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October 20, 1943

On October 20, 1943, a correspondence began which would grow to 6,000 hand-written pages over three and a half years. It spanned the globe and laid the foundation for an epic romance.

The stars of this story are my parents. You can find an introduction to them on the “Background” section of this site.

This blog is my commitment to share their incredible war-time correspondence day-by-day, as it originally unfolded. Here, you will see images of their letters, pictures of Mom and Dad and a little commentary about what was going on around them as they exchanged their letters. I welcome questions and comments and I hope my mother and my siblings will chime in with details and more stories.

The Set-up

The first letter from Dart came very shortly after the two teenagers met on a group blind date. The date was arranged by a classmate of Dot’s at Andrews School for Girls. It involved four girls from that school and four guys from Case University in Cleveland. Dot and Dart were not each other’s assigned dates that night, but they only had eyes for each other. In this first letter, Dart is returning a little program from the dance they had all attended that Dot had asked him to hold for her. He wastes no time in asking her out for her next “date night,” an occasion which did not occur very often at Andrews School. We get a clue to his character when he writes that he hopes her next scheduled date night is not this coming Saturday, because he’s already made rather firm plans. He says he could get out of them, but it would require telling a whale of a lie – which he is most reluctant to do.

Dart keeps the letter light and newsy, but his intentions are clear. He wants to hear from her!

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October 22 – Present Day

Well, there are no new letters to post until the 24th, so that gives me a chance to reflect on this letter-writing thing Dot and Dart had going on.

When I spoke to Mom after posting the first letter, she was a little nervous, but mostly excited. “I could never have imagined when I was writing those letters on my bed in that freezing dorm room, that 70 years in the future, people would be reading them,” she said. “It’s still hard to believe that images of those old pages are showing up on my computer.”

That got me thinking once again about the differences between the hand-written correspondence of a past age and the electronic communication we rely on now.  I’m trying not to judge which way is better, because I see the advantages of each method.  In years past, the recipient of a letter had a more direct connection to the writer. They could study the hand-writing and maybe catch a whiff of perfume oR after shave lingering on the pages. Can we feel that connected by the choice of font an email  writer uses?

In the old days, the time it sometimes took between a letter being written and then answered allowed both parties to reflect on what was said. Responses could mellow or evolve over the course of a few days. Today we have “instant” communication.  Skype and FaceTime even allow us to see and hear each other. I’m so grateful for those advances when I think about our military families today. How blessed they are to have almost face-to-face chats while separated by continents. Wouldn’t Dart and Dot have given almost everything they had to share that kind of closeness during WWII?

I have to wonder, though. Will someone be reminiscing in 2083 over a string of emails and texts sent by their loved one way back in 2013? Will families preserve them in a special place and count them among their greatest treasures?

October 24, 1943

Dart’s second letter to Dot reveals that she has cemented the positive first impression she made on him.  It also suggests that he is corresponding with a number of other people.  As their relationship develops, we will learn that most of Dart’s pen pals are buddies from high school who are in various branches of service all over the world.

Our two “kids” have already discovered they have a few things in common. They are both students and they each share their living quarters with multiple people. More importantly, both can tell funny stories about the antics of their roommates and poke fun at themselves as well.

Dart’s suggestion that Dot invite herself to ride along with a classmate who is coming home to Cleveland for a date with one of Dart’s friends underscores how eager he is to see her again.  Will she manage to come to the big city for a second evening with this young sailor?

He begins and ends his letter with positive assessments of her letter to him; first on the content, and then on its neatness. This marks the beginning of a lifetime of Dart finding things to admire about Dottie.

To read the letters, click on the pages below.

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November 3, 1943

Dart explains his lack of letters when he writes this one from a westbound train.  Although  this letter doesn’t go  into detail, he is finished with the engineering program at Case and is being assigned for active duty. First stop, Great Lakes naval base near Chicago.

We see in this letter his first reference to one of the great loves of his life – trains.  He mentions having to pack up his model railroad layout from his university housing before leaving town, and he talks about being distracted from letter-writing because he wants to see everything he can out the train window.

One of my favorite passages of this letter is “It seems the Navy works fastest when a fellow would like to see his girl and say good-bye to her. I tried to get some of the leave which is due to me, mainly so I could get out to see you Saturday, but the Skipper seemed to think the Navy was more important. Dag-gone his hide.”

This paragraph seems so poignant when put in the context of a young man with a new love interest who is being sent off to war. Think of the questions that must have nagged at him:  Where am I going and how long will I be gone? Will she write? Will I see her again? Will I be coming home?

I have to smile at his use of the name Dorothy in the salutation. I believe the only time Dot ever tolerated being called that was when she had no choice.  Perhaps she associated it with being in trouble with a parent or teacher.  How long will it be before she tells him to cease and desist?

Dart gets a little wistful at the end and boldly signs his name “Yours with love, Dart.” I think the young sailor is smitten.

To read the letter in Dart’s own hand, just click on the images below. Most computers will allow you to magnify the images which is a handy tool on this letter – written in pencil on a moving train.

Also, thanks to my sister Nancy who sent me a great photo of the young couple. See it on the Photographs page of this blog.

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November 4, 1943

This brief note was Dart’s first from his new place in the “real” Navy.  Among all the fresh new recruits at boot camp, Dart and his fellow “washouts” from the V-12 unit at Case seem like worldly old men. Dart immediately finds himself placed in a position of minor authority.

There’s little time for sweet talk in this letter, but he signs it once again with “Yours, with love, Dart.” A new addition, however is the little “dart” he draws beneath his signature.

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November 5, 1943

This is the shortest letter yet from Dart- in fact, it may be the shortest of the 1,000 letters he will write over the next few years.  He is so short on time that he dispenses with the “Dorothy” salutation and opts for “Dot.” He speaks somewhat modestly about his assignment as a sort of assistant drill master.

With Dart apparently distracted by all that is new and different in his current circumstances, I wonder how Dot felt when she received this quick and somewhat impersonal note.

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November 7, 1943: Two-letter day

From Dart comes another slightly distracted letter with more details about daily life at Navy boot camp.  He is particularly unenthusiastic about beans for breakfast.

Since this letter is written before he has received any mail at camp, he has nothing to respond to from Dot’s letters to him.

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From Dot comes a typically chatty letter about life at Andrews.  She’s a little less reserved about letting Dart know she likes him and misses him.

My favorite passage is “How’s the place been treating you these days?  Hope they haven’t worked you too hard. I think if they worked any of what little there is of you off, you’d be ‘Just a Memory.'” Let’s face it, the man was skinny!

How hard it must have been for these two people to keep thinking of things to write nearly every day. I mean, they barely knew each other, and there has been a period of a few days with no letters being received on either end. I guess this was good practice for that time in the future when mail would not catch up with them for weeks. Personally, I am very glad they kept up the correspondence even when they didn’t have much to say.

Dot is already daydreaming about the day Dart gets his post-training leave. She imagines it will be around the 15th of December so that they will have about a week to see each other before she returns to Connecticut for the holidays. It’s hard to guess which one of these kids is more infatuated with the other, but they both seem to be in pretty deep after a few short weeks.

Dot’s mother is returning home on the night train this evening. I think a certain young lady will feel mighty lonesome over the next few weeks, with both her her family and her fella far, far away.

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November 8, 1943 – Another bonus day

Dart’s letter tells of finally receiving two letters in his first mail call. (One from Dot, the other from his mother.) He swings back and forth throughout the letter between a wistful homesick tone and painting a more detailed picture of a “gob’s” life.  My favorite passage is “The worst thing about getting letters from friends is that the very letters you wait for are the ones which make you the most homesick.” He thanks Dot for the picture she sent and adds “I just sat and looked at it for a long time before I even started to read your letter.  Keep on writing letters like that and keep a sailor proud and happy.”

As he shares some of the daily happenings in his barracks, I can just see Dot drinking in all the details. I know she wants to be able to picture exactly where he is and what his days are like.

He signs off with “Love, (and some X’s, too).”

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Now it’s Dot’s turn to be happy about receiving a letter. She compliments him on his obvious leadership ability.

I love her little story about finally having the courage to break the wishbone that her sister had sent to her via their mother.  This practical, sensible girl is surprisingly superstitious about a the power of a wishbone. She is nervous her roommate will get the wish. Phew! Dot wins! She doesn’t reveal what her wish was, but I suspect it had something to do with a certain young “sea-scout.” I wonder if Mom remembers all these years later what she wished for that day.

More tales about dorm life follow. My favorite is the one about her and her roommate trying to write letters in their room, but they are constantly being interrupted. Then, when people leave, no one closes the door. Finally, these self-professed “lazy seniors” (Dot and the roomie) start throwing shoes at the door rather than getting up to close it.

Dot encloses a pack of gum for Dart and promises to make him some fudge when he’s home for Christmas. It’s my guess that her talk of being together at Christmas was far sweeter to Dart than any gum or fudge could ever be!

Time and again as I read these letters, I am grateful for the permanence of the written word. Across great distance and time, these letters will be read and reread, combed for nuance and detail, searched for deeper meaning and cherished for the mere fact that the pages were once held by hands that are so terribly missed. You can’t do that with a phone call!

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November 9, 1943 -doubles again! (2 letters)

Dart’s tone seems less lonely in this letter, and he explains why in the first paragraph – another letter from Dot appears to have kept the homesickness at bay. In fact, he told her that if she keeps on writing to him, it’ll be a cure for homesickness, but not an end to his desire to see her again. When he puts his intentions front and center like that, it’s hard to believe it’s been less than three weeks since he wrote his first letter to her.

He refers to the party for Dot’s mom that she’d mentioned in her letter. He has read beyond Dot’s cheerful report of that event to glean the fact that his girl is probably missing her mother a lot after a brief visit. My favorite part is when he says “Gee whiz, here we are, a bunch of would-be big(?), strong (?) men (?), all wanting to go home, when you, a sweet, gentle girl can take it for so long. I admire your courage and fortitude.” How perceptive and sympathetic of him!

What follows is a little exchange of the newsy “gossip” about mutual acquaintances and some dreaming or hoping about time spent together on some future leave. He even told her if he got home to Cleveland during her Christmas break, he would hitch hike to Greenwich!

He talks about drilling outside for over two hours in the bitter Chicago weather and then mentions that they still have not received their GI clothing, so no one has gloves or coats! A fine way to treat a volunteer Navy!  He ends the letter with some tender thoughts.

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What can the reader learn about this young woman from her letter? She’s a “fiend” for corn and she likes Harry James and his trumpet playing. She’s a self-admitted day dreamer. (Is that because she has someone wonderful to dream about these days?) Most of all, she can weave a good story about whatever is happening in her life at the moment.

Dart must eat this stuff up! He is surrounded by drab barracks, countless men and boring work details. Then in comes a letter filled with sparkling banter about girlie things, happy things, everyday things, all delivered with a sharp wit and breezy style. It had to have been a huge morale booster to read Dot’s letters.

Speaking of reading Dot’s letters – when I spoke with Mom yesterday, she told me how much she enjoyed seeing this blog. “But,” she said, “No one is making any comments, so I think you and I are the only ones paying attention.” I know a few folks have told me they’re checking this blog periodically. If you’re one of them, please drop a comment now and then to let Mom know. Maybe you can ask her a question about something you read in the letters. There’s nothing quite like going to the source!

 

November 10, 1943 – Two more…

We open with a very short letter from Dart, which apparently contained a small token, left over from his first GI haircut. In his own words, “I’m better dressed now, but I look and feel naked.   … There isn’t enough hair left on my head for anyone to grab with a pair of tweezers.”

He has been recruited by the Chief to do the special assignment of stenciling everyone’s belongings – a task that will take a week and will be done on his “own” time.  He warns her his letters will be shorter for awhile.

His P. S. Reveals that sailors are not allowed to put S. W. A. K. on the outside of an envelope, so he put it on the inside.

Do kids these days know what S.W. A. K. means? Do they know what an envelope is?

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In Dot’s letter of the day. she’s a little more open with the compliments than usual, but apparently doesn’t want to wade in too deep. After lavishing high praise on Dart by telling him about the raves he got from all the girls at Andrews, she quips “So, you see, you make a pretty good 1st impression, anyway. (Ouch!)”

Dot chastises Dart mildly for all his references to his “messy” letters, reminding him “What I look for in a letter isn’t the handwriting, I assure you!”

She tells an amusing story about an episode at dinner and reminds him to send another picture of himself (“Just a hint – there’s no limit as to what size picture we can have on our dresser.”) My favorite part is when she is commenting on his use of Case stationary. “I hate to be reminded of a school that didn’t have the sense to keep a good man once they had him.”

She signs off with an atypical “Loads of Love, Dot.”

There’s another letter from Dot written later that day, but since she did not write on the 10th of November, I’ll save it for tomorrow.

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