomorrow night. She also thanks him for the pictures he sent. “They make you seem a little closer, yet you still feel worlds away from Greenwich, Conn.”

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August 26, 1944

This letter from Dart seems to be continuing a little trend I’ve noticed lately; it seems to be all about him. I’m not sure what drives this, but I’m confident it will pass. Meanwhile, we will be treated to a dull and detailed description of his recent tests and all the second-guessing of his answers until he gets his scores.

He reports the pool has been closed and is due to reopen the day his doctor’s prohibition expires. Apparently the Navy has decided to reinforce the roof from which the 17-foot diving platform is suspended.

The other day he spent his liberty riding the train to Berkley. On board, he met a couple of railroad buffs who gave him some tips on where to find the California Railway Historical Society. He believes a couple of his railroad fan classmates and he will go in search of some of these treasures on their next liberty. (He says they’ll “track” down some clues.)

At the top of the fourth page, he finally turns his attention to Dot. He asks her to imagine the rest of the page filled in with “I love yous” and other gentle whispers. But now it is time for lunch.

I suspect Dot will read and re-read every word of this letter, if for no other reason than the pages passed through the hands of her beloved.

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I’m beginning to wonder if I am missing a letter from Dart. In this letter, Dot refers to a couple of things from his letters that I don’t recall reading. First, she thanks him for clearing up the definition of Fire Control for her. While she claims to still not fully understand it, she appreciates his efforts.

Then she goes on a little riff about “Chopsticks.” It’s her favorite “composition”  because it is the only tune she can play.  Perhaps Dart mentioned playing it on the “sweet potato,” because she mentions that would be one of the million variations on the tune.

Once again she comments on his talk about his fire control classes. She claims that she still doesn’t get it, but if he keeps talking about it, she may someday find it interesting. Well, that was direct!

She tells Dart that she has accepted Mrs. Miller’s offer to live at the Miller home and care for the boys. She comments how ironic it is that she lived away at school for 3 years and now that she’s back in town, she’ll soon be living in someone else’s house.

She fills another page with silly trivia like practicing her cursive writing so that she may someday endorse checks. Admitting that there’s nothing left to write, she closes.

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August 27, 1944

Well, Dart is back. Here’s a long, interesting, tender letter – some of it answering Dot’s letters, but much of it coming straight from his heart.

He and his buddies didn’t find much during their search of Oakland, except “where things and people had been.” He says the town of Oakland stinks. And it smells bad, too. However, for once, he and the guys were warm; in fact they were warm enough to perspire – a new and pleasant sensation for them in California.

Dart has noticed that some of Dot’s recent letters have arrived with their stamps on upside down, like so many of her early letters. Knowing that is a code for “I love you,” he’s very happy to see them pop up occasionally. It gives him a little secret thrill.

He is in complete agreement that they must not let a trivial thing like swimming spoil their beautiful relationship. He actually says that as he gets more comfortable in the water, he’s actually starting to enjoy swimming a little. Then he says something very sweet. “I certainly never intend to let kids of mine (if I ever get married and have any) grow up with such a fear of the water as I’ve had, or without learning to swim.” He kept his word and always encouraged my siblings and me to have loads of fun in the lake, pool or ocean.

Dart razzes Dot a little bit about the two of them honeymooning in different places. Naturally, he says he’d be terribly disappointed if that should happen! It’s cute how casual they both are about their foregone conclusion that they will marry someday. Dart claims to not want to get ahead of himself and say too much, too soon. Dot cautions that there’s no need to move so fast. But the fact that they share this particular dream is the subtext of nearly every letter. How well they know themselves and each other after so little time spent together!

Dart has a fervent wish that Dot’s father will see to it she becomes fully “domesticated” by the end of the war. It sounds a little chauvinistic by today’s standards, but in 1944, I suspect nearly every young man had hopes of his wife being expert at all the household “arts.”

In the next paragraph, Dart responds to Dottie’s incredulity that her brother Doug could be homesick for his father while enjoying a vacation at the beautiful Lake Sunapee. “Just at those times when things are going well or when nice things are happening, you are apt to wish for loved ones to be there and share the joy.” He recalls his days in Cleveland after returning from  his brief visit to Greenwich. He was having a great time with all his friends and enjoying his leave tremendously, but he still longed to be with Dot and he missed her acutely.

That thought was followed quickly by a companion thought. “We just have to get me that leave for your graduation,” he said. “Keep hoping and praying and maybe it’ll come true like some of our other dreams.”

After some other light chat, he begins to wind the letter down so that he can grab some breakfast. He feels a great need to be home, once and for all. His father writes that he believes Germany will be defeated in September. Fred jokes that he has “seen the schedule” and that all the boys will be home for Christmas of 1945. That still seems like a long time from now. So much can happen in 16 months!

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August 28, 1944

Dart starts his letter in an impish mood. He writes the first paragraph in a kind of Russian or Eastern European accent, thanking her for the letters and the package. The sewing kit she sent was exactly what he wanted. He thinks she’ll be able to fatten him up with all the candy she sends, which is much better than what he can find on Treasure Island.

He claims that the news about his grades is not so good, but he doesn’t go into much detail. He agrees to comply with her request and talk shop less frequently. He’ll only mention whether his progress is satisfactory or “otherwise.”

How happy he is that she likes his portrait so much! “I was, by the way, wearing my best (and only) set of teeth and my best toupee. Maybe that explains the Cheshire Cat grin.”

He writes a paragraph about the infrequent exchange of letters between him and his family. Burke is starting his senior year at Shaw High School and Dart sounds like the old man, reminiscing about how recently  he and his brother were playing with toy soldiers and acting out Buck Rogers in their wagons.

Before signing off for bed, he agrees that this has been a wonderful 11 months for him, as well. He loves her so much and her letter today made him very, very happy. “Now it’s my turn to thank you for the ‘purdy’ things you say.”

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Dot’s only offering today is a rushed little post card. No news, babysitting, off to work, can’t wait to get o Sunapee on Saturday, wishes Dart could come.

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August 29, 1944

Dart writes a newsy letter in response to several he’s received from Dot. He has no sage advice for her regarding the job offer from Mrs. Miller. He says it’s strictly her decision, but if she takes it, he hopes the Millers will spend their time at home if he ever gets back to Greenwich. “I probably won’t ever get there during the war, but if I manage to survive, I’ll most surely come there, especially if we still love each other so much.”

He would like to get to New Hampshire someday so he can learn to use that canoe. He can’t imagine a more charming instructor that Dottie herself.

A detailed description of last weekend’s liberty followed. He and Leffman went into ‘Frisco. They bought tickets for a show later that evening and then went over to Oakland to see that city  in the daylight. Let’s just say his opinion of the town was not improved after his second impression.

Before going to the show, Dart got an invitation to a dinner at the home of one of the girls from that party a few weeks ago. He went, and later rejoined Leffman for the variety show.

He returned to the barracks for the night and headed back into San Francisco on Sunday afternoon with three friends. They went to Golden Gate Park to soak up some welcomed sunshine. While there, they decided to rent some bikes which they rode for a couple of hours. All those hills lead to some pretty achy muscles the next day. The bike ride also gave Dart’s back (surgical scar) the most serious workout it has had for months.

They took a trolley to the Pacific and back to Market Street for supper. While they were standing on the corner waiting for an interurban car to take them out to San Mateo, they decided to play their Tonettes and “sweet potatoes” to pass the time. Just before the car came, a man crossed the street to tell them he’d enjoyed listening to them play. “I play a little guitar myself,” he said. “Why not come over to my house and we can jam for a bit.” Forsaking San Mateo, they went with the man. “Imagine a quartet of those queer little whistles accompanied by a guitar,” he writes. Thanks, I think I’d rather not.

He tells about the four of them standing on the open platform of the train, playing some more lively tunes while the conductor lady jitterbugged in the aisle. I’m ashamed to see that he used a racially charged obscenity in this story, so completely unlike the father I knew. But I guess we’ve covered that ground before. It’s simply proof that people can mature and improve with age and sensitivity.

Temperatures that day rose to a season record high of 83 in ‘Frisco and 89 in Oakland. Treasure Island remains cooler.

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A few brief lines is all Dot can manage, with her job and preparing meals for her dad.

She’s eager to get to the lake, even though her mother says the winds are so fierce they may blow her over. Dot has decided to try to get some fishing in while there, hoping to break her four -foot record catch. Then she adds, “Don’t be taken in my by fish story.”

She tells Dart not to work too hard, that she hopes his sore throat is completely gone and that she loves him.

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August 30, 1944

Dart was happy to get another letter from Dot today, as well as a letter from her mother, written at Sunapee. The more he hears about the Chamberlain’s summer place, the more eager he is to see it.

He asks Dot if she has ever been in an airplane. (I suspect that in 1944, there were a fair number of 18-year olds who had never flown.) A couple of the guys in his class have their commercial pilot license and Dart has been chewing the fat with them about what it’s like to fly. Speaking of planes, he did very poorly on his recognition test this week. He may be ordered to go to night school to catch up on the material. “So there go your illusions of genius. Don’t forget that I flunked out of Case. That doesn’t seem much like the work of a master mind either, does it?”

Once again he mentions that Burke will be starting his senior year at Shaw High School soon and that his girlfriend has moved back into the city to finish at Shaw. He hopes that means Burke will spend more time closer to home on Sunday afternoons. His parents get bored and lonely on the weekends because they can’t really get far from their apartment. Dart Sr. uses all their gas rations to get to and from work and running errands for his brother Guy.

A little background on Dart Sr. and Guy. Dart was the younger of two sons and Guy was the highly favored child. In fact, the stories I’ve heard of the way Dart Sr. was treated by his mother seem to come straight from a Dickens story. Although my grandfather was a very smart man who loved learning, only Guy went to college. In fact, he graduated medical school while Dart was forced to forego schooling altogether. As adults, Guy treated Dart like a hired hand – there were times when he actually paid Dart to do menial labor for him. Dart Jr. writes in this letter that Guy and both of his daughters each had their own car, but these well-to-do relatives thought nothing of forcing Dart and Helen to use their own gas rations to do their bidding. No wonder Dart sounds a little bitter about it.

There’s a brief paragraph about how strange it is to run into high school chums who are married, engaged, or parents already. Considering Dart is only two years out of high school, I can see how that would be a bit shocking.

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Dot is counting down the hours until she is at her beloved Lake Sunapee for the first time in three years. It was four years ago that her parents dropped her off at the train in Albany while on their way home from the lake. That train took her to Cleveland and her destiny. She is grateful she took that trip, or “I would never have met you and my life would have been wasted.” On second thought, she prefers to think they would have found each other some other way.

El is also excited about the upcoming weekend. Don has a week long furlough and they will spend several days of it in Providence, RI with his parents.

Dot writes that tomorrow is her parent’s 29th wedding anniversary and she thinks they’ve pretty much decided to stick it out for another few years. Sadly, Dot was too accurate with the term “few years.” Arthur Chamberlain would live only about five more years, dying far too young of pneumonia following a heart attack.

Dot is now the only sales clerk left in her department. Even though the staff keeps leaving, the merchandise continues to arrive. Today, Dot was “buried alive” in a shipment of sweaters that she had to check in, unpack and place on display. She thinks she must be a little nuts, but she has loads fun doing all that retail work. Of course, our Dot seems to have fun with almost everything she does.

Before closing, she poses a question for Dart. “By the way, your letters seem different lately. Is it just that you’re terribly busy, or is something else the matter?” She urges him not to write if there is something else he should be doing.

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August 31, 1944

Dart’s sweet letter is written “in the face of great obstacles.” He’s surrounded by a large group of guys singing everything from “The Old Rugged Cross” to “Dirty Gerty from Bizerte” very loudly and exuberantly. The spots on the paper are from an orange thrown by “some coarse person who doesn’t appreciate the beauty and value of good music. Or maybe one who does.”

He agrees that El’s shower sounds like it was a very nice party. He suspects El had something to do with all those knots ending up with Dot. He hopes he’ll have a hand in making some of those superstitions come true at some future date.

He expects this week’s tests to be challenging, so he plans to study long and hard. He warns her not to expect a letter, because he won’t be writing one tomorrow.

After telling about the gas drills using four types of actual war gasses and the stinging eyes that followed, he slips in a troubling little tidbit; if he were not worried about ending up back in the hospital again, he’d turn himself in for a look at his back. It isn’t causing him great pain, but it is bothering him. Anyone who knows what that back has cost him would certainly understand his concern.

By the time Dot gets this letter, she will have returned from Lake Sunapee. He sends her happy wishes for a wonderful visit and sends her his love, as well.

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